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nonovurbizniz · 03-24-2003, 11:29 PM

The only girls who complain and say... guys are such jerks I wish I could find a nice guy.... are attracted to jerks that's why they keep meeting them... they don't REALLY want a nice guy...

I think you problem is follow through or breaking the sexual tension... If you can talk to a girl... like at a party or bar... if she smiles more than she just listens... you could have dated her or at least gotten her number...

You have to keep sex an underlying theme.... not to be dirty or like you just trying to get laid.... but if you don't keep the relationship headed in that direction or at least open to that aspect of normal life you will INSTANTLY be moved into the friend zone. Just make sure she knows you like her for her....butt want her too...

Once a girl thinks "oh he's such a nice guy" she's thinking about curling up with you on the couch watching golden girls (to your dismay) and gossiping about how her leather pant wearing boyfriend gives it to her great but always wants to leave right after...

And just to let you know there ARE girls who are attracted (strongly sexually attracted) to nice guys. If you look the part or seem really sweet to everyone... those girls in the back (wallflowers) who are looking at you with those innocent eyes are wishing beyong ALL wishes that you would dominate and ravish them... believe me I have a REALLY innocent dorky look even though that's not really inline with my personality (well I'm a dork but...not innocent or really all that sweet(maybe at heart but certainly not at mouth)) and girls who I never would have guessed wanted me did... and girls I figured were WAY too innocent to do anything had their pants around there ankles faster than I previously though possible (I know you don't want one night stands or whatever but just cuz the pants come off fast don't mean you don't go back for second etc.)..

My point is that ALL your problems are in YOUR head... if someone says no or rejects you who cares... there are a million more girls out there...

DO NOT APPROACH GIRLS YOU HAVE ALREADY BEEN FRIENDIZED BY.... The post-friend conversion is a move to be held in reverence... not for the beginner.

Just be confident in yourself and make your intensions clear... it's all the conversation that F's up a good chance at a relationship sometimes... there's gotta be the WHOLLY CRAP I WANT HIM too.

03-24-2003, 11:29 PM	#10
nonovurbizniz Registered User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: ECUSA Age: 48 Posts: 2,693	The only girls who complain and say... guys are such jerks I wish I could find a nice guy.... are attracted to jerks that's why they keep meeting them... they don't REALLY want a nice guy... I think you problem is follow through or breaking the sexual tension... If you can talk to a girl... like at a party or bar... if she smiles more than she just listens... you could have dated her or at least gotten her number... You have to keep sex an underlying theme.... not to be dirty or like you just trying to get laid.... but if you don't keep the relationship headed in that direction or at least open to that aspect of normal life you will INSTANTLY be moved into the friend zone. Just make sure she knows you like her for her....butt want her too... Once a girl thinks "oh he's such a nice guy" she's thinking about curling up with you on the couch watching golden girls (to your dismay) and gossiping about how her leather pant wearing boyfriend gives it to her great but always wants to leave right after... And just to let you know there ARE girls who are attracted (strongly sexually attracted) to nice guys. If you look the part or seem really sweet to everyone... those girls in the back (wallflowers) who are looking at you with those innocent eyes are wishing beyong ALL wishes that you would dominate and ravish them... believe me I have a REALLY innocent dorky look even though that's not really inline with my personality (well I'm a dork but...not innocent or really all that sweet(maybe at heart but certainly not at mouth)) and girls who I never would have guessed wanted me did... and girls I figured were WAY too innocent to do anything had their pants around there ankles faster than I previously though possible (I know you don't want one night stands or whatever but just cuz the pants come off fast don't mean you don't go back for second etc.).. My point is that ALL your problems are in YOUR head... if someone says no or rejects you who cares... there are a million more girls out there... DO NOT APPROACH GIRLS YOU HAVE ALREADY BEEN FRIENDIZED BY.... The post-friend conversion is a move to be held in reverence... not for the beginner. Just be confident in yourself and make your intensions clear... it's all the conversation that F's up a good chance at a relationship sometimes... there's gotta be the WHOLLY CRAP I WANT HIM too. __________________ I am an A$$hole... take anything I say to heart at YOUR OWN RISK...