I personally think I find girls at in the wrong places and this leads to almost always meeting the wrong types. I would consider myself a "good guy" though not everyone would. But the people that know me say I'm a good guy and even my x's would say i'm a good guy.
I'm gonna call it BS that girls can't meet good guys, because we're out there. I dont think its enough anymore to be a nice guy, i think girls want more then that. And I'm going to go as far as to say girls dont know what to do when the finally meet that "good guy."
I dont think I'm speaking for just myself when I say that some good guys get treated bad by girls because they dont know how to deal with a nice guy and end up acting in ways they shouldn't. This leads a nice guy to question why he should be nice when not as nice guys dont have to deal with that shit. It seems when a guy stops caring about his date or gf they become more interested, but this isn't the way you are meant to treat the girl you're interested in. So this leaves a nice guy torn between nice treatment and possibly getting treated bad or treating her less then he was raised/would like to and avoiding the chances of dealing with a b!tch.
All in all I find it interesting that none of the good people can seem to find another good person. I would also like to state half or more of the people that consider themselves "good", "nice" or "old fashion" talk shit and I've noticed this more in the females. A girl will tell you shes "old fashion" or a "good girl" but she'll be doing something on the side that she doesn't tell you about until you get really close or maybe doesnt' even tell you at all. Then you're hit with a "OMG who is this girl?" situation.
I've run in this too much now to turn a blind eye and believe a female when she says "No i'm not seeing someone" or "You're the only one I'm seeing" or better yet "You're the only guy i'm interested in" - hence the comment in my sig. Cheers everyone, and try to stay away from lairs and whores, God knows there are more out there then it appears.
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