I'm all for the "showing of miscommunication". If a good friend of mine, no matter how could invited me to sleep in her bed instead of her couch after awhile you'd assume something.
Its easy to lead a guy on, because once you blur the lines of friendship and possible relationship the guy takes the ladder of the two. Logically what guy wouldn't want a relationship with a good girl friend.
Sex can't possibly define a relationship to me, because sex is so unimportant and quite a few times can mean absolutely nothing.
Think of it this way, if you came over and I said sleep over. I lead you to my bed and said "Com'n in" or if I throw you a blanket and said "You want my bed or the couch, either way I'll take the other" which would sound more like a friendship.
Thats just my guy opinion.
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