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from personal experience... when people try to step in and do things, the guy that's doin the abusing just feels more insecure. what do insecure abusive men do? hit n yell more.
so unless someone obviously needs help... i say don't mess with em'. you think you're doing them a favor, but you're only making it worse until the person wants to get out of that relationship. i think you did the right thing here, it probably made her feel better that you didn't just walk off + be like oh well.
when you try + help in situations like this chances are the woman isn't gonna be like gee thanks, i really needed some help! she will most likely ask you to stop yelling or whatever at her bf/husband, and that she can't press charges blah blah.
i think all that made sense. damn i need some sleep!
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