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Originally posted by msvtec14
No, I'm not giving up on guys. I know that there are good ones out there. And then there are the ones that SEEM all nice and whatnot and they turn out to be huge @ssholes or possessive psychos. There is so much crap that comes along with even just dating and that's not where I want to be in my life and as for right now, I'm not jeopardizing my happiness for that. I want to be able to go and out and not have to answer to anyone. I don't want to feel obligated to spend time other than anyone but my friends. I just turned 21 not too long ago and I'm enjoying the ride.
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I hear ya, truly i do. i dated a girl who was all nice, let me do want i wanted when i wanted and then it all fell apart and she started wanting all my time, so truly i can relate. As for some of us "nice" guys turning out to being jerks/@assholes/possesive i'm sure it can happen, just not with the truly nice ones. You'll know a nice guy when you find him because he will think of you before he thinks of himself. He will do little things that touch your heart, before moving to the big things. He will speak simple words that to you will carry more meaning then even he intended.
But a break will put this in perspective for yea, i know it has for me
