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Originally posted by Solgirl
I agree and disagree. The day I met my boyfriend, I knew he was the one. I didn't tell him about it, but when we finally got into the marriage talk he said that he felt that way too. We have talked about having kids, but not anytime soon. I wouldn't say that she needs to live life before deciding that she wants to marry someone. I'm living life right now knowing that I'll marry my boyfriend in the future and I'm not holding myself back from anything. I think that her guy will eventually want to settle down, but it's a scary thing to think about if your not ready. He may have just said he didn't want kids because it scared him.
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hey solgirl, you're what 20yrs old and already talking about marriage and kids? from your post i gather that both of you have no experience in relationships. don't try to count highschool love as a relationship either.that's a time of infatuation not love. marriage and kids isn't a tv show especially if you rush into at such a young age. that's cool that you one day hope to marry him but even time wears a mountain down.