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yah I definitely don't think that jealousy is based on gender...it is truely individual. I get jealous....but I let everyone else know it but the guy I'm with. My thing is I know he's goin home with/to me that night not some other chick....so say I'm out at the club with my bf and he's dancin with some chick cuz I'm dancin with one of my guy friends. Who's to know that he doesn't know that chick cuz she's his neighbor or something like that. So for me to get all pissed off at him cuz he's dancing with another chick is childish. It's when he takes that dancing to say her bedroom for a lil action that I would get pissed. The jealousy stops there then. I do think a lil bit of jealousy is healthy for a relationship just as long as no one turns psycho or controlling with it. Trust is a big issue with that.
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