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Since we are lacking details of this relationship:
My best friend was "certain she was the one" and was "going to marry" 2 of his past ex-girlfriends, and is currently "certain she is the one" and is "going to marry" his 3rd gf.
My girlfriend was certain her ex was "the one." She currently believe i am "the one." Not to knock her (of course), but I think becoming fixated prematurely on if the person is going to be "the one" is usually not a good thing. Only time will tell if that person will be the right one for you.
My viewpoint on my relationship is, I don't say that my girlfriend is "the one", however, its obvious that i don't intend on ending my relationship with her. Talking about moving in, marraige, and kids is usually just trouble. HOWEVER, I think it IS OK to DISCUSS that with your partner. Just instead of saying "I want to have your baby", mabye you want to state it as "what do you think about kids, when you get married do you plan on having them?"
I think i wrote entirely too much.
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