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mate from the sounds of it there isn't much you can do to make him turn away from her right away. The only thing you could do would be to set an example and just be a great friend to him.
Sometimes our friends make really dumb choices in life, its up to you if you stay friends with him or not, you can't hold this against him for long.
Now theres something to think about, how do you know YOUR so right? Maybe the marriage was on the rocks from the get go, maybe this girl makes him happy like hes never been before. Are you going to take that away from him? I never support the break up of a marriage and espically over another girl. But if hes going to play stupid and not think about what hes doing to his wife then the only thing you can do is hold up a mirror and show him what he is doing. Whatever you do though dont make it so you can't be friends, if he bitches just tell him you think as his friend you need to provide him with another angle to situtation and all you ask is that he listens. Once you'd said your piece, you dont bring it up again.
You might show him the change in his work, as that might hit home the most. But other then that, hes being lead around by his dick and no amout of logic will talk him out of it.
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