sometimes you like aspects of a person... upon getting to know them you don't like things about them... if the bad out weighs the good then some people decide to move on.
this is not to say anything about you. The chances that this guy is the one for you are pretty low... somewhere in the neighborhood of 1 to 6,259,378,087 (the current world population).
I say **** it move on if he changes his ways then maybe you take him back... if not then who cares you'll meet someone new.
I'm not picking on you but... why is it that girls get sooo attached when there really isn't that much holding you there to begin with (the answer is their own self-confidence issues... they're more concerned with WHY the guy wants to leave instead of why it's a GOOD thing that the guy wants to leave.)
My point is that if he was being nice and you took the time to think about why you like him chances are you'll realize there aren't that many good reasons.
It's like the seinfield episode where george is joking and says "what are you doin with this guy" and the girl thinks about it and leaves him. (this happened to a friend of mine. it was really funny. One of our friends asked her joking around "how in gods name did he end up with you" and she realized how much better she could do.... she left him.
Chances are your not loosing out especially since the guy is being enough of a dick to make you post this thread.
BUCK UP LITTLE CAMPER
__________________
I am an A$$hole... take anything I say to heart at YOUR OWN RISK...
|