But on a higher note, I got the number of a girl I've liked for a long time...
 

To contrast the bummed feeling around my family at the moment, (due to my dad's deployment), I present a bit of awesome news.

This last Saturday I stopped at the bank like I always do to deposit my check, and this girl Stephanie (that I've always thought was really cute) was in the drive-through window working as a teller.
She used to be a cheerleader at Ray-Pec high school, and now she's going to school to be a nurse. Anyway, long story short - we ended up talking for like 10 minutes in the drive-through over the intercom. Her dad is in the military and just got back from Iraq (he's a Reservist). Anyway, after I left the drive-through, I looked in the cash envelope and found a note saying "If you're not too busy or seeing someone, call me," with her number. YES!!!!

She's a really nice girl, not a slut or anything, so I'm really pumped up about it. Anyway, just wanted to spout for a minute. :)

- Dzur

Wow!!! That's real kool...I know that had to have put a smile on your face...he he he ;)

Heh, way to go :thumbsup:

wow that's the coolest thing i've ever heard

I love it when that happens....:yes:

thats kinda cool the way she snuck that in there w/ your $

Not trying to be rude... but... BANG HER... she's itching for it...

If a girl resorts to giving you her number w/o request it generally means she's been waiting for you to ask for a LONG time.

as usual you and I see things very similarly, however I wouldnt just say bang her.

Dude just keep your eyes open, she might have given her number out to more then just you. Never assume you're the only one she's done this with.

Hope I'm wrong, just take things slowly.

Cheers

Back last year, before I went to boot camp and stuff, she would always put extra Dum Dum suckers in my money envelope when it would come down the chute.lol...

I probably should have asked her out a long time ago....oh well.

As for "banging her"..I want a relationship, not a one-night-stand.

- Dzur

You go dude! I always say things like that happen when you least expect it. Hope everything works out for you.

Thank you. FINALLY someone says it! Unlike our other two fellos here with their "advice". Whatever happened to there being more to sex hmmmm?

and what too fellows said bang her?

OOOO she put in the extra dum dum sucker.... was it root beer flavor

Score man. Wish i got lucky like that.

I do agree with the HIT IT statement, but if your down for a relationship that's cool too. If she's hot you should get her preg, that way you have the deal sealed for good!! :yes:

j/k

^Hahahah
Thats awesome bro. Im pretty hyped up my self. This girl ive been wanting to get with for some time finally broke up with her bf and we've been talking non stop for about a week now. I know that doesnt mean shit but hey its a start

You ALL sound like chicks...

Just cuz I recomended you bang her doesn't mean I meant dump her afterwards... or don't talk to her first...

She's obviously horny for you... you can take it as slow as you want... but that doesn't mean that's what SHE'S looking for...

Every dude I've EVER known who thinks about stuff or acts like you guys seem to end up getting cheated on and hurt by some chick who really just wanted a good schtooping to begin with... They don't want to hurt your feelings or they like certain aspects about you so they stay with you... then they meet someone who gets them all riled up sexually... and they either act on it or not.

Most girls DO NOT WANT a guy who's "sensitive"... they want a dick who cares. Most girls like a guy to take charge and for them to be sexually aggressive... they want to know that they're safe when they say no etc... but they DO NOT want a guy who hears no and stops trying...

Of course begging isn't good either...

Basically I'm ranting but here is some geniune GOOD advice...

JUST PAY ATTENTION... if you're loosing her or going in a direction she's not interested in you should be able to see it.

Good luck and congratulations.

Well, the thing is - this may seem a little weird - but part of my conviction as a Christian is not having sex outside of marriage...which I have managed so far.

Yeah yeah...let the flaming begin. It's not easy, but I'm sticking with it. So when you guys say to just bang her - I guess if I wasn't the way I am, then I would.

And yes - she is "highly attractive"...she was a cheerleader after all. Does that explain everything?

Oh yeah - one more thing - the Dum Dum's she put in were Rasberry, Watermelon, and Root Beer. Pretty sad that I still remember from 1 1/2 years ago, eh?

- Dzur

No dude...no flaming...I commend you for that. :yes: I know it's gotta be hard.

Don't balk...

That is commendable. but ONLY if you don't balk. Make sure they're YOUR beliefs before you assert them...

Not questioning you just trying to be sure YOU do.

Yeah - they're my beliefs and it's my choice, no one else's.

- Dzur

right on thats awesome! i hope it works out and dont listen to the guys on here, they dont think with their minds when it comes to girls, they think with their *** haha just kidding!

I called her, got voicemail, left a message, and then she called back while I was on my way home from a movie. Anyway, we talked for a while, and I'm calling her to set up something to do later tommorow.

- Dzur

sweet dude good luck! ;) ;)

Well, I called her back and her number has been disconnected....


So....now I'm really dissapointed...

- Dzur

If things left on a good note I'm sure you'll hear from her again...

She probobly just didn't pay her bill.

ahh thats it.. she was just looking for a guy to pay her phone bill..:yes:

wait a while then drive thru he window again and see if she has anything to say about it

I'm going through the drive-through tommorow with my paycheck, and I'll let you guys know what happens (guys and girls)

- Dzur

lol ruff man

honestly I dont put up with any drama from people, especially girls. If you start now you'll only invite more as you get older.

But she might have just forgotten to pay her phone bill....I can hope can't I?

probably won't work out anyway.

- Dzur:no:

GOOD NEWS....

So I went through the drive-through again and she gave me another note that said "sorry, I forgot I turned off my phone last weekend. Here's my home number."

So that's good :)

- Dzur

Nice, way to go man. Score one for the home team! :banana:

hope that works out:yes: