Games....
 

:: This is a rant about games and how everyone plays them ::

Why is it required to play games in this world. Why can't we all just be honest, not jump to conclusions, bother to hear one another out and then work to come to a solution... Why can't i call you when i want without making it seem like I'm over controlling or desperate... why do you go offline instead of saying now's not a good time. why do you pick up your cell sometimes but not always, even though you're not doing anything.

Why must one learn to play these games if they plan to date and not be hurt, why can't we share our true feelings...

Note: I'm so over all the f*cking BS surrounding dating right now. I thought I found the perfect woman but have since lost her and have no idea why or what happen.

i hear yea. im single and loving every dayum minute of it. 6 months and going.
nothing wrong with the weekend one night stand. hell you only have to buy a condom.

There, there hun. Not all of us play games. I don't because I don't like them played on me, but it does happen. Sorry to hear what happened but I like to think the level of games played compares to the level of maturity. If you know what you want or what you don't want, why play the games and mess around with someone's mind? It's stupid and immature. I like to think I'm approachable to talk to and that "you" could talk to me about things but apparently I seem to intimidate most men because I am so straight forward about things like this so most play the games just to get me to "back off". I feel you on this one. What's so intimidating about women who are mentally mature, strong? No I'm not a fem-a-nazi or a lesbian but I have been offered to "change my mind" but that's for another story. I still don't understand why most guys want a woman to be straight forward but then get scared thinking we want to be one of the guys?? I said it before and I'll say it again, I'm not a girly-girl but I am a tom boy who knows how to be a woman. I just don't get the intimidation factor....

games are really dumb luckly i dont have to play thoughs anymore today is my girl and i's 1 year ANN ;)

Congrats!


and Blackwolf...very well stated from one confident woman to another. I'm tired of hearing the "you're intimidating" line. :bs: I don't want to hear another guy say that they're looking for a girl with a good head on their sholders and knows what they want out of life...cuz ya know what...guys my age are not looking for that at all. They're looking for someone that is a few years younger that doesn't quite know what they're looking for. Those girls are easier to sleep with. And I'm also tired of hear that "you're too picky" well d@mn it, I gotta be somewhat picky or I'm gonna keep ending up with sh!theads for boyfriends. I'd rather be single than be with someone that doesn't know how to treat me.:mad:

never bothered playing games i always thought they were a waste of time. its better to be straght up with someone. then at least ya know where ya both stand

Hmmm...maybe I should START playing games...then maybe I'd get laid once in a blue moon.:no:

^ My thoughts exactly.

Hell, me too

yeah this honesty shit isnt getting me anywhere