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so where are those auxilary ports for pluggin little extra toggle switches for things such as..say neons?....or LED washer lights?...I honestly can not find one

hmm i'm not familiar with your car but i have some free on the dash next to the rear defroster switch, and in the center console

Are you talking about extra fuses, or just places to stick switches? If you're looking for a place to put switches, there is one aux switch opposite from your flashers. You could also make a little box to fit under the radio.

run the positive from the storbes to the switch, than you can run another the positive from the switch to any fuse in your your fuse box. ground the other wire anywhere there is a metal bolt or screw.