Love
 

Have any of you ever loved someone who didn't love you? Just lead you on to believe that they loved you but ended up not loving you afterall? How do you stop loving someone who doesn't love you in return?

i have. she was a money hungry bitch. i knew it after the first month. but i didnt want to realize it.

how did i foget her. i just moved on. started looking for someone else. but youll never forget him/her. its burned into your memory.

Well, I really don't care abot whether I remember him or not...I just wanna lose my feelings that I have for him...he's off with another chick while I'm here...still in love with him...is this not fair??

love is not fair.

when you find someone else youll stop thinking about him. :yes:

I think that is a reality that all of us has faced, I know I have. I did everything for this man and I mean everything and it turns out that he was cheating on me and didn't have the balls to tell me the truth. It wasn't until he gave ME the ultimatim (?) that I give up all my male friends that I finally realized that he was controlling me. I left him and never looked back because there were other times he didn't have the balls to tell me other things as well. Long story short, you're better off moving on with your life. He never felt strong feelings for you in the first place or he would never have done what he's done. Don't try to worry too much about it because he doesn't share the same morals, never did and probably never will. He'll have to learn what he's done on his own and nothing you say or do will make him change his ways. More likely the hard way or never at all. Might I suggest finding a target, putting his name or picture on it and shooting it up at the gun range then afterwards have a fire in the fireplace and burn it. Case closed. My analysis?? You're too good for him.

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Man this is a not-so-fun situation for me. Before I found the guy im dating now I was madly in love... here goes the whole story (its long so bare with me here). in October of 2002 My best friend introduced me online to his friend from basic.. (one of my weaknesses is military men).. So anywho... We talked for awhile.. an he was in Kosovo at the time.. Right away we knew we clicked and both of us spent money galore on phone bills. Valentines day he sent me a vermont teddy bear.. so i sent him something as well.. Well May 2003.. My besat friends got married.. low and behold Tommy (the army guy) suprised me with 40 other people and came in for the wedding. We hit it off an I was so happy.. Thought i found the love of my life. Well.. September he called my mom and asked for my hand.. when he came home in November he planned on proposing.. So anywho... October comes and he brakes up with me.. tells me we could only be friends. Valentines day of 2004 rolls around and I go up to SC to see my best friends who got married the past may. They tell me about my ex.. how he was engaged to some other woman in November of 03 and was married by January of 2004. That killed me.. I never thought I could trust another guy again.. obviously i was deeply in love with him and he didnt feel as much as i did for him. I've moved on.. 7 months with my current boyfriend and I am in love.. of course in the back of my mind I will always worry about having the same problem here.. but all i can do is trust him and go with my feelings... which is love...

Yes. Fuck love. That is all.

This thread just brought some painful memories back. Pfft.

AAwww...Im sorry...I didn't mean to bring back painful memories...it was just a problem that I often face and I just wanted opinions...
Blackwolf...thanks chick...I believe every word you say and thanks...love does suck...and believe me...I am in the military...I definately have access to guns and a firing range...ha ha ha. I got rid of every picture...so it's all good.

Yeah, just found out about 30 minutes ago that it was even worse than i thought....:mad:

I always asked people, "If there was ONE person in your life in which you trusted so dearly, that you were nearly vulnerable to them..and that person screwed you over, how do you know you can trust again? and whom?" I was stuck on that for the longest time, my biggest peeve is when people say, "i;m not like that, you can trust me." I wish they werent so ignorant to realize that phrases like those get repeated daily. Once again, actions speak louder than words.

Yes... this happend to me once, but only helped me fall in love with my b/f yes she was girl...:D... and now she is my g/f.... so right now I want to thank that whore that tossed me aside:cool:

amen to that

Love is good but it also sucks. You take the chance of having everlasting love or a broken heart...what's that saying..."better to have loved and lost than to not love at all"...

Love doesn't exist. ty.

"Love is giving someone the ability to hurt you, but trusting them not to."

I had a guy tell me he loved me for a year just to find out that he had lied about it for more than half of the time.:o

Why do guys do that? For a piece of @$$? You would break a girls heart for sex?

I don't do that.. I stay away from the L word

because the stereotype is that "guys" know what girls want to hear; guys know the magical word [love] to get to the magical gift [sex].

dont say all "GUYS" cuase not all "GUYS" do that shit.

i hate it when you "LADIES" say that shit.

From my knowledge and my expierence.. MOST girls wont say it till hey are good and ready. Took me along time to say it to Scott... But see I have friends (girls) who when they meet a guy will have sex witht hemr ight off the bat. Thats how she determines if she wants to continue anything...

We're not referring to all guys...we're referring to the ones who hurt girls...

I'm sure all guys have hurt or will hurt a girl here or there, unitentionally or not, once in a lifetime. Yes, though, don't classify them as ALL GUYS, because I know for damn sure mine is the absolute shit. :)