not that it Im changing my mind...but
 

...What do you think?

Like I said in the title, Ive already decided what Im going to do, but I thought Id ask here, and make a new thread, for what few members actually post, to whore on.

I am a firm believer in the phrase, "All is fair in love and war."
Seems that the world works that way anyways, whether you want to buy into it or not.

SO...
This girl that Ive been pursuing casually mentions that her bf is her boss's son. Thats the first time in weeks that she's even mentioned a bf, and it wasnt even something like "my bf and I" or "I have a bf, so dont flirt w/ me".
Now, at first this kinda made me stop the charm flow and almost ignore her. But, a few hours later, I decided "WTF? Im going to steal her!"
And thats just what I plan on doing. Im going to continue what Im doing to win her over from the other guy.

Some have told me, "No, you shouldnt do that..." and "That wouldnt be very nice..." and "Id kick your ass if you did that to me" and "Good luck to you...ass" etc. Before any of you say "What if it was you?"...Ive been there twice. Yeah, it wasnt great. But Id have to say, its no worse than any standard "Im sorry, but I think I just wanna be friends now."

Nothing any of you say will change my mind. Things are finally starting to look decent for me, and Im not going to let some 'riced out integra w/ a fart can driving' bf get in my way.
I'll steal his girl and then crush him w/ my jdm-ness! :stickman: :nana:

(That came out longer than I intended)

well if she actually cares about him and is the kind of girl you can trust in a relationship she'll punch you in the face.
hell my ex would've, when we were dating and a guy would make a move on her she'd just simply say "fuck you I have a boyfriend" simple as that
now if I could easily steal a girl from another guy that she was happy with than I'd reconsider wanting to have anything more than a fling with her

if she cheats on him for you, then she'll cheat on you for another . just one big circle of drama and pain

Oh shes never told me to buzz off of anything like that. In fact, it seems that she wants me to flirt with her.

Im also not just looking for a fling.

I would go for it but dont come on to strong let her decide who she wants to be with and make the first move.But i do agree with shards,if she cheats on him with you,whats stopping her from cheating on you with someone else.

all i can say is goodluck dude

dont get me wrong here
if she says no, I'll have to stop and do as she asks

do what have been doing. nothing more and nothing less.:yes: itll work out in time.

Dude if she didnt want it.. She woulda already told you to back off

i think it's time to go back to whacking it

Eh dont listen to stefan.. She hasnt shot you down yet

neither did his hand ;)

and it never will!
But how did those greenday lyrics go? "When masturbation's lost its fun..." something something

try changing the hand lol

Eh i dont know about you....but the hand has nothing to the real thing.... and im guessing in his case.. the hand cant compaire to ANY pussy...

I still think it's the attention she's craving, maybe it has no feelings for you involved. I dunno, I'm happily taken and I see at least 200+ people per day at work and even more at college..but when they start flirting, I don't flirt back, or at least to the extent of attraction. I guess it's up to you//I still think the theory on the endless cheating cycle isn't necessarily true//yet..man, jsdhgklsaehseha terriyaki chicken. yum.

sorry for the lack of help, PAT. :-)

Actually, at first, I thought I knew what I wanted to say..then as I was typing it, it all just sounded the same. [shrugs]

i had a very similar thing happen to me not too long ago.. and i walked away. i didnt want the potential drama nd bullshit... i wish i had persued further though looking back on it

You never know whats gonna happen unless you try...so you might as weel just go for it. And if she does start talking about her BF more, that means that you need to back off. As long as you respect their relationship and it's already ended before you guys do anything...go for it:yes:

most definately
I am a gentleman (sometimes anyway) and Id never let there be any overlap

if anything goes wrong, i got yo back mang. :yes:

Man...Pat...it's simple. Of course she's not going to reject flirtation. Most girls love the attention regardless of whether or not they're "involved". The mere fact that she can attract other men is probably enough for her. My advice...tread lightly. Maybe she wants out with her current boyfriend, maybe not. Just remember that attention is probably the key here and it may not be you in particular that's she's interested in. Good luck man.

^has a good point. wemon are always trying to center of attention.:yes:

Not all of us... i like to hide in the corner...

Well I'm not really talking about social attention necessarily. Few people would put a stop to the sort of attention Pat is giving this girl. Women respond particularly well to that sort of attention.

I agree.. every girl loves to be flirted with an know that they are socially acceptable for someone else to like them, whether its looks or whatever...

^some like it just a little to much. that they go to far and cant get out. then thats were drama occurs. things get said and people get mad.

:toofunny:

Lookie lookie.. another girl who wants to hate on me....

...or maybe she just thought it was funny.

Nah steve.. lyna doesnt like me.... She makes it very clear

lol, why she hate you? becuase you get all the attention?

Ask her.... she'll tell you...

I don't like you? That's odd, Karen, why was I not aware of my own thoughts and feelings? lol. I simply said it was too funny at the mere implication that you're "shy" seeing how you definately aren't that type of gal. Come on Karen, I'm not hatin, if I was hatin on you, I'd rip on you and I think you and I have both been in the SR long enough to know how that goes.

It's normal to want the attention, most girls love it. Just admit it and go on with life. lol

By the way, I'm not jealous. :)

I never thought you were jelous.. but thats odd... I was told by alot of poeple in SR you didn't like me... heh.. guess someone was misinformed... Im not saying im shy.. by all means im not.. but im also not the kind of girl to walk in the middle of the room and be like "LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME". As I said before..all girls like attention.. im no exception to that..

Lol, Karen, look at who's in SR these days :). Enough said. Sure I've probably put a "lol" when someone says shit about you, but it's not like it's a biggie, ya know? My reputation in there is a smartass mix between alex/josh yet female..and quite frankly, i like it like that. I'm not in the chat to make eFriends on a daily basis.

To get the point straight, I don't NOT like you, and I can't say i LIKE you. If anything, I like you more than i DON'T like you. I just happen to conclude that you're one of those attention girls..it's just always been your SR rep. [shrugs]

Actually, I think it was funny when you had a post about you talking about cars so much and people not understanding you.

Now. THAT, was funny.

No harm. :)

Eh.. Aol is Aol... and thats that. I am a bullshitter on the computer... not in real life.. but then again this is a forum on the computer and you are only known as the kind of person you put your self out as. No offense but I'm not one of the kind of people who are online to make friends... I have enough of those in person. Yeah here and there I pick up a few people I continously talk to, like Dave and Mike.. I've known them for 3 years... yet I've never met them and they are not truly apart of my everyday life. Now back to the topic of this thread.. Dude just go for it... She either takes it or not.. you've got a 50/50 chance and its either yes or no... so go for it...

ahh kiss and makeup ;)

Shut up Ben

sorry.