Alcohol to a point is nice because when I consume it, I become more outgoing and willing to talk to more people. But the bad thing is, that's not the real me. The real me is shy. But I agree with you Incubus, all the nice people are here, on the computer!

Been there done that...had it happen to me. I am one of the nice girls as well...and the nice girls get taken for granted and used and hurt just like the nice guys.

I might be able to explain the girls saying they want a nice guy but goes after the a$$holes thing. See when girls do find a nice guy who pays for her and opens doors for her and what not and treats her how she should be treated if not better....she doesnt know how to react to that. She gets scared and starts flakin out. And then when she knows her ex prince charming has another girl is when she realizes her mistakes and starts playin mind games with the guy. I know it makes absolutely no sense...but thats basically what is goin on.

And gentlemen...don't hate all women. They aren't all how you described.

Haha!!!!:D You just described my psycho ex! She only went for guys who treated her horribly, and then when we started dating, she became absolutely psychotic. She put me through hell. Then after I dumped her, she called me 6 months later and we were kinda hanging out again. Then she decided she wanted my friend so I said some pretty mean things and that was it. Then a year later she called me up again saying she was really really sorry and I'm the only guy she'll ever love. I told her I have a girlfriend, and she was totally acting all upset and stuff.
The whole time I was with my now ex girlfriend, my psycho ex tried to get me to get back with her, and once I was single again, she rarely talks to me!
I kinda wish I had cheated on my more recent ex with my psycho ex though because in the end my recent ex burned me, but I got my revenge by hooking up a few times with some girl that she was totally jealous of and suspicious of because this other girl was always trying to get with me too.
I'm a pimp when I'm taken, but I'm a loser when I'm not!:D

Geez, where do you guys find these psycho's! :crazy:

second that

Hehe....hooking up with that girl that my ex was jealous of was for my own personal......uh......satisfaction. To this day, nobody except for 1 person knows that I hooked up with that girl, and the only person that knows is my best friend and he figured it out for himself.
My ex doesn't know, and nobody else associated with her knows. The revenge thing was more of a personal revenge.....I know about it and that's all that matters! Well I guess now many people will know about it since I just posted it on a message board!:D

I'm not the type of guy that hooks up with a girl and then goes bragging to his friends. If my ex found out somehow, I wouldn't mind because I know it would piss her off but I'm not going to be the one to tell her, and I also told my friend that nobody is to know. I still respect a girl's privacy!

Ah it's cool.....i wasn't very clear when I said that stuff!:D

i know i'm kinda late...but i just wanna say one thing...everytime someone says, "guys only think with their dicks" i just get so pissed off...thats bull and it pisses me off whenever i hear anyone say that.

Ok....so i just had to go back and re-read this thread. I couldn't even remember why I posted it:rolleyes: . Goodness....i think i have alzheimers or something :D

:D :D Oh but please mt. biker, explain why girls are hornier? hehe ;)

:no: I'm sorry. I didn't mean to bring up a sore subject. But I think I understand what you mean. There are a lot of girls out there with some serious sexual frustration! But I wouldn't know anything about that! :paranoid: :D

Well that's good....that you're getting happier! Sometimes I think everyone needs time by themselves. It allows you to figure out what you want in life and who you are. Enjoy being single while you can! ;)