Heh :confused: Who needs to be kicked in the nuts? Something about being kicked in the nuts near my post...I don't have nuts. Yeah, I am sure that it is better to have loved and lost then to have never have loved at all. I know what it's like to have my heart broken. It is horrible. And while you're getting over everything, you just wish that you never met that person in the first place. But in the long run, the pain that we endure just makes us better, stronger people and it gives us a defined idea of what we want and what we will and will not put up with from another person.

I think it really just depends on the person. Some people just get more jaded and/or bitter and it's arguable whether they would have been better off never having loved at all rather than having loved and lost.

It also depends on how the love is lost, I believe.....a broken heart is very different than someone you love dying.

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I'm just saying that whoever said it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all is an asshole...that's like saying it is better to have a million dollars for a week than to be poor your whole life...it's easier to not know what you're missing than to know it, miss it and have to feel the pain afterwards...and yes, I know that you don't have nuts Melissa....at least I would hope not ;)