I'm talkin to the women here... [Archive]

GT40FIED

11-03-2002, 03:26 AM

Ok ladies....let's have. Why do you all love to date leather-wearing-woman-beating alcoholics instead of decent guys? And I don't wanna hear any of that "I don't go for bad boys" shit because every guy here knows you do. Now, it might not seem like it from that intro, but I've always been gentlemanly towards woman and treated them with respect...but what did that get me? An ex-girlfriend who figured it was more important to go down on her ex than be with me. And I'm not judging women on her alone...but it seems like all my female friends get involved with guys they know are bad news and then come to ***** to ME about how no guys will respect them or treat them right. So let's have it ladies...WTF?

mt.biker

11-03-2002, 07:46 AM

Originally posted by GT40FIED
Ok ladies....let's have. Why do you all love to date leather-wearing-woman-beating alcoholics instead of decent guys? And I don't wanna hear any of that "I don't go for bad boys" shit because every guy here knows you do. Now, it might not seem like it from that intro, but I've always been gentlemanly towards woman and treated them with respect...but what did that get me? An ex-girlfriend who figured it was more important to go down on her ex than be with me. And I'm not judging women on her alone...but it seems like all my female friends get involved with guys they know are bad news and then come to ***** to ME about how no guys will respect them or treat them right. So let's have it ladies...WTF?

Amen to that bro!

Dude I'm not a chick but i'll tell ya what i know. They just seem to like the thrill of a dangerous guy, or so they think. They're really too messed up emotionally and physically. Between their PMS and some girlly fight they have with a gf last week they are as stable as geo metor @100mph.

They will get tired of this life in time and finally realize they want a nice guy, but by then you've told them to f*ck off and well they look somewhere else. I dont think it really gets any better as you get older......

I'll add something to this to for ya. There isn't one girl one the face of the earth that you wont learn something different about after knowing her for more then 6 months. They always hold something back and then boom you find this out. It could be that she was a slut or doesn't likesomething you've been doing for ages. Whatever it is, it changes your view on the person she is, they (as in girls) ALWAYS do this.

theres my $4.89.. keep the change buddy

GirlRacer

11-03-2002, 12:56 PM

Actually, I've dated many guys like that & I think the reason was that I used to look for someone who's big & willing to fight so I knew that the person would be able to take of me if something ever happened.
Unfortunately, when you look for people w/those characteristics, they don't usually just use them when they feel like their g/f is being threatened, they just use them all the time. People like that have tempers & people w/tempers DO NOT mix w/people like me.
I'm really sarcastic & have the able to find anyone's buttons & push them quickly. Sooo...they'd make me mad, then I'd make them mad, then I'd end up being sorry after being yelled at & called names or pushed around or whatever...
Anyhoo...that's my 2 cents.

insomniac_91

11-03-2002, 01:26 PM

Well, here I go with my 2 cents on the issue. The first thing of course is that you get attracted to someone is physically. And then y'all start talking and stuff and then you make an emotional connection or attachment with the guy. And I agree with what GT40 said but it goes both ways with a female or male. It's not like your gonna just put all of your baggage out there or whatever you wanna call it. Because of course your afraid that you might chase them away and the person is gonna look at you different. But I feel the most important things in a relationship or to have a good one is honesty and trust.....So that my take on it, Beleive me I could go on and on about but I try'd to keep it short.......ONE LOVE

GirlRacer

11-03-2002, 01:29 PM

:yes: See...I often wonder if the poeple I've dated were crazy before they met me....or if I made them that way. :no: :crazy: :paranoid:

insomniac_91

11-03-2002, 01:38 PM

I know right...LOL...I feel ya

00 Si

11-03-2002, 01:38 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
:yes: See...I often wonder if the poeple I've dated were crazy before they met me....or if I made them that way. :no: :crazy: :paranoid:

I'm sure they were like that way before they met ya. :bandit:

DsBlu01CivEX

11-03-2002, 02:31 PM

Ok here's my take on things......we typically go after guys at first for physical attraction. We don't know if the guy is going to verbally/phyiscally abuse us or whether he is a gentleman or not. We go after looks....well just as girls put on a front in the beginning of the relationship, so do the guys. They act like they are interested and blah blah blah and the 2 of you get really comfy with each other. Sure there are things that bother you, but they are stupid little petty things. Then the truth comes out....you find out he's cheating on you with like 3 other girls, he does drugs, he's an alcoholic, etc. The girl tries to change the "bad boy" into the good boy she thought he was and actually wants. The reason why she goes to her guy friends to ***** is because she knows they will listen to her and that they will comfort her. I know the last thing that our "good guy" guy friends want to hear is us bitching about our significant others and why our boyfriend can't be more like them (your guy friend). Girls will eventually learn that they don't deserve what their shitty bf is doing to them and will leave them...but it takes time. Bear with us....we eventually come around.

The biggest problem is the fact that both parties tend to put on a front in the beginning of the relationship. If the guy would say from the beginning that he's a big shithead and will treat her wrong, the girls won't stay with them.

ShagginJet

11-03-2002, 02:44 PM

Here it is GT40, here is the trick that you're waiting for, the secret to women....

They go for the guys based off of looks. They want someone who's a little taller, and a little bigger then them. They want someone who will protect them if need be, someone that they feel safe with.

The trick is, to be this guy. Be a little scruffy on the outside. Dress a little daring, not so good boy'ish. I can tend to look like a mean mother F**ker when i want, but really I'm one of the nicest people you could meet. Just look big and mean, but be nice and considerate to the ladies, they will flock towards you.

**Ohh and have some balls here and there, most men lack that.

mt.biker

11-03-2002, 03:26 PM

ShagginJet

11-03-2002, 05:56 PM

It's kind of a front, but it's different. The girls see that semi-mean, macho looking guy. Then after talking to me they know that I'm the nice, sensitive type, and they appriciate that and it draws them closer. Plus, I'm very up front and BIG on the whole honesty thing.

**If you know how you like it, tell me and I will provide.

Whiteclipse99

11-03-2002, 07:10 PM

I can honestly say that I don't go after the "bad boy". I am being completely honest when I say that! I may initially be attracted to one up front, but after talking with them and finding out things about them, I know whether to distance myself or not.
Example: There's a guy that I'm friends with who goes to the same club I go to every Friday night. He really likes me and has been pursuing me. Physically, I'm attracted to him, but I've just recently found out that he used to be into drugs and that he used to sleep with girls to get drugs. So, he's had many, many partners I found out as well. :no: And he's a stripper! So, I've made a decision to remain friends with him, and only friends. I'm not into a guy with that much baggage.

mt.biker

11-03-2002, 07:39 PM

Originally posted by Whiteclipse99
I can honestly say that I don't go after the "bad boy". I am being completely honest when I say that! I may initially be attracted to one up front, but after talking with them and finding out things about them, I know whether to distance myself or not.
Example: There's a guy that I'm friends with who goes to the same club I go to every Friday night. He really likes me and has been pursuing me. Physically, I'm attracted to him, but I've just recently found out that he used to be into drugs and that he used to sleep with girls to get drugs. So, he's had many, many partners I found out as well. :no: And he's a stripper! So, I've made a decision to remain friends with him, and only friends. I'm not into a guy with that much baggage.
wow a male whore

Accordchick

11-03-2002, 09:36 PM

basically girls are attracted to guys who are bad b/c deep down inside every girl wants to be bad..but before you know it she realizes that it's not worth it and somehow we are even more stupid and then try to change this so called bad boy..it turns into a never ending mission and never works of course...in the short...girls can be stupid!!!!

Rob

11-03-2002, 09:49 PM

Originally posted by Accordchick
...in the short...girls can be stupid!!!!
and this came from another female! ;)

GT40FIED

11-03-2002, 10:13 PM

Originally posted by ShagginJet
Here it is GT40, here is the trick that you're waiting for, the secret to women....

They go for the guys based off of looks. They want someone who's a little taller, and a little bigger then them. They want someone who will protect them if need be, someone that they feel safe with.

The trick is, to be this guy. Be a little scruffy on the outside. Dress a little daring, not so good boy'ish. I can tend to look like a mean mother F**ker when i want, but really I'm one of the nicest people you could meet. Just look big and mean, but be nice and considerate to the ladies, they will flock towards you.

**Ohh and have some balls here and there, most men lack that.

Hmmm...that means I must be screwed. Looks...not in my estimation. I am however 6'4" 220lbs, so by that standard I'd be ok. And any guy who truely cares about how he dresses is usually gay. And, again for the ladies, I don't wanna hear that you can't tell right away. You can tell a good deal about someone's personality within 10 minutes of talking to them...even if they do put up a front. Also, don't get me wrong...this thread isn't meant to bash women at all. Men get a bad reputation for being "dogs" or whatever, but women eat that shit up. Maybe if you didn't guys would knock it off and women would have to admit that they suck just as much as guys.

imports_only98

11-03-2002, 10:32 PM

Originally posted by Accordchick
girls can be stupid!!!!

amen to that! for the most part girls always want what they cant have....but if they get it....they dont want it anymore and it leaves the guys in utter astonishment. hence the reason most of my friends are guys...girls are toooooo petty. i would have to agree with whiteclipse in saying that we can definitely be attracted to that bad boy image..but a relationship never works with one. so for the most part it is only physical attraction. and GT40... i know ur not saying that all women are like this...but obvioulsy the girl u were with just wasnt the one. you will find the girl that likes u for u...and isnt worried about rebel images or what not...and whoever did this to you...screwed up the relationship..not you...its her loss. youll find her...she IS out there....u just have to stop looking. love is something that u do....not something that u find. keep ya head up buddy u be aight! just my .02!!

-amy

ShagginJet

11-04-2002, 01:17 AM

When it comes down to it, just enjoy life.

Some women will be atracted to you, some will turn you down, others will make the initiative to makle that first move. You just have to take it one day at a time, don't hesitate when you see a beautiful girl, and don't have any regrets. In the end, you'll be the happy one.

GT40FIED

11-04-2002, 03:43 AM

I suppose that's all right...but, again, the original intent of this thread wasn't to b!tch about my lack of romantic involvment. I'm not looking for a chick to be with at the moment. It'd be cool, but I've become quite acustom to being on my own. But hey...who knows?

Racing Rice

11-04-2002, 07:49 AM

Heres what I see.. (Im not a woman, but Ive been around enough of them.)

It seems the "bad" guys are usually a lot more confident then the nice guys. This isnt always the case but in a lot of circumstances it is. A lot of girls tend to find confident men "sexy" and I think thats why they appeal to them more then most of the nice guys.

Now why they stay with the guy after they find out what they are like is a complete mystery to me still!:crazy:

cutiepy701

11-04-2002, 04:19 PM

Originally posted by Racing Rice
Heres what I see.. (Im not a woman, but Ive been around enough of them.)

It seems the "bad" guys are usually a lot more confident then the nice guys. This isnt always the case but in a lot of circumstances it is. A lot of girls tend to find confident men "sexy" and I think thats why they appeal to them more then most of the nice guys.

Now why they stay with the guy after they find out what they are like is a complete mystery to me still!:crazy:

Very, very true...usually those "bad boy" type guys have alot of game (and I do mean alot) they know how to sweet talk and THAT is what HONESTLY pulls us girls in...but then you find out that it was all a front and they are all players in the end.
I use to always fall for it ( last 3 guys) but no more. It never works out with these type of guys cuz they are only out for one thing....and that is to PLAY GAMES.

Pretty soon, at least I hope the stupid girls (yes there are many many) will stop wasting there time with thug wanna-be's and find a tall, dark, handsome man to protect them and treat them like a queen......
My 10 cents, first 2 were free....

Rob

11-04-2002, 05:56 PM

Originally posted by cutiepy701
these type of guys cuz they are only out for one thing....and that is to PLAY GAMES.
true...they are out for one thing but it has nothing to do with games....unless you're into that sort of thing ;) Just my $0.03....

DsBlu01CivEX

11-04-2002, 07:00 PM

Originally posted by cutiepy701
It never works out with these type of guys cuz they are only out for one thing....and that is to PLAY GAMES.

do they play trivial pursuit? I love that game...that'll draw me into the bad boy!!! Sorry I know it was lame....i'm in a really weird and hyper mood right now:crazy:

mt.biker

11-04-2002, 07:02 PM

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
do they play trivial pursuit? I love that game...that'll draw me into the bad boy!!! Sorry I know it was lame....i'm in a really weird and hyper mood right now:crazy: == horny:eek:

DsBlu01CivEX

11-04-2002, 07:08 PM

Originally posted by mt.biker
== horny:eek:

i'm not horny:paranoid:

Rob

11-04-2002, 07:09 PM

Originally posted by mt.biker
== horny:eek:
:eek: :banana: :banana:

mt.biker

11-04-2002, 07:11 PM

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
:eek: :banana: :banana:

i dont think two wiggly bananas are helping it dude.... LMAOjokes

Rob

11-04-2002, 07:16 PM

Originally posted by mt.biker
i dont think two wiggly bananas are helping it dude.... LMAOjokes
hahahahahahahaha......

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana::banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

mt.biker

11-04-2002, 07:17 PM

dude that is more wrong then 2....

DsBlu01CivEX

11-04-2002, 07:18 PM

you guys are bad!

Rob

11-04-2002, 07:18 PM

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
you guys are bad!
:yes: :pfft:

mt.biker

11-04-2002, 07:21 PM

nah we just think dirty 24/7

DsBlu01CivEX

11-04-2002, 08:36 PM

Originally posted by mt.biker
nah we just think dirty 24/7

oh you're being "typical" guys....i like you guys better when you don't act like "typical" guys....

Rob

11-04-2002, 08:39 PM

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
oh you're being "typical" guys....i like you guys better when you don't act like "typical" guys....
we're just playing with ya D....not literally though :paranoid: :doh::pfft:

mt.biker

11-04-2002, 08:40 PM

when it comes to dirty/sexual thoughts, i'm beyond a regular guy.

Rob

11-04-2002, 08:44 PM

Originally posted by mt.biker
when it comes to dirty/sexual thoughts, i'm beyond a regular guy.
Again..a Rob thing :yes:

mt.biker

11-04-2002, 08:47 PM

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
Again..a Rob thing :yes:
*props*

DsBlu01CivEX

11-04-2002, 08:58 PM

I know...i was just messin with ya guys....:kiss: :kiss: :kiss: (the 3rd one is there so I can "watch" the 2 of you fight over it!!! hehe:foot: :rambo: )

mt.biker

11-04-2002, 09:02 PM

bro considering all.... and if d dont take it the wrong way. You can have em all

Rob

11-04-2002, 09:10 PM

Originally posted by mt.biker
bro considering all.... and if d dont take it the wrong way. You can have em all
done, thanks! ;)

DsBlu01CivEX

11-04-2002, 09:10 PM

:paranoid: :o ;(

Rob

11-04-2002, 09:15 PM

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
:paranoid: :o ;(
hey, look at it this way D, at least you still have one Rob left! :paranoid:

mt.biker

11-04-2002, 09:18 PM

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
hey, look at it this way D, at least you still have one Rob left! :paranoid:
ya do a nice thing and people turn on ya... the lot of you!

Rob

11-04-2002, 09:39 PM

Originally posted by mt.biker
ya do a nice thing and people turn on ya... the lot of you!
:D you know I was just f*ckin' with ya Rob....I wouldn't do a brother wrong like that........

Racing Rice

11-05-2002, 07:44 AM

Okay, lets try to get back on topic!

cutiepy701

11-05-2002, 08:10 AM

Originally posted by Racing Rice
Okay, lets try to get back on topic!

Hmm...I forget what this thread was even about....Im still amazed at the dancing bananers......:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

ShagginJet

11-05-2002, 11:51 AM

Okay, lets try to get back on topic!

WTF was page 3 of this thread??

Umm, hey Blue... As a chick, you're not horny like 16 hours a day?? Most guys are horny about 20-24 hours a day, but i know chicks who out do guys. So is this like a per chick type of thing where everyone is different. Or is this like a standard across women that they just aren't willing to admitt??

cutiepy701

11-05-2002, 02:57 PM

Originally posted by ShagginJet
WTF was page 3 of this thread??

Umm, hey Blue... As a chick, you're not horny like 16 hours a day?? Most guys are horny about 20-24 hours a day, but i know chicks who out do guys. So is this like a per chick type of thing where everyone is different. Or is this like a standard across women that they just aren't willing to admitt??

Girls are horny too, just not nearly as much as guys....I'll be the first to admit that im a nympho.....but only if I have a b/f I won't just go and sleep around with any guy just cuz Im horny.....thats why they invented "toys".....lol j/k

DsBlu01CivEX

11-05-2002, 03:56 PM

Originally posted by cutiepy701
Girls are horny too, just not nearly as much as guys....I'll be the first to admit that im a nympho.....but only if I have a b/f I won't just go and sleep around with any guy just cuz Im horny.....thats why they invented "toys".....lol j/k

:yes: :yes: girls i'm sure are just as horny as guys. The only reason why it's believed that girls are less horny is because it's something girls don't talk about. I mean most girls won't even tell each other if they mastrubate/own toys/whatever....my girls and i don't discuss it and I consider these girls like sisters to me.

mt.biker

11-05-2002, 04:58 PM

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
:yes: :yes: girls i'm sure are just as horny as guys. The only reason why it's believed that girls are less horny is because it's something girls don't talk about. I mean most girls won't even tell each other if they mastrubate/own toys/whatever....my girls and i don't discuss it and I consider these girls like sisters to me.

seems like you have commication issues then....

ShagginJet

11-05-2002, 05:00 PM

Communication is key... i mean guys don't need to tell eachother they masterbate, it's known. Sometimes someone will share a good technique theory, but that rarely happens.

mt.biker

11-05-2002, 05:03 PM

Originally posted by ShagginJet
Communication is key... i mean guys don't need to tell eachother they masterbate, it's known. Sometimes someone will share a good technique theory, but that rarely happens.

NO STRIAGHT GUY SHARES TECHNIQUE STORIES/THEORIES OR WHATEVER YOU WANNA CALL IT.

ShagginJet

11-05-2002, 05:44 PM

Not techniques of masturbation, techniques while interacting with the ladies in the bedroom.

GT40FIED

11-05-2002, 09:32 PM

Haha...I love how this has gotten so far out of hand...keep it up.

And for the guys who think chicks aren't just as horny as guys...man have you missed out. I've had girlfriends that I could barely keep up with. But that's tought to find. I'm always looking for the chicks who look and act all innocent until that bedroom door closes, but they're very few and far between. A lot of girls, I think, are afraid to talk openly about their libido lest they be labeled sluts or some other bullshit. But to all those ladies...it's ok...all us guys wanna hear about that. Trust me.

You girls should download "Chicks Dig Jerks" by Bill Hicks (yes, in addition to his ****ing hilarious comedy he does a song or two). You'll see where I'm comin from.

cutiepy701

11-06-2002, 08:01 AM

Originally posted by mt.biker
seems like you have commication issues then....

No communication issues....well at least on my part. Honestly the reason I never tell any of my girlfriends about my sex life is because..........GIRLS ARE FUC*ING SCANALOUS. If you tell a girl that your man is awsome in bed, she'll probably go behind your back and try to sleep with him.....at least thats how most girls are.....which is why I don't hang around with them.....all my friends are guys, except like 4, I got 4 "girlfriends"

DsBlu01CivEX

11-06-2002, 08:35 AM

Oh i know my girls aren't scandalous and we sure don't have communication issues...we actually have had converstations about whether we do or don't and have had "sex" talks. But we're more willing to talk about sex than mastrubation. It's like taboo for girls to do that....I guess cuz we're afraid of what people would think about us. We're supposed to be the non-horny of the 2 sexes and if people knew we mastrubated that would mean we're just as horny as guys. So yah, so girls don't talk about it. And why are guys so intrigued when girls admit they mastrubate???

cutiepy701

11-06-2002, 08:38 AM

I mean, I'll tell my friends if they ask me something not that personal. Like if they asked me if I had sex last night, I'd be like "hell ya I did". And thats about as far as I'll take it. I might add a little " and damn it was good" or something like that.

And I totally agree on the whole masturbation thing with girls....that is definitely something girls DO NOT talk about with each other, we probably will lie about it. I dunno why, we just do. We are more likely to admit it to a guy than to our girlfriends.
I guess were just weird like that:crazy:

ShagginJet

11-06-2002, 12:10 PM

Here is a thought. What drove you to masturbation?

I mean, I had several G/F's that didn't masturbate before with me, or while with me, but then after, they are doing it like once to several times a week. Is this pretty much how all women start? Lack of sex with some guy they liked drove them to handle it themself?

I also know that some girls started masterbating cause their man couldn't get it done right in bed. This the case with any girls here?

cutiepy701

11-06-2002, 12:14 PM

um...actually it is the complete opposite, at least for me....I don't just sit there and masturbate if Im horny (unlike guys) I don't need to "relieve" a load.

However, by masturbating....I have found ways to reach incredible orgasms.......(Sorry if TMI) that is with someone else, not alone...:banana: :doh:

ShagginJet

11-06-2002, 12:24 PM

That's kind of different then I've found. So are you saying that your orgasm are better by yourself or that you can reach great orgasm, but none of them are like ones you reach with a man.

cutiepy701

11-06-2002, 12:34 PM

What Im saying is when you explore your body, you find things you like, don't like....ect....

This helps you reach unbelievable orgasms.....with a man, not by myself (tho im sure that can happen too):doh:

RSX-S girl

11-09-2002, 04:25 PM

Ok it's not that we'd rather be with a bad boy. It's mostly a physical thing at first. But once you get to realize that them being a bad boy is a front for them being complete assholes and stupid idiots, you go for the one that makes you laugh! Nice gurls like nice guys:yes:

mt.biker

11-09-2002, 04:28 PM

Originally posted by RSX-S girl
Ok it's not that we'd rather be with a bad boy. It's mostly a physical thing at first. But once you get to realize that them being a bad boy is a front for them being complete assholes and stupid idiots, you go for the one that makes you laugh! Nice gurls like nice guys:yes:

please do tell me what defines a "nice girl" I have yet to meet one.

GirlRacer

11-09-2002, 04:38 PM

:eek: I'm a nice girl...

mt.biker

11-09-2002, 04:41 PM

why is it all the nice people are single?

You say your a nice girl, but what makes you a nice girl? that is the questions my dear... that is the question...

DsBlu01CivEX

11-09-2002, 06:19 PM

I'd personally define a "nice or good girl" as someone that doesn't put up a front, is her self, is proud to be who she is, doesn't f:censored:k around with every guy she meets, has high morals for herself, gives respect where respect should be given, someone that is just generally "nice" to everyone but knows when she is being walked on and will correct that.

mt.biker

11-09-2002, 06:23 PM

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
someone that is just generally "nice" to everyone but knows when she is being walked on and will correct that.

i agree with that part... the rest is... questionable. Just because she fronts doesn't mean she aint nice (btw i hate fronters).

DsBlu01CivEX

11-09-2002, 06:37 PM

if she fronts she's not being herself....which means she's not being "nice" by pretending to be someone she's not. If you wanna know what makes a "nice" girl a "nice" girl, then you need to also define what makes a "nice" guy a "nice" guy. I'd assume that the same definition would apply to both.

Oh and the reason why most of the nice girls are single is because most of the guys (even some of the "nice" ones) only want 1 thing...and I'm sure we all know what I mean by that...:banana:

mt.biker

11-09-2002, 06:46 PM

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
if she fronts she's not being herself....which means she's not being "nice" by pretending to be someone she's not. If you wanna know what makes a "nice" girl a "nice" girl, then you need to also define what makes a "nice" guy a "nice" guy. I'd assume that the same definition would apply to both.

Oh and the reason why most of the nice girls are single is because most of the guys (even some of the "nice" ones) only want 1 thing...and I'm sure we all know what I mean by that...:banana:

food! you telling me good girls dont cook? %$*@! now i'm going to have to look for a bad girl to get a decent meal around here.. thanks for the heads up D.....

GT40FIED

11-09-2002, 07:41 PM

Originally posted by RSX-S girl
But once you get to realize that them being a bad boy is a front for them being complete assholes and stupid idiots, you go for the one that makes you laugh! Nice gurls like nice guys:crazy:

Wow...what a bold faced lie. All guys know that chicks don't really go for guys that can make you laugh. I know it always ranks really high on your little ladies polls in Cosmo, but it's total crap. Like you could ever be with some ****ed up lookin guy just because he made you laugh...most woman are just as interested in looks as most guys are, but guys get the bad rap. I mean...there may be a small hint of truth to that...how else could I rationalize myself ever getting laid? But I'm gonna go on the record as saying that for the most part that's total sh!t.

DsBlu01CivEX

11-10-2002, 07:45 PM

GirlRacer

11-10-2002, 07:49 PM

Originally posted by Whiteclipse99
Geesh, you're gonna have a lot of enemies on here if you keep posting comments like that!

And thank you Eclipse, I didn't see that, that was nice of you. :yes: :bow:

And Juvenile, this one's for you: :kiss: :kiss:
Now share that with Mt. Biker ok? haha ;)

Lovebuzz13

11-11-2002, 12:59 AM

RSX ricer girl or whatever....keep up the name calling and you can find a different site to post it because it's sure as hell not going to be put up with here.

ShagginJet

11-11-2002, 01:00 AM

I'd personally define a "nice or good girl" as someone that doesn't put up a front

I have yet to meet a girl that doesn't put up some sort of front.

cutiepy701

11-11-2002, 08:17 AM

Originally posted by mt.biker
food! you telling me good girls dont cook? %$*@! now i'm going to have to look for a bad girl to get a decent meal around here.. thanks for the heads up D.....

I love to cook and Im a "nice" girl. I use to cook dinner for my man every night....as$hole never appreciated it tho.Wow...what a bold faced lie. All guys know that chicks don't really go for guys that can make you laugh. I know it always ranks really high on your little ladies polls in Cosmo, but it's total crap.

Whatever......That is soooo not true. If I guy can't make me laugh, then that is like a big NONO. I love guys that are funny, cuz If you can't laugh or smile, you might as well be dead.
Id rather take a poor, ugly, funny guy over a fine-as$ rich, totally un-humerous fella.

DsBlu01CivEX

11-11-2002, 09:20 PM

Originally posted by cutiepy701
I love guys that are funny, cuz If you can't laugh or smile, you might as well be dead.
Id rather take a poor, ugly, funny guy over a fine-as$ rich, totally un-humerous fella.

me too. I love to laugh. I'm a total goofball and I need someone like that in my life. If he's attractive, it's an added bonus. But I do agree that there has to be some sort of physical attraction....but in no way does that mean he has to be drop dead gorgeous.

Whiteclipse99

11-12-2002, 08:30 AM

Sometimes the person may not be the most attractive, but after you get to know them you find qualities about them other than physical that starts to make them attractive to you. Does that make any sense?

mt.biker

11-12-2002, 10:10 AM

Originally posted by Whiteclipse99
Sometimes the person may not be the most attractive, but after you get to know them you find qualities about them other than physical that starts to make them attractive to you. Does that make any sense?

yes that makes sense, if you think about it personality is what will last in a relationship. Looks come and go, but personality stays. When your 60 yearsold and still married its not going to be that your husband or wife was hot when he/she was 20-30 that keeps you two together now, it will be the fact that you are best friends.

cutiepy701

11-12-2002, 11:01 AM

Originally posted by mt.biker
yes that makes sense, if you think about it personality is what will last in a relationship. Looks come and go, but personality stays. When your 60 yearsold and still married its not going to be that your husband or wife was hot when he/she was 20-30 that keeps you two together now, it will be the fact that you are best friends.

Well said. Looks is only a first impression in my mind, personality is what will make the true determining factor of whether or not you have feelings for a person.

mt.biker

11-12-2002, 11:08 AM

Originally posted by cutiepy701
Well said. Looks is only a first impression in my mind, personality is what will make the true determining factor of whether or not you have feelings for a person.

yup yup, I've come to realize often the prettiest girls have the most emotional issues, so now i'm sticking to the cute girls with great personalities.