condoms... [Archive]

Wren57

10-12-2002, 12:35 PM

Ok guys Id like some serious responses here please... anyways, my GF and I have been going out a lil over a year now and we are both still virgins... well weve talked about that for a while and decided to have sex... and yes, condoms will be used... anyways, my question is: My stepdad gave me some condoms a few months back, but on them it says "EXP090198"...guessing this means they are expired... for some reason I don't feel comfortable going and buying condoms... ok heres the real question: Are these condoms still good to use? Surely the latex will still hold- im thinking it just means the spermicide is expired... any help would be greatly appreciated, as tonight is looking to be the night (parents outta town)... thanks:crazy:

V8killimports

10-12-2002, 12:40 PM

Get past it and bu news ones. 2 months down the road when you gf is pregnant you will have wished you did.

imports_only98

10-12-2002, 01:37 PM

i agree!!!! suck it up and get ones that u can rely on. if its ur first time having sex, ur already gonna be a little nervous/anxious. so u dont wanna have to worry about little things like is this condom still ok to use. just do it buddy! people do it everyday...trust me there will be no big read alarm that goes off announcing that ur buying them...lol....youll be fine!!

-amy

ohiochica

10-12-2002, 05:40 PM

ok personal experience here........ never ever use anything that is expired! a few years ago i had bought some lotions and forgot about them, well one day i found them and decided i would use them that night with me and my bf. well he had a condom on and to make a long story short i ended up with 2nd degree chemical burns from teh expired lotions! let me tell you that is something i always check now!you have never experienced pain liek that i gurantee! he was very lucky he didnt get any burns because he had a condom on.

oh and yes the latex will break down over time.

my other thought is this.......if you cant openly talk about sex and go buy condoms do you really think your mature enough for making love?

mt.biker

10-12-2002, 11:48 PM

Originally posted by ohiochica
my other thought is this.......if you cant openly talk about sex and go buy condoms do you really think your mature enough for making love?

amen to that

dude if you can't go and show your face in public and buy some condoms then your not ready to have sex. If you really feel that uncomfortable with the topic, it might be your little voice of reason saying to you "dude, we really aren't ready for this"

2cents

mt.biker

Wren57

10-13-2002, 12:03 AM

Nah Im ready for it... is it really that odd to be cautious about something you have never done before? I certainly think not. Anyway, yeah I just forgot about it and went and got some and it was no big deal... I liked the "no big red alarm will go off" ;) ... anyways yeah its late so I better get some sleep (really exhausted:crazy: )... we will leave why up to your imagination...

KwikR6

10-13-2002, 03:16 AM

Originally posted by ohiochica

my other thought is this.......if you cant openly talk about sex and go buy condoms do you really think your mature enough for making love?
I second you on that......I go to the store every time with my gurl to get her pills and we support each other with that stuff all the time...

GirlRacer

10-13-2002, 01:37 PM

:D :D These sorts of discussions are always funny I think. See, that whole thing about, if you're embarrassed to buy condoms, you shouldn't be doin what you're planning...is right in lots of occasions. BUT, in a small town, that's not always what it is.
See, where I used to live before I moved out was a town like that. There wasn't 1 time when I went to wal-mart and didn't have someone stop me and go "Hey, are you Bryan's little girl?" :D
I didn't even know most of these people, but naturally, they end up behind you in line and if they know your parents and you're buying something like, it's gonna get back around & then there'll be hell to pay. :yes:
That's why I just pretty muchly walked the thin line as a teen. My dad was God where I lived. :paranoid: Well...that and...I was just raised to know that he could be my best friend or my worst enemy. I always chose the friend thing. :D :D
Just my 2 cents worth.:bandit:

ohiochica

10-13-2002, 03:54 PM

ok but that proves the theory.........if you wouldnt want your parents to know your doing "it". then aparently you shouldn't be.

juvenile

10-13-2002, 04:22 PM

Originally posted by ohiochica
ok but that proves the theory.........if you wouldnt want your parents to know your doing "it". then aparently you shouldn't be.

I agreed with your last statement but not this one.
Some parents are REALLY strict and wouldn't want you to have sex at all. What parent would want their kid having sex?

Wren57

10-13-2002, 05:19 PM

It's not that I mind my parents knowing I am having sex, thats no big deal. My parents are cool like that, and her mom offered to put her on the pill (which she now takes). That and the fact that we've been going out quite a while makes it all obvious to our parents. The only reason I asked was to get some support to convince me to go buy the dang things, excuse me for being a little nervous about something I had never done before. All I wanted was a little support, and all I got was people flaming me telling me Im not mature... gee thanks guys:rolleyes:

GirlRacer

10-13-2002, 05:42 PM

In my personal opinion, I don't think any good parent's gonna be like awwww....my baby's havin sex. I'm 21 years old and there's just some things you shouldn't discuss with your parents.

Racing Rice

10-13-2002, 05:51 PM

:D Condom topics are always funny.. So are some of the stories that can go with them..

Anyway, Im going to agree with most of these people. Buy new condoms, its not worth risking.:no:

Next.. Make sure you buy Trojan! Most of the other brands I have tried SUCK!

Remember its Trojan, or bust.. :D :eek:

(sorry for the pun);)

Wren57

10-13-2002, 05:56 PM

Heh yeah I got some trojans last night... no way I'd go with anything other than the best... its just not worth the $0.50 you might save getting a cheapo... and my parents arent like "awww"... thatd be a bit creepy if they were:eek:... but at the same time they know I will make good decisions, and basically since I dont drink or do drugs they are happy with me as long as my grades stay up... I dont talk to them about sex but they dont discourage it either... and to those of you who said we shouldnt have sex without our parents knowing... well the reason I waited for parents to go outta town wasnt so they wouldnt know, it was so we could have the whole house to ourselves. Its just a whole lot nicer and more comfortable being in your own bed knowing nobody else is going to be in the house for the next 16 or so hours...

Racing Rice

10-13-2002, 06:02 PM

Originally posted by highlander
well the reason I waited for parents to go outta town wasnt so they wouldnt know, it was so we could have the whole house to ourselves. Its just a whole lot nicer and more comfortable being in your own bed knowing nobody else is going to be in the house for the next 16 or so hours...

amen to that.. Atleast you have an SUV.. Compacts are a B*tch to get situated in.. I feel bad for you though.. Cause once you do it your hooked.. Then you will fiend it forever!:o :crazy:

KwikR6

10-13-2002, 06:48 PM

Wren57

10-13-2002, 06:59 PM

Originally posted by Racing Rice
amen to that.. Atleast you have an SUV.. Compacts are a B*tch to get situated in.. I feel bad for you though.. Cause once you do it your hooked.. Then you will fiend it forever!:o :crazy:

Heh yeah, Im already hooked:eek:... don't plan to ever do it in a car though, although Im sure somewhere down the line I will... anyways what did u mean you will "fiend" it forever? Last I checked fiend meant evil person or something like that...:crazy:

SVT Cobra

10-13-2002, 08:03 PM

over a year? how old are you guys? gotta be young.
1st time, use a condom, u dont want a rudolph. if u got the skillz and know ur both clean, dont worry about the rubber. u need some (self) control. feels 10 times better w/o it lol. u just need practice. :D

GOOD 'OL PULL-OUT METHOD :bow: :yes: :D

Wren57

10-13-2002, 08:26 PM

We are both 17... yeah I can only imagine how nice itd feel without one... with one it was *less* pleasurable than oral sex... oh well, I bet she enjoyed it more (or at least i think thats what all the groaning was for;) )... I dont get the rudolph joke, oh well... I got plenty of control- a lot more than I thought I was gonna have, which was a pleasant surprise:yes:

SVT Cobra

10-13-2002, 08:34 PM

Originally posted by highlander
[B I dont get the rudolph joke, oh well... [/B]
virgins...can be a bloody experience. u can imagine the rest.... haha

Wren57

10-13-2002, 08:37 PM

Ah... gotcha... well we had been kinda building up to the moment through a series of... well... activities... amazingly enough there was no pain and no problems... I just let her control the pace of everything and it all went fine...

GirlRacer

10-13-2002, 08:49 PM

:D :D :yes: ;) :D

Racing Rice

10-13-2002, 09:03 PM

Originally posted by highlander
anyways what did u mean you will "fiend" it forever? Last I checked fiend meant evil person or something like that...:crazy:

Informal - One who is addicted to something

Informal - One who is completely absorbed in or obsessed with a given job or pastime

Make more sense now.. ;)

ohiochica

10-13-2002, 09:36 PM

roflmao..........

oh and about the parents thing i guess i am different i waited till i was 21 and i had dated my guy for 18 months and we are still together 4 and a half years later. i could talk to my mom about anything sex included. i guess our bond was better than most parents/kids. sorry for those that took my comment the wrong way. all i meant to say was i never cared if my mom knew we were fooling around because she knew i loved him and that he loved me and that i would never do anything risky. sorry.

imports_only98

10-13-2002, 10:04 PM

wow...17..that seems young to me...but im still a virgin at 21 so maybe that doesnt say much about me either...lol. but anyway...this post was pointless sorry.

-amy

2000Pimpinex

10-14-2002, 02:05 PM

Just go out and buy some new ones. And maybe you should get the extended pleasure ones so you can give her more than a few minutes. She'll think your a good.

4jacks

10-14-2002, 02:47 PM

Rofl !!! this whole post was great !

Glad you bought new ones better safe than sorry,

I really don't think sex without condoms is soo much better than with condoms... my wifes on depo and we don't use them anymore, Though i still have some, maybe we should use them before they expire.

I miss sex in the car!!!!!!! gesh i still haven't even broken in my Honda yet. It seemed like it was a lot more fun back in those days. . . .

And if it is any consolation.... i remember driving for an hour to go to a city i didn't live in and never went to, to buy condoms.

Wren57

10-15-2002, 11:38 PM

I just gotta follow this up and say... damn porn sucks now! I mean... got a bit bored online and actually stumbled across some accidently, and its just not good any more;( ... surely this cant last! Is there any hope for me???:no:

KwikR6

10-16-2002, 01:25 AM

Porn sucks???
Me no comprehend..hahahaha....:crazy:

mt.biker

10-16-2002, 06:50 AM

Originally posted by dereks civic
Porn sucks???
Me no comprehend..hahahaha....:crazy:

porno does suck, when you think about what your looking at its more then discusting. These girls **** just about anyone, why is that attractive or even interesting?

Racing Rice

10-16-2002, 07:53 AM

Originally posted by highlander
I just gotta follow this up and say... damn porn sucks now! I mean... got a bit bored online and actually stumbled across some accidently, and its just not good any more;( ... surely this cant last! Is there any hope for me???:no:

:D Poor soul.. you went and did it now. Life will never be the same. :no:

GirlRacer

10-16-2002, 06:05 PM

Umm...Porn sucks now? As opposed to what or when? :crazy: :D
Boyz are just silly sometimes. :yes: :pukey

mt.biker

10-16-2002, 07:23 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
Umm...Porn sucks now? As opposed to what or when? :crazy: :D
Boyz are just silly sometimes. :yes: :pukey

compared to the real thing it sucks

Niacin

10-16-2002, 08:05 PM

Why have hamburger when you can eat steak?

Max

KwikR6

10-18-2002, 02:32 AM

Originally posted by mt.biker
porno does suck, when you think about what your looking at its more then discusting. These girls **** just about anyone, why is that attractive or even interesting?
Some people just gotta relax...it was just a joke bro

Rob

10-18-2002, 02:33 AM

Originally posted by Niacin
Why have hamburger when you can eat steak?

Max
:D :D
Originally posted by GirlRacer
Boyz are just silly sometimes. :yes: :pukey
And just why are we silly Quin?? :paranoid: ;)