My ex defines a slut....have to vent

[Grip72]

She is totatlly being a *****, I don't normally call girls this but she is one exception. Her cousin, who is female as well as being her best friend, was telling me how my ex is always dressign like a slut now and showing off her 36DD breasts. I mean i loved those things, they were very nice and she knew they were nice but now she REALLY wants to show them off. She asked her cousin if she could borrow a bikini top to wear to the bar! That is pretty skimpy if you ask me. I'm sorry for wasting your time but she is just really getting me mad. She is leading so many guys on right now and i hope she gets hurt or something soon. She really needs alot of sensed talked into her but no one can seem to get through to her that she is not superior to everybody else. She was even telling us how she should flaunt her body to get deals on clothes and stuff like that. SLUT!

[Grip72]

I forgot to mention this is the girl that i was in love with and everything and i still want to be her friend...sort of. Oh yeah, and she smokes when she drinks now...SOOO unattractive..i'm dont' like her anymore but i still care about her...aghkladgnbklafbm:paranoid:

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Liking/loving someone is completely different than caring for them. DON'T GET THE 2 CONFUSED!!!! I care a lot about my exbf that treated me like sh!t....but I don't like him like that anymore. The 2 of us will remain friends like we are now. We talk on occassion...but he's always gonna have to be the one to initiate convos with me and he knows that.

[juvenile]

dude...from before to know time to time people have told you to forget about her. that's exactly what you have to do FORGET ABOUT HER.
you posted like 5 posts saying how you like her then another 5 about how she's a *****.
Let the woman/girl/hoe/slut/whatever else you want to call her live her life. She hurt and and apparently still hasn't lost that little touch that she had/has on you.

Go watch some porn and look at other breasts or something...you need to stop thinking about her.


and btw I'm not trying to be a ***** about this or anythign it's just from post to post it's the same thing over and over pretty much.

[ebpda9]

Originally posted by juvenile
dude...from before to know time to time people have told you to forget about her. that's exactly what you have to do FORGET ABOUT HER.
you posted like 5 posts saying how you like her then another 5 about how she's a *****.
Let the woman/girl/hoe/slut/whatever else you want to call her live her life. She hurt and and apparently still hasn't lost that little touch that she had/has on you.

Go watch some porn and look at other breasts or something...you need to stop thinking about her.


and btw I'm not trying to be a ***** about this or anythign it's just from post to post it's the same thing over and over pretty much.


LOL juve. that's hilarious, but so true at the same time.

was she your first love ? i know that is a bit hard to forget, but try and forget her. can't you see that everything she does affects you ?

[Grip72]

I know i know juvenile...but she was my first love and for some dumb reason i haven't been able to not think about her! we did everythign together. She was my first lay and i was hers. We were very close and it's very hard for me..I'll stop venting. Its just taht i have a hard time not thinking of her.

[ebpda9]

that's understandeable, but i think you are not doing your best to forget her.

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by Accord17
I know i know juvenile...but she was my first love and for some dumb reason i haven't been able to not think about her! we did everythign together. She was my first lay and i was hers. We were very close and it's very hard for me..I'll stop venting. Its just taht i have a hard time not thinking of her.

been there done this dude! I'm a recovering slut dater myself.. my ex got love by ****ing guys! grrr

but im over her can ya tell?

alll you need is to find something to fill teh void

[Grip72]

Yes i know and realize what i hafta do..but it is very very hard. i loved her alot and we had very good times together..she has changed dramatically and turned somewhat slutty.

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by Accord17
Yes i know and realize what i hafta do..but it is very very hard. i loved her alot and we had very good times together..she has changed dramatically and turned somewhat slutty.

maybe she hasn't changed dude maybe your just seeing her through untainted eyes. People rarely change but you can often view them differently.
Im not even sure you really love this girl, it might be hurtting you know that shes gone but what do you really miss? is it the physical contact a girl gives, not just sex. Or is it higher then that?
its so easy to get confused between the two but loving the physical is called lust not love.

[incubus86]

Originally posted by Accord17
she has changed dramatically and turned somewhat slutty.

All the more reason to turn your head and walk away.

[msvtec14]

She needs attention. Flat out. You made her feel special. You made her feel good about herself. BUT, that was caused by genuine feelings that you had for her. You're not together. She needs attention. She might be getting it. But, I highly doubt that it's genuine when she is getting it from guys that see her and her 36DD boobs in a bikinni top at a bar. She's not respecting herself. You don't need that. :rolleyes:

[cutiepy701]

Yah, id say that defines a slut. Lose her hunny. She obviously doesn't care about you and is just playing games by knowing she still has you on her leash. Drop the hoe. I know it sounds like she is your first for alot of things, but .........out with the old and in with the new, right??

Youll meet someone new and she'll be a faded picture of the past. Time heals all wounds.

My advise is when someone tries to tell you something about her, just kindly say, "you know what I don't give a fu** what she is doing or who she is fuc*ing....I don't want to know"

People tried telling me where my x was and who he was with all the time after we broke up. Trust me you are better off if you don't know anyting at all. And it is easier to heal. Curiosity killed the cat,,,,,member that.:yes: :yes:

[msvtec14]

Just erase her from your life. My ex and I have been broken up for a little over 5 months now. For the first 2 months I was pretty much clueless as he went MIA on me. Literally. He crawled out from under his rock after 2 months and apologized a lot and all that and we continued to talk. I personally thought it was all crap after a little while and I think maybe 2 months ago or so I called him and said that I wasn't calling him or anything anymore because I was just really fed up and it made me feel shitty and that I don't deserve it. I haven't talked to him. And I'm a hell of a lot better than I was when I was talking to him or even knew about him and what was going on his life. It just takes some time, that's all.

[Grip72]

Ya i know time heals all wounds but what a gapping would it is! It's just hard to hear her talk about who's cute or who she got massages from and "watched movies" with. but i'm slowly getting better with it.

[msvtec14]

Originally posted by Accord17
Ya i know time heals all wounds but what a gapping would it is! It's just hard to hear her talk about who's cute or who she got massages from and "watched movies" with. but i'm slowly getting better with it.

Are you out of your mind? I would never be able to do that. Always, in the back of my mind I would be picturing him with another girl and that used to turn my stomach. Now, I could care less if he put his penis in a flaming hole. I'm over it. If you really think that you can deal with it this way, that's ok too. I know that totally cutting her out of your life will be a little painful but it will be a lot better for you in the long run. The only thing that it will do for you if you continue too see her is hold you back. At some point maybe you will want to be with someone but the fact that you're still hanging around your X can totally mess with your mind.

[incubus86]

Originally posted by msvtec14


...Now, I could care less if he put his penis in a flaming hole...

thats awful.:pukey :pukey :pukey

[msvtec14]

Originally posted by incubus86


thats awful.:pukey :pukey :pukey

I'm sorry. I didn't mean to upset any of you guys by talking about another penis like that. But, I have a lot of anger towards that whole situation. :yes: