It's not fair

[mylittlecivic]

OK my sisters best friend (shes only 19) had been pregnant for 6 months then all the sudden shes in the hospital with pre eclampsea which means that her body and the babys body are killing each other, so they took they baby, he was only 13.4 ounces thats less than a pound but he was still alive, the smallest baby i had ever seen he was kicking and grabbing his daddys hand he looked just fine, he had a good heart but his lungs still needed to develope all the way.We thought he was gonna be ok or at least we told ourselves that cuz we didnt want him to die, but i just heard that he died because he lost alot of blood and they didn't know where it went so they did an ultra sound on his brain and found it was up there.. he's dead now and it's just not fair, im sure noone here cares but I had to express myself;( ;( :no:

[ebpda9]

ohh that really sucks. i know it'sa not fair but what whould have been the chances of growing as a normal baby ? i don't know anything about this that's why i'm asking

[mt.biker]

alright look, people do care on here! That is some tough shit your family now has to go through.
I know nothing on this topic about little babies so i'm just gonna offer my condolences (sp?) to you and your family.

[mylittlecivic]

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
ohh that really sucks. i know it'sa not fair but what whould have been the chances of growing as a normal baby ? i don't know anything about this that's why i'm asking


before they took him out he had a 25% chance of living thats why we were shocked to see him alive but, they knew that he could still die just as easy after he was out, and there would have been at least one thing wrong with him, either he would be blind, deaf.......

[Racing Rice]

Wow sorry to hear about that. I will keep you all in our prayers.

[Accord Man]

sorry to hear that..

I kinda know what you going thru.. I wish you all the strength
you need to pull thru.

[thermal]

daym........sorry to hear that....

[94_AcCoRd_EX]

Hey mylittlecivic, I'm really sorry to hear that. That's a very sad thing to have happen and I hope you and everyone involved gets through it ok

[dj_tessai]

;( Dayam thats really sad, I hope that does not happen to anyone else you or I might know..

[blind34_1]

wow that really sucks...I'm sorry to hear that. How is your sisters friend taking it? Is she alright?

[mylittlecivic]

Originally posted by blind34_1
wow that really sucks...I'm sorry to hear that. How is your sisters friend taking it? Is she alright?

She is holding up pretty well, She's a strong person tho she's been thru alot of crap in her life. Anyways the funeral/ memorial was today, alot of people cried including me.

[cutiepy701]

Honey I am soo sorry, I love children and can't imagine what your going thru, but sometimes you have to make the best out of a bad situation. He isn't in pain anymore, and he was probably struggling to survive. I know it is hard but try to be positive and just know that he will always be remembered :no: ;(