How serious was your relationship??

[cutiepy701]

Im just curious, what is everyones longest and most serious conditions in a relationship?? And how old is everyone here?

moi---- first b/f- 1yr, then 11/2 long distance
second- 3 yrs, lived together for 2yrs, engaged
third- 1yr, lived together for 9 mo. just broke up 2 months ago;(

Those are my longest and most serious. Pretty shitty eh:no:

[ebpda9]

well i don't think mine lasted more than one day. i guess it's something wrong with me

[cutiepy701]

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
well i don't think mine lasted more than one day. i guess it's something wrong with me


:D LOL , ya think this might have something to do with your internet porn link???:eek:

[ebpda9]

Originally posted by cutiepy701



:D LOL , ya think this might have something to do with your internet porn link???:eek:

nah ! i guess because i like technical stuff and i don't see females too technical, not the don't know technical stuff, but there is nothing to fix on them;)

[spoogenet]

Haha, I can't resist this one.

1. 6 months
2. 2 weeks
3. 3 days
4. 1 night,1day
5. 1 month, mostly l/d
6. Summer
7. Couple weeks
8. Summer + 6 months l/d

Ok, those are all my relationships in my life in the order they occurred....up until #5 notice a trend? Hahahahahaaaa. 1 was when I was about 17 or so, 8 ended February '01 when I was 22.

Don't get the wrong idea about me with some of these, such as the 1 night, 1 day....it wasn't a one night stand, we just went out on a date, spent a lot of time the next day still kinda in date mode, then decided on friendship. Some of those were dating, some of those were more serious.....but I wouldn't say any of them were really all *that* serious.

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[mt.biker]

all i remeber were my last to most recent witha girl called amanda was 9-10months

one before that was 4 months (i think) after that its all been forgotten, thank God

i'd say my 9 month one was seriously, almost to serious. dam girl started talking about family, living together and kids. YIKES! i'm 18 btw

[cutiepy701]

Originally posted by mt.biker


i'd say my 9 month one was seriously, almost to serious. dam girl started talking about family, living together and kids. YIKES! i'm 18 btw

:eek: Yah, thats a little too much at 18, :crazy:
Wait a sec, I was engaged at 18.......Glad that one didn't work out:yes: :yes: :yes:

[xhondagirl]

i was with the same guy all throughout high school through my first yr away at college.. soo 5 yrs..but i can tell u oi was soo stupid because i still here to the day all the gilrs he cheated on me with..and when he wasnt cheating on my he was treating me like shit.. i was a dumb little girl at the time who thought there was no one else out there for me..... it was just a waste of 5 yrs but u learn from your mistakes. i really get to know the guy before anything.. im not picky with looks or anything but i def get to know about the ways they treated girls in the past and how dedicated they r to being serious.. cause now im 22 going on 23 and im not into just messing around with any guy anymore i want to get on with my life...

[LudeBitch]

My most seroius and longest relationship lasted about a year and a half which was 3 years ago which was when I was 16. We'd probably still be together if he didn't cheat on me. Next one was about 2 months then the one ofter that 2 weeks. My current relationship is going on a month and hopefully it'll out last my longest one. BTW, i'm 19 now.

[Racing Rice]

Well Im 23, my longest most serious relationship, will be here for the rest of my life.. We have been dating for almost 5 years.. and married almost 2 months..;) :yes:

[Whiteclipse99]

22 yrs old, 1 serious relationship, lasted 1 yr, 1st love....I guess I'm kind of picky :paranoid: or just really repulsive, which I'd hope not!

[Mushroom]

Hmm... good topic. Not counting one-offs,
1. 3 weeks
2. 3 months
3. 3 years
4. 2 months
5. 2 months
6. 3.5 years and counting...

#3 started last year of high school then turned long-distance
Looks like #6 will be the last one on this list... :)

I'm 22.

[Lovebuzz13]

1st serious BF- We dated 11 months- we broke up because he was so controlling.

2nd serious BF- We dated two years and just broke up ;(

Other than that I dated a bunch of guys, but I'd break up with them after a few weeks.

[Kyle]

My only serious relationship was in fourth grade...it seems weird...but we were close...lol
I haven't really had a "relationship" since then...i've gone "out" with girls though since then...lol

[DsBlu01CivEX]

ugh SUCH a bad topic for me....apparently I'm just not "serious relationship" material....
First bf-summer after I graduated...3 months. I broke up with him before I started college...didn't wanna be tied down. That and it seemed like I was dating him and all of his friends. :rolleyes:

Second bf-met him May 01. Dated off and on for 4 months...together "officially" for 3 months. Still close with him...although I get a lot of shit about it.
:paranoid: ...still hooked on him even though I know he is totally wrong for me if he stays the way he is now. And I'm not all about changin the guy I'm with.

So basically all I can handle are 3 month relationships.

And Erin you are SOOO not repulsive...you're just too dam picky and won't give anyone a chance.

[bessiebeater]

1st serious relationship lasted 2 and a half years....we broke up almost a year ago, 2nd and looking like the last one will be 10 months this week, but we have been really good friends for like 10 years........

[OneDopeTeg]

just over 2 years....broke up 8mo ago after living together for a year....tough times but life always goes on!

[toykilla]

ive had lots of relationships but as far as serious ones.

1st - 2 years
2nd - 2 years

2nd girl sucks and id rather not speak to her but the 1st girl, we are still on hanging out terms. shes cool.

[HoNdAaCcOrDpNaY]

Well.. my longest relationship is wid my boyfren who i've been wid for 2 yrz. and 1 month on Jul. 30 and i'm only 16! datz long to me especially if it's on the downLow and it's serious.. I hope it lasts a life time tho and i dun want 2 lose him.. da most pittiful wun was goin out wid mah first bf evr! for only ONE whole day kuz i didn't know wut 2 say 2 him, so dat DoRk dumped me.. hehe.. :rolleyes: so yea.. laterz..

[Violent Apathy]

Month and a half and still going for me, before that was 3 weeks. :crazy:

[dfaulkner]

Let's see, I'm 32 yrs old. I've had what I consider two serious relationships. The first lasted 5 years, 2 1/2 yrs longer than it should have. I met my next serious relationship in Nov. of 93, we became friends, she worked in my office, e then started dating, dated for 3 1/2 years. She's now my wife, married 5 years, have a 3 yr old son and a daughter on the way in about 2 or 3 weeks. ;)

[cutiepy701]

Originally posted by dfaulkner
Let's see, I'm 32 yrs old. I've had what I consider two serious relationships. The first lasted 5 years, 2 1/2 yrs longer than it should have. I met my next serious relationship in Nov. of 93, we became friends, she worked in my office, e then started dating, dated for 3 1/2 years. She's now my wife, married 5 years, have a 3 yr old son and a daughter on the way in about 2 or 3 weeks. ;)

;) CONGRATS ON THE NEW BABY

[dfaulkner]

thank you :)

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by dfaulkner
Let's see, I'm 32 yrs old. I've had what I consider two serious relationships. The first lasted 5 years, 2 1/2 yrs longer than it should have. I met my next serious relationship in Nov. of 93, we became friends, she worked in my office, e then started dating, dated for 3 1/2 years. She's now my wife, married 5 years, have a 3 yr old son and a daughter on the way in about 2 or 3 weeks. ;)

Congrats..

We need to start a married guys club on here..;) :yes:

Just to see how many of us there are.

[ChrisCantSkate]

Originally posted by Racing Rice


Congrats..

We need to start a married guys club on here..;) :yes:

Just to see how many of us there are.
i think thats off topic....

and congrats on the baby man. must feel great

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by Whiteclipse99
22 yrs old, 1 serious relationship, lasted 1 yr, 1st love....I guess I'm kind of picky :paranoid: or just really repulsive, which I'd hope not!

I know your not repulsive i think you just dont say much. If your as nice inside as you look (which i think you are, just i've never gotten to know you) then your just dam picky, some guy should have snatched you up by now.

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
ugh SUCH a bad topic for me....apparently I'm just not "serious relationship" material....
First bf-summer after I graduated...3 months. I broke up with him before I started college...didn't wanna be tied down. That and it seemed like I was dating him and all of his friends.

Second bf-met him May 01. Dated off and on for 4 months...together "officially" for 3 months. Still close with him...although I get a lot of shit about it.
...still hooked on him even though I know he is totally wrong for me if he stays the way he is now. And I'm not all about changin the guy I'm with.

So basically all I can handle are 3 month relationships.


For you d i have no idea why you to aren't with someone. you and erin must be in a bad part of the country. with a personality like that i dont know why the right guy hasn't found you or why you haven't found him yet.

Ok thats my 2cents for the night, reading this thread is making me depressed. mt.biker out

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by 4thGenlude

i think thats off topic....

Your right.. I didnt mean hijack the thread, by here I meant on HS.;)