OK TRUTH: Reason why guys are players!

[dukmahsik]

Ok Ill be first to admit it... (just in case you poor girls don't know... some do not). Sorry if this offends you but I feel this is important for girls to know and stay away from certain guys.

#1 thing on a guy's mind when they meet a cute girl = sex
#1 thing on a guy's mind whne they go to a club = girls
#1 goal in life (during ages 16-24) = bag as many girls as u can
#1 reason why a guy is nice to a girl he just meets = sex
#1 reason why a guy is a jerk to a girl = to get her attention
#1 reason why a guy is a player = prob burnt by 1 girl too many
#1 reason why guys act hard = dumb girls like it
#1 reason why guys play = cuz girls let them

That is most of the truth... i wish it wasn't this way and we could all treat each other with respect but guy's do think with the other "head" most of the time. When he gets burnt by a girl he cares for so much it is like "eff all girls" and becomes a hater and a player. So avoid those hard acting types, wannabes, and jess too nice guys. They all want something else than what you really stand for. I used to be like that because I too got burned and im sure MANY a guy can vouch for that too. But when u get wiser u realize that it is the other person's lost and you're on to bigger and better things.

It is nature for a guy to want to mate many times... but a real man can control it and just love one girl ;)

[Racing Rice]

Im going to leave this open for now. Just for the heck of it.

The truth of the matter is your whole post is nothing but BS. An immature man may think like that, but not a real man.:rolleyes:

[dukmahsik]

how is it BS?

this section is based for personal experience... that is mine and i posted what a mature man should do so how is that BS? ur telling me there are no players? guys dont think like that? what planet u live on?

[Racing Rice]

Just because your speaking for yourself doesnt mean thats how all guys think/act...

[dukmahsik]

r u not reading wat i wrote?

"certain guys"

if it doesnt reflect you then ur a good guy... is there something to complain about that? y dont u let other peeps reply to this. TIA

[2000Pimpinex]

I agree to some extent. That is all thats on some peeps minds. Not me. I guess Racing Rice and myself are a cut above the rest!

[Quist]

Its true!!!!!!!!!

I like almost every guy has gone through that.And yes I said ALMOST every guy, you must admit that alot of guys are(or try). If you say you were never like that then hurray, but after being burned by a girl then alot of guys(and girls) turn to this thing we call playism.

Just my two cents.

And Racing Rice if you are going to preach that your not a real man if you have done the player thing then try this-before I was in a relationship for 4 1/2 years and never wandered!!!

[Lovebuzz13]

Sounds like some of the guys I meet :mad:

[OneDopeTeg]

Im not down for the whole player thing....just my two pence!

[SilverHX4Me]

i really believe once a guy finds the right girl that does get out of their system .. i know my fiance used to have all these stupid little girls all up on him and when we met he completely stopped talking to them and calmed down 100%... now when stupid hoes try he just laughs and then tells me and we have a nice giggle together.. but for the most part i dont think many guys are as extreme as your example but i do know from expereience a few are.. and also girls can be just as awful if not worse so its just the person.

[Racing Rice]

Ok.. I apologize.. Your right for the most part.

People handle different situations in different ways.

My question to all of you is what is your defenition of player? Im not wanting to start anything. I just want to see what you guys think.;)

[ebpda9]

Originally posted by Racing Rice
My question to all of you is what is your defenition of player? Im not wanting to start anything. I just want to see what you guys think.;)

i don't know. i really wanna hear it.

[TruHeel142]

I sorta understand where you come from because I do know ppl like that, but in no way are all men like that or even a majority like that. I'm sure not like that.

[dukmahsik]

yeps... real men love and cherish their one and ONLY ladie :yes:

a player to me: messing with another girl emotionally and/or physically when you and ur GF are still together... i mean if u can't tell ur GF about what you are doing without feeling guilty then your probably playing

but then again... most of us have/will play... it is kinda normal

[Racing Rice]

hmmm..

My idea of a player is someone that uses someone else to get stuff sex, money, clothes, etc.. Then after they have what they want they are gone, and moved onto someone else. To me a true player with never make a "commitment" to anyone, but will lead the other person onto believing that they are "commited".. Kinda the same idea, but still very different..

Either way it still messes with peoples heads. I know plenty of female players too.

[dukmahsik]

females are the worse! :eek: :rolleyes: :crazy: :no:

hehehehe

[Incubus]

Ok....do any of you people listen to Tom Leykis? I know he's on the radio in southern cali and I know other parts of the country as well. He basically says the same thing what this post is about and guys call up and confirm it.....so do women.

There are different types of people out there. My first girlfriend called me a player because I dumped her because she was psycho. I really don't call myself a player because I don't talk to females that often. My last gf burned me good and for a little while I hated females and just wanted to play them, but I never was able to bring myself to do it.....just talk about it!
When people want to "play" another person, they don't realize that the other person has feelings too.
The one thing I will say is: Players aren't born, they are made by women who burn them!!!

But all in all, if your kind hearted,you'll get the chick. As for me, my one true love is my car!!!!

[Quist]

Ummmm player???

I guess I would define it as someone that is "hangin out" with more than one person at a time. Also making that person, think that they are the only one that the "player" is hangin around. I guess thats my simple explanation.

But yes I beleive that lots of women are way worse. Alot of times they do it with cruel intentions, like trying to harm another women or old guy that burned them. Men arent trying to hurt someone emotionaly just get laid. Either way neither are good.

Heres another question why do women hate other women so much?

[SilverHX4Me]

Originally posted by Quist


Heres another question why do women hate other women so much?

its insecurity.. and the fact that for the most part other girls arent very nice because there is always competition, have you ever noticed really hot girls most of the time( not always) have alot of friends that dont compare? i really dont have many female friends because in the past all ive found in them is a bunch of backstabbing and * fake friendship* especially when were younger.honestly i have a very hard time trusting other girls because all ive seen from them so far has led me to believe most of them dont know what friendship even means. also an example of why i dont like females when i first got with my fiance there was this girl he was friends with and she said to me many times she only wanted to be his friend.. gee what a surprise she was full of it, she had these super retarded pet names she called him that annoyed him to all hell and when one day i was on his screen name and she assumed it was him she slipped up and showed what she really wanted.. i think after awhile girls grow out of this... but at young ages when theres so much competetion its hard to find a true * girlfriend*, but these are just examples i know not all girls are like this because im not,i guess you just need to weed through the retards. :crazy: :D

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by SilverHX4Me


its insecurity.. and the fact that for the most part other girls arent very nice because there is always competition, have you ever noticed really hot girls most of the time( not always) have alot of friends that dont compare? i really dont have many female friends because in the past all ive found in them is a bunch of backstabbing and * fake friendship* especially when were younger.honestly i have a very hard time trusting other girls because all ive seen from them so far has led me to believe most of them dont know what friendship even means. also an example of why i dont like females when i first got with my fiance there was this girl he was friends with and she said to me many times she only wanted to be his friend.. gee what a surprise she was full of it, she had these super retarded pet names she called him that annoyed him to all hell and when one day i was on his screen name and she assumed it was him she slipped up and showed what she really wanted.. i think after awhile girls grow out of this... but at young ages when theres so much competetion its hard to find a true * girlfriend*, but these are just examples i know not all girls are like this because im not,i guess you just need to weed through the retards. :crazy: :D

This is so true!!:yes:

[dukmahsik]

that is true... then sometimes girls turn into lesbians! wtf?

[Incubus]

I've never met a lesbian that hasn't had sex with guys before turning into a lesbian!
And every lesbian I've met has hit on me, asked me out, etc....but same with gay guys.

To me a lesbian is the chick version of a male player. A player is a guy who used to be nice and sweet but got burned one too many times and becomes an ass.
All the lesbians I've met were straight, then got burned one too many times by guys and so voila! They become lesbians.

[4jacks]

Ummmm........ I dont' agree with anything but I still watch

Jerry Springer !!!

[Niacin]

#1 thing on a guy's mind when they meet a cute girl = sex
#1 thing on a guy's mind whne they go to a club = girls
#1 goal in life (during ages 16-24) = bag as many girls as u can
#1 reason why a guy is nice to a girl he just meets = sex
#1 reason why a guy is a jerk to a girl = to get her attention


Man, speak for yourself on this one, right?

Max

[juvenile]

Originally posted by dukmahsik
that is true... then sometimes girls turn into lesbians! wtf?
a 3 some is nice to experience once....or so I heard! ;) :D

[FeelMyRide]

Originally posted by Incubus
I've never met a lesbian that hasn't had sex with guys before turning into a lesbian!
And every lesbian I've met has hit on me, asked me out, etc....but same with gay guys.

To me a lesbian is the chick version of a male player. A player is a guy who used to be nice and sweet but got burned one too many times and becomes an ass.
All the lesbians I've met were straight, then got burned one too many times by guys and so voila! They become lesbians.

What in the...? So does that mean that when a guy gets hurt one too many times after he does his "player" thing, he becomes gay?

[Incubus]

I'm not saying every chick becomes a lesbian.......I'm not even trying to stereotype, but every lesbian that I've ever known and even seen/heard on TV/radio didn't start out as a lesbian, it was always from some kind of traumatic experience.
I'm sure there are "true" lesbians out there, I just haven't come across any.

All the gay guys I've met usually started out being gay, but the bisexual ones that I've known were just experimenting and decided they liked guys too.

[toykilla]

How is going to a club with the sole purpose of girls a bad thing? You make it sound like a bad thing. I goto clubs for 1 reason. TO MEET GIRLS. Any guy that says otherwise, unless he's there with his girl is full of shit and you know it. Also, when a guy meets a cute girl, they are thinking of sex. ITS PROVEN that sex goes through a mans mind like once every 20 seconds or something like that. Its how guys are. Just because your thinking of sex it makes you a bad guy? Or not a "real man". How does that make you a player as well? Since when is thinking of sex going out and ****ing every girl you can? I agree with those 2 just because guys think of sex all the time. First thing a guy will ask another guy when hes telling a friend about a girl he met is...."Is she hot?"
You guys on here are so into making everyone think your soo much better than other guys, that you forgot how you really are in the process. Guys are guy, girls are girls. We all have downfalls, we all **** up, we all get screwed somewhere along the lines in life. IT HAPPENS, just because ive had sex with 20 more people than you, does that make me, not a "real man". **** NO!!!!!!! What does it make me? A guy that gets laid hell of a lot more than you. Im 20 years old, not 35. I am in NO WAY, looking for a girl to start a life with. **** THAT. I prefer to have fun at my young age. Everyone on here acts like there 35+ years old when they are 16-25. If you want to have sex with as many girls as possible, more power to you. IM NO ONE TO JUDGE. Have fun, dont get diseased along the ways. If you want to get married at 20, awesome. Good for you, but dont flame guys that have NO INTENTION of getting married at 20years old. If you want only 1 girl, cool. Dont flame me for not seeing how you do. I dont want a girlfriend. DATING and BEING with someone is 2 completely DIFFERENT things. Ive dated 8 girls at a time. Im sure they were seeing others as well. Does that make me a bad person. NO, IT DOESNT!!! Its called life and thats what people do. NO ONE ON HERE HAS THE RIGHT TO SAY, "YOUR NOT A REAL MAN". Just my $0.02, hope I dont affend anyone but thats how I see it. Dont judge me because I see something a little different than you because I could care less what you do.

[toykilla]

Originally posted by juvenile

a 3 some is nice to experience once....or so I heard! ;) :D

a 3-some is nice to experience a hell of a lot more than once.

[dukmahsik]

and den?

[toykilla]

Originally posted by dukmahsik
and den?

what? and den what?

[Incubus]

3 somes scare me! I'd have sensory overload, I wouldn't know what to do with 2 chicks in bed!!! I almost had a 3 some twice, but I felt wierd so it didn't happen.;(

The first time, it was with a bi chick and a lesbian.......;) :smoking:

[juvenile]

Originally posted by Incubus
3 somes scare me! I'd have sensory overload, I wouldn't know what to do with 2 chicks in bed!!! I almost had a 3 some twice, but I felt wierd so it didn't happen.;(

The first time, it was with a bi chick and a lesbian.......;) :smoking:


And you....that never... what the hell...WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU. you get what every guy wants and you DON'T take it. OMG lol j/k
but whydid you feel weird? just watch a little ol porn with 2 chics and one guy and see what they do :D

[Incubus]

:D Yeah but I'm not some porn stud! Although my friend is and he asked me if I wanted in on it........that just would be too wierd though!

Believe me, I got sooooo much hell from my friends when they heard that I passed up on the 3 some that first came up.

Not that I didn't do *anything* there was a camera there, and I am featured in a few of the shots! (clothed!) but the chicks weren't! Hey, I'll admit I probably screwed up, 2 hot chicks, a hotel room, and a case of Smirnov Ice......but oh well, my *lame* excuse was that I had class the next morning, which I did, but it was a saturday class!;(

[juvenile]

Can you stand over there! *points to the wall where a red target is drawn* yup yup overthere. *starts revving his engine, and loading shit shot gun*....you get what happens next

[4jacks]

Hey ! When did we get HIM -------------> :smoking: ??


I'm LOVING THIS PLACE !

[Racing Rice]

Ok.. Ok.. Stop picking on Incubus... ;)

[tightteg52]

Im a guy and still dont understand it and say from 16-24 all they want is sex ummmm NO some ppl are actually haveing deep caring relationships at those ages!

[Racing Rice]

ok... this subject is getting beaten to death...

His post was applying for some/most guys, not all guys. There are exceptions to everything.;)

[FeelMyRide]

Can't everyone just play nice?
Everyone attacks each others words like a pack of starving wolves.. I thought we were all kinda on the same team here.
Yeah there are some real jerks out there but there are also some really great guys out there and I think they deserve some respect or at least they should all have a great girl ;)

[juvenile]

And where can we find this great girl?

[FeelMyRide]

Originally posted by juvenile
And where can we find this great girl?

When you are least looking for it.. thats why love decides to find you.

[dukmahsik]

"Can't everyone just play nice?
Everyone attacks each others words like a pack of starving wolves.. I thought we were all kinda on the same team here.
Yeah there are some real jerks out there but there are also some really great guys out there and I think they deserve some respect or at least they should all have a great girl"

dats exactly what i meant... take what i sed as wat i sed not wat u interpret it as... i jess sed there are assholes out there and applies for most guys not all... if it doesnt apply to u then consider urself a great guy and case closed.

[4jacks]

:D :D :D :D ROFLMAO:D :D :D :D

This is sooo Jerry Springer... I'm waiting for someone to start throwing chairs !!!

Where did the Bi-sexual Chimp Humping Circus Sideshow Lesbians Go, anyway ???

[juvenile]

She's behind THAT corner *points to the F&F females forum*, I hear she goes by the name of SentezMonTour (if you know french
;)) :D

[ebpda9]

Originally posted by Racing Rice
There are exceptions to everything.;)

ok, ok, the exceptions strenghten the rules :eek:

[ebpda9]

true, very true.

[SPEED]

Ok im young and I love women what guy wouldn't:rolleyes: I got out of a 2 year relationship over a year ago and mess with girls that actually are friends of mine, and I will mess with any girl that im attracted to and click well with mentally. Girls who have done stuff with me and see me or hear of me doin stuff with other girls they get jealous and/or mad and call me a player, but in all reality they knew what kinda guy I am from the start yet they also made that choice that they wanted to get with me. I don't really use them id say its more of a mutual thing as im being used in the same way. Im not gonna harp on you bro because I respect you alot over on the other forum but there is not really any truth in what you said but then again thats just my .2

[whodatt1]

I agree with what was said, i my self went through a period of time when i just did not care for any girls feelings (after getting hurt by my ex). I was just out there to get what i wanted. after a while I realised that that was not who I was and it did not really make me any happier or make my situation any better infact it got worse.
You just have to be who you are, there are lots of fish in the sea. and some of them will treat you right!
Thanks for the space.

[SPEED]

I hear you guys talkin:rolleyes: have a fine ass jlo lookin chick bouncin her ass in your face and tell me you wouldn't try to take a swing at that with your chick stick, either your a priest, gay/bi, or your crazy :D

[4jacks]

Originally posted by SPEED
I hear you guys talkin:rolleyes: have a fine ass jlo lookin chick bouncin her ass in your face and tell me you wouldn't try to take a swing at that with your chick stick, either your a priest, gay/bi, or your crazy :D

Your talking about one of two things.... Hitting on every fine girl that walks by.... No some guys dont' actually do that...

Or Having a Naked Chic bouncing her ass in your face.... Well keep dreaming bud ....

[SPEED]

you keep dreamin ill keep creamin:D

[FeelMyRide]

SPEED.. is the avatar your pic?

[SPEED]

No its not my pic I picked it out all the other 1s you can pick from..

Sorry dude I don't need porns if I wanted them I can make my own :rolleyes:

[alpine3069]

sounds like every body has their own opinion on the topic!! but i would say do what makes you happy!!

[SPEED]

i agree :D

[4jacks]

Originally posted by SPEED
you keep dreamin ill keep creamin:D

Rofl

dude I'm married ... My life is a dream.


And dammit watch where you point that thing