Help!!!!!!!

[juvenile]

Ok, I really like this chic in my school.
Don't know anything about her. But I see her in the halls all the time! That girl is BEAUTIFUL!!!! The last couple of times I even managed to make eye contact while passing bye, so I know she noticed me. I finally am getting some balls to ask her out on monday, and that's not going to be easy for me (I never had one go succefuly, + I never dated before!). So it's like going to war for me, I only hear about it, but never been there before!

But my dilema is that how do I ask her out. I know the oldie but goldie line "Would you like to see a movie sometime?"
but the problem is I'm flat broke, and my parents aren't exactly in the best financial situation either (new house + new car + getting grandparents over here + many other things). So I can't afford to pay for her let alone myself. Movies cost from 8.50-13.50 here alone. There will be food I'm guessing also. So how the hell do I ask her out so I don't make myself look like bum and spend little money. I mean I can get some cash, maybe 10-20 at max if I borrow from someone (I'm starting my summer job at a local theme park in 2 weeks again so I can pay back then). My house ain't an option to rent a movie since my parents will be here, I can't kick em out, and I don't want to bring a girl on my first date to my house to meet my parents. My dad'll be cool and quite, my mom will be trying to be cool and asking all these stupid questions which will embarasse me. Plus how will I look bringing a girl on a first date to my house. Oh boy I'm f@cked....any suggestions.

Oh and another thing. Since I dont' know anything about her, not even her name, how should I even start the conversation off. Please help!

[Accord Man]

Hey dude! Are you really that broke? I mean how are you able to put gas into your car??

In any case, if you dont know anything about her, you gotta find a way to *bump* into her. Maybe you know somebody who knows her?

Going to the movies is one of the safest/least expensive/fail-safe methods to get with a girl..

If you're courageous you could always take her to a Second Cup. But then, I hope you have major conversation skills.

[juvenile]

Ahhhh.....conversation skills.....what's that? :no: ;(
Now I'm not bad, but I'm nervous around girls I like. I start thinging that they dont' like me, and that if I say something they might not like me because of it and things like that.

About money, my dad pays for the gas. Basically I use it to goto school and back monday - friday, and see friends on the weekend. Overall with all our expenses I don't have that much cash yes. Like I said I most likely will be able to get like 20 bucks, but I need to pay for her too, ok I go to AMC which costs 8.50, that's $17, no cash left for popcorn or drinks! Am I a screwed man? :crazy: :no: ;(

[Accord Man]

ok, I just realized something.. You cant really ask a girl out without know her the least bit, unless its for sex (but thats a whole other topic)..

During recess and lunch, try sit at the same table as her.. And casually add something to their conversation. If she has any interest in you, she'll want to know more about what you have to say.. And from then on, its all good! :wave: :kiss: :kiss:


There, it didnt cost anything.

[juvenile]

Ahhhhh....I goto mt.biker's place for lunch. And it's not like people exactly all sit in the cafeteria. A lot of people leave school and go somewhere. That's the whole thing I don't see her anywhere except the halls!

And it's not for sex!

[NooNz]

if i had the cash...i'd loan ya some money....

well how much money do you have altogether?....and be honest cuz itz the only way i can help or try to pull something off for ya!...

[NooNz]

if you gotz icq or msn...leave your icq number or msn hotmail address so i can get ahold of you and help ya somehow...or find me on icq...6105768

[juvenile]

in my bank account... about 30¢
my dad pays for most of my expenses
just that after christmas too many other unexpected bills came so I try to cut my spending expenses.
I start my job in Wonderland in about a month, but in 1-2 weeks we have paid training! But right now I myself have nothing. Can't get much/none from dad! :no: ;(

[NooNz]

hmm..not even like 20 bux or something?

[juvenile]

Nope! I can get 20 bucks from a friend and pay him back later, but that's about it. I don't think I can get much more than that!

[NooNz]

try borrowin another 20 bux form another friend!..haha...
msg me on icq...easier to talk there if you want....

[juvenile]

Done, authorize me! :)

[Accord Man]

Pretend you're going the same we she is..
& you can offfer her a ride??

Unless she has a car.
:o

You're in which grade?

[juvenile]

I'm in Grade 12. I think she's in 11. A ride, well won't most girl get afraid to get in a car of a stranger. And if they do, that means they will get into anyone elses car too.

I guess I can try the ride thing, but as with past experiences of me and other friends, cars don't always impress girls! Well some girls they do, but I don't want that type of girls. Decent women won't get easily impressed by a guy with a car, and won't get into his car especially if he's a stranger!

[ChrisCantSkate]

good luck man, my past relationship just kinda happened, we were on the couch watching tv, next thing you know..... you know ;) i wish i could help ya, i met her at work, we just hung out on and off for a few weeks, then we got close, be careful not to rush it though, we rushed it. that night we made out in her bed for 4 hours and fell asleep in each others arms.......

[juvenile]

damn...:eek:

[4jacks]

Dude, Do you have Paypal... Damn I'll give you $20 if this gurl dates you!

Movies make a lousy first date... you cant talk ... you need to talk for the first Date ! IT's mandatory...

Here's you first line !
Stop the gurl , get her to acknowledge you. and say "How ya doing?" or "How are you doing?" .. or however you feel comfortable sayin it, say it really pleasant.. shut the door and practice... and practice your smile too.

she will either be interested or not.. if not ... NO LOSS ... you dont look stupid.. your still cool.... If so you NEED to pretend to have conversation skills. Tell her your name, ask her name, and JUST ask questions and Listen... do as little talking as possible! ask open ended questions ... never a yes or no question. Ask her about College, Her current classes, her Freinds .. any thing you can think of.... Walk in the hall with her !!! pretend your goin that way ... be late to class !! At the end Ask her if she likes Golf! If she does great , ask her to go to the driving range w/ you. If she doesn't like golf, Great, tell her she has to teach you and to go to the driving range w/ you.

The diriving range is a great first date, you both look stupid and you get to talk ... TALKING is mandatory... before the date... Pick up a readers digest... read the funny little articles in them ... use these as conversation back up... conversation lacks.. you pretend that is YOUR funny little story.. that happened to Your uncle or something... you make her giggle and then you hit her w/ another Question. Just hit her w/ a million questions, write down all the question you can think of she will talk your ear off and love you for listening... she ask you the same questions , so be prepared to answer them not to fast and not too long winded.

Well i hope all this helps... if you really need $20 I can paypal it to you, but i dont know how soon it will hit your Bank Account

Email me

[juvenile]

Damn dude thanks for your offer and advice. That's really long but GOOD advice too. Thank you all.
Well I'll think on the offer and use it only in desparate measures. But I'll hope my friends can spot me some money. Thank you though! :yes:

[ChrisCantSkate]

thats awsome man. im using it!

[Niacin]

Want a quick opening? Try "Hi." If that goes well for you, go right into "How ya doing?", and, if you're really on a roll, swing in with "What's your name? I'm -----".

As for cheap dates, take her for a walk or something. Coffee is always <$10, and you're guaranteed to talk. Just don't play like you're all hard and sh__, and be honest. And don't think you're gonna spank her right off, 'cause once you're thinking in that mode, you're lost.

Max

[ChrisCantSkate]

Originally posted by Niacin
Want a quick opening? Try "Hi." If that goes well for you, go right into "How ya doing?", and, if you're really on a roll, swing in with "What's your name? I'm -----".

As for cheap dates, take her for a walk or something. Coffee is always <$10, and you're guaranteed to talk. Just don't play like you're all hard and sh__, and be honest. And don't think you're gonna spank her right off, 'cause once you're thinking in that mode, you're lost.

Max
this guys right, dont try to "spank it" the first night, its deffinitaly not good for a relationship, i lost what i thought was perfect because i think we went to fast. we didnt get much of our cloths of either. just take it slow, walks, maybe a drink or ice cream. just get to know her. she might not be everything she looks like. you find true beauty on the inside, then every part of her just looks pefect to you.

[juvenile]

oh yeah I know that. I did watch Tao of Steve.
Anyone who didn't see that movie GO WATCH IT NOW!!!
Helps alot! I got some advice from there!

[Quist]

Just try and be relaxed. Women can sense confidence, just make sure you are calm about everything. These guys here have giving you great advice so I would listen to them.

Also write things down the night before and study your questions so you can just fire them off whenever you need to.

Either way keep us up to date on how things go. Some of us around here are on a off season(no women around). any ways have fun with it because thats what lifes all about.

[Racing Rice]

Heres my 2 cents...

As far as the pickup goes. You dont need and smooth line of BS or anything like that 9 times out of 10 youll just make fyour self look like an ass. Be yourself, try to stay calm.

The movies is the worst place for a first date!!!

Go some place where you can talk. This doesnt have to cost much of anything. I dont know what kinda places you have around there, but Im sure you can find something if you open your mind.

Good Luck!!

[girlzgotcarz]

Ok personally I think a movie is not a good Idea, Why you may ask? well think about it you sit there and watch the movie, don't say a word to eachother until it is over then the date is almost over, take her somewhere you can sit and talk, so you can get to know eachother, take her to a coffee shop, or how about planning a picnic ( weather Permitting ) there are so many things you can do that will not cost you a bunch of money, or maybe you could kick mom and dad out for the evening ask them to go out for dinner and see a movie and cook her a nice dinner, girls really like that stuff. Here is a little hint for ya as far a conversation goes: she will be as nervous as you so any topic you bring up she will listen, if all else fails talk about cars, try to explain to her what she doesn't understand about them, and most important of all ask her questions about herself, get her to talk about her it will show her that you really want to get to know her. :yes: GOOD LUCK!

[Racing Rice]

Great minds think a like..;) :D

[girlzgotcarz]

hehe true:D

[juvenile]

WOW you're saying hot chics get nervous too?
Oh and by the way I tried lookin for her at school but didn't see her today, so it's post-poned till tommorow. I'm just nervous about the very first time I come up to her. I get really afraid and nervous! It's like a test/challenge for me! Oh boy, why am I not good with women?:rolleyes: :no: ;(

[ChrisCantSkate]

the very first word is the hardest, after that everything will just flow

[juvenile]

hmmmmmm....:crazy: :cool:

[Quist]

hmmmmmm....

Not a great opening sentence might want to work on that one.....j/k:D

Tells how it goes and listen to everyone here.

AWESOME ADVICE guys and girls, you all deserve a pat on the back.

[2000Pimpinex]

I take it you haven't seen Half Baked. That sh*t works if you've seen it. Plus its hella funny, B. If you seen it you know what I'm talking about.
Or try this
Ok, depending on where you are, try the park. Nice walk, have a little picnic type thingy. Movies are way overrated for a first day. How are you going to talk and get to know someone while watching a movie. You need a nice, quiet location. Use your imagination and you will be ok. She will like that more anyway because it will be unique!!!

Good luck and let us know how it goes.

[juvenile]

Ok, well today I was looking for the chic, couldn't find her ANYWHERE. Only saw her once from a distance while I was with my boys lol. Then after school I went looking for her, can't find her. As I was sitting in my car, my boss called to talk to me about my summer job this year, and as I was talking to him, she's walking, BY HERSELF, on the other sidewalk, then there are people in front of her so she starts to cross the street, but as she was crossing, she looks into the car and right into my eyes. We held eye contact for like 10 seconds, then she just walks really close to my car. I couldn't do anything since it was a really important conversation! ;( ;( ;( ;( ;(

It was such a perfect opportunity too! ;(
Well, I'm going to do it by the end of the week. March break is soon, and if any time is perfect to try, it's then, when we are free!

[4jacks]

HELL NO DUDE !!!!!!!!!!!

Do it tommorow ... Don't start this Pansy ass "I'll do it by the end of the Week" Crap.... I hate to be mean, But you hang up on your boss, cut some class, or whatever it takes!!!!!

Guts to do this kinda stuff DOESN'T stick around long.

Beside you got like 50 of us reading this link EVERY day to see how it's going!!

SO GOSH DARNIT !!!! You ask that gurl Tommorow !!!

I'm tellin ya... you'll regret putting it off!

[Quist]

Hell ya 4Jacks!!!!!!!!!! You tell him!!!!!

All of us keep coming back to this link to see how your love life is coming along....the least you could do is do it and get it over with!! And then feed us the juicy details

Dont put it off, you will regret it.

[juvenile]

No no tommorow is thursday, I WILL do it tommorow. Hell I got Management studies tommorow, I know what I'm doing, so I'm going to wait up and talk to her...

[Quist]

ITS THURSDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



WEEEEELLLLLLLLLL?????????

[juvenile]

................................:no:.............. .................................
WHY CAN I NEVER FIND HER WHEN I FEEL MOST READY! ;(

[Racing Rice]

Dont give up man... Youll find her sooner or later..

Man, I remember in school when there was a girl I wanted to ask out. Id find out what all of her classes were at what time. That way I could strategize a path crossing sometime during the day..;) :D

[Quist]

Man, I remember in school when there was a girl I wanted to ask out. Id find out what all of her classes were at what time. That way I could strategize a path crossing sometime during the day..

Cool I thought that I was the only guy that did that back in school!!

[SilverHX4Me]

Originally posted by Racing Rice
Dont give up man... Youll find her sooner or later..

Man, I remember in school when there was a girl I wanted to ask out. Id find out what all of her classes were at what time. That way I could strategize a path crossing sometime during the day..;) :D

stalker!!! hehe j/k!! :eek:

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by SilverHX4Me


stalker!!! hehe j/k!! :eek:

haha.. nah... I only followed her home a couple times...:D ;) j/k

[Mr Sleeper]

oh man, this is really funny but interesting. I want to know what happened today (Friday)

[juvenile]

Well I just got access to a computer been BUSY doing homework and then car show.
Well I was looking all over the school! Couldn't find her. I was so pissed but depressed by the end of the day because I had such an opportunity on Wednesday when she was alone walking by my car as I was in it! ;( And now I have march break for a week, which I could have used to possibly spend time with her ;(
Basically I have to wait a week now! ;( :no: :no:

[4jacks]

OK OK OK !!!!!

Now it's time for the big guns !!!!!

Here's the Most Sad depressing story.. to make you stalk this gurl.

Back in 5th 6th 7th and 8th Grade I liked this Gurl Alicia. She was great really cute, Extremely nice, freindly and very respectable. Well I was a Dork, and a shy one at that. We were freinds and we had been in classes together and we're cool and all. And I always had the feeling she liked me, BUT I just never worked up the nerve to ask her out. I was infatuated w/ the gurl. But I couldn't find "The Right Time" or work up the guts.

FINALLY in 8th Grade for the End of the year 8th grade dance, the big one before High School. I decided that I was going to ask her to go with me!! Then she broke her leg playing softball. :yes: This was GREAT , nobody else was ever going to ask her but Me in that condition ! BUT I WAS STILL A PUSS :paranoid: I told my freinds about it, after 4 years. So of course they put me on the spot, and we're going to make me call her. Well I was still a chicken, and just agreed to let one of my best freinds do it for me. So he called her and asked her for me one the phone AND she said NO :eek: I couldn't believe it ... I was torn !!! I was mad cuase I REALLY thought she liked me. He asked her if she was going w/ someone else, and she said no. I couldn't figure it out. ... I knew she didn't Dislike me. I wasn't THAT dorky. Well I didn't go to the dance! And I didn't really talk to her for the rest of the Year. Then in HS she was in One of my classes, I was casual with her, we both had a lot of other things going on. Then I found out my parents we're moving to Maryland, and I left in the middle of that Year. My very last day at school, she was in my last class. I asked her why she didn't want to go to that dance with me. She looked at me really sad with the prettiest eyes and said she thought my freind was prank calling her. ;( ;( Well I couldn't help ... my feelings for her had died down some but I still liked her, and I told her How much I liked her for all those Years, ..... And I cried!! Not a lot just a couple tears. It was such a stinking BUMMER ... this gurl I really truly admired and wanted to be with LIKED me too.... and we Coulda had almost 5 years together... but I was a puss... and now we both knew and I was Leaving for Maryland and Would NEVER see her again. And I haven't

And I was Never a Puss Again.

[juvenile]

WoW! That's a depressing but nice story. There is a moral to be learned in this. And I did have the guts, I just couldn't find her. Dammit a whole march break I COULD have spent with her ;(

[girlzgotcarz]

Originally posted by 4jacks
OK OK OK !!!!!

Now it's time for the big guns !!!!!

Here's the Most Sad depressing story.. to make you stalk this gurl.

Back in 5th 6th 7th and 8th Grade I liked this Gurl Alicia. She was great really cute, Extremely nice, freindly and very respectable. Well I was a Dork, and a shy one at that. We were freinds and we had been in classes together and we're cool and all. And I always had the feeling she liked me, BUT I just never worked up the nerve to ask her out. I was infatuated w/ the gurl. But I couldn't find "The Right Time" or work up the guts.

FINALLY in 8th Grade for the End of the year 8th grade dance, the big one before High School. I decided that I was going to ask her to go with me!! Then she broke her leg playing softball. :yes: This was GREAT , nobody else was ever going to ask her but Me in that condition ! BUT I WAS STILL A PUSS :paranoid: I told my freinds about it, after 4 years. So of course they put me on the spot, and we're going to make me call her. Well I was still a chicken, and just agreed to let one of my best freinds do it for me. So he called her and asked her for me one the phone AND she said NO :eek: I couldn't believe it ... I was torn !!! I was mad cuase I REALLY thought she liked me. He asked her if she was going w/ someone else, and she said no. I couldn't figure it out. ... I knew she didn't Dislike me. I wasn't THAT dorky. Well I didn't go to the dance! And I didn't really talk to her for the rest of the Year. Then in HS she was in One of my classes, I was casual with her, we both had a lot of other things going on. Then I found out my parents we're moving to Maryland, and I left in the middle of that Year. My very last day at school, she was in my last class. I asked her why she didn't want to go to that dance with me. She looked at me really sad with the prettiest eyes and said she thought my freind was prank calling her. ;( ;( Well I couldn't help ... my feelings for her had died down some but I still liked her, and I told her How much I liked her for all those Years, ..... And I cried!! Not a lot just a couple tears. It was such a stinking BUMMER ... this gurl I really truly admired and wanted to be with LIKED me too.... and we Coulda had almost 5 years together... but I was a puss... and now we both knew and I was Leaving for Maryland and Would NEVER see her again. And I haven't

And I was Never a Puss Again.

Well that is a very sad story but ........think about it, It really wasn't meant to be, what it was meant for was to teach you and help you learn what to do and it sounds like you did so don't think of it as a sad story but a learning experience that helped to better you! There is always an up side to every bad thing that happens.

[ChrisCantSkate]

damnit, i think i godda go talk to someone now :crazy:

[juvenile]

What do you mean?

[4jacks]

Originally posted by girlzgotcarz


Well that is a very sad story but ........think about it, It really wasn't meant to be, what it was meant for was to teach you and help you learn what to do and it sounds like you did so don't think of it as a sad story but a learning experience that helped to better you! There is always an up side to every bad thing that happens.


Of course there's an Upside, Life went on ... I had the average akward high school years , Then I Feel in Love with my Wife and Lived Happily ever after. :yes:

BUT The Point was to Get Juvey Really Depressed and Stalking that Gurl !!!! So I left that Part out :rolleyes:

[ChrisCantSkate]

Originally posted by juvenile
What do you mean?
if your talking to me, theres a girl who i was kinda going out with, she always with me, we went by our selves and ate, hung out etc etc, then it got serious, which was good, and when it went to fast (her fault BTW), she broke it off and jsut was like, i wana be with you but im not ready for all this im my life. we didnt talk for like 2 days, then we would talk on the phone every night for 1.5-2 hours minimum, then her ex-boy friend came into town, and one day online, when she told me he was coming, she was like i hope you know who dosnt take this the wrong way, cause its not anything like that, well i havnt talked to her much besides at work since then. and actualy yesterday, we talked for like 20-30 mins durring work, while it was slow. just about what we've been upto in the past.... shit, 3 months

[ChrisCantSkate]

but it was almost like how it was when we first started to be together, i hope i can get her back, she was so right for me. everyone thought we were perfect together(including us) but she was going through some major family shit, thats why she didnt wana seriose relationship then

[juvenile]

Damn! :no: ;(
L.I.A.B! = Life Is A Bi**h
and then you marry one :D (j/k j/k j/k)
just trying to bring your mood up
but that's really sad. I hope everything works out for you dude. All the best goes out. Let the shwartz be with you! :crazy:

[Quist]

Originally posted by 4thGenlude
but it was almost like how it was when we first started to be together, i hope i can get her back, she was so right for me. everyone thought we were perfect together(including us) but she was going through some major family shit, thats why she didnt wana seriose relationship then

If you think its supposed to work out then go for it with all your heart. The last girl I dated......hmmmmm......ok sorry I got side tracked. But she always said if it was supposed to be, it would happen. F**k that go for it!! If you really like her try to get her back, I already screwed up my chances with my dream girl, dont do the same thing

[ChrisCantSkate]

i'll try to, i'll see what happens.

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Ok people....this is like the Truman Show or something....and you just stopped talkin. Where is that Juvinile kid at???? Dude...all these people have given you kick ass advice. I'm still in shock after reading the advice that GUYS were giving you. Apparently there are decent guys who know how to treat a girl like she's supposed to be treated. Do you guys give lessons?? The guys around my area need it! So, tomorrow is Monday...I assume your break is gonna be over. Skip all of your classes if you gotta to talk to this chick. She'll either call you a dumbass for skippin all of your classes or be impressed by the great lengths you went to to talk to her. Thats how my ex got me....he asked for my phone number, didn't write it down, and called me like a day later. Now he's a complete fool...but that is a whole other issue. Oh and listen to the people who told you not to go see a movie. They are right. If you are lookin for something cheap to do with her...go to a play ground. Not only do you get to act like a kid again ( and who doesn't like actin like a kid?)...but its free. And if you 2 get hungry...this is where you come prepared...you have a picnic lunch. The one thing with this though is you gotta be careful that she's not allergic to anything or is a vegetarian or something. So play that one safe. Keep us updated man...I'm completely hooked to this thread now...THANKS ;)

[4jacks]

YEAH !!!! Juvey... you get your azz Back here and give us the D-L first thing Monday Afternoon !!!!!!!!!!!! Don't make me drive to BFE Canada !!! :crazy: :crazy:

[juvenile]

Yeah, I am going to talk to her, but I'm skipping no classes. I did that too much for the first half a year. My marks a low now (72 avg) I need to raise them badly so I'm not skipping, especially on the first day! I am though going to talk to her no matter what! :)

[juvenile]

:no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;(


Basically I couldn't find her in the morning because I had a few things on my mind and I was late. At lunch I didn't see her either. After my second last period (spare) I was standing and just chatting with mt.biker by a class when she walks by, BY HER SELF. I flip out, but get nervous, biker being a good friend he is says a few words of encouragement and pushes me to go after. I follow, go up to her locker, she's standing with just one person, the one who has the locker beside her. So they are both talking, I go up to her and say "Hey, I always see you around the halls and I was just wondering if you would like to go see a movie (I ****ed up here lol, but oh well), play pool or just hang out and talk"
She looks at me with the most beautiful smile and says "Aaahhhhhhh, I'm really sorry but I already have a boyfriend"
"Oh, hmmmm, that's cool. Do you still want to just hang out and talk and just go play pool or something."
"Yeah sure."
"Can I get your number, or give you mine?"
"Best if you give me your number"
"Ok ummm do you have somewhere to write it"
"I actually cna't be late for next class and gotta run, I'm really sorrry again, but try to find me after school"

I did look but couldn't find her. I'll approach her tommorow just to give my number, but basically it's a no. She didn't reject me (hopefully) but said she's already seeing someone. :no: :no: ;( ;(

Why is it that every woman I really start to care for is either seeing someone, or sees me more as a friend or something. That's the too most "rejection" lines I got! I'm in my last months of grade 12 and I never dated yet. :no: ;(
This sucks....feeling kinda down. But I had a tlak with biker after. This is painful but I'm going to just STOP trying, I think, I hope.....boy I'm really confused.....:no: ;( :| :pukey :confused: :mad:

[NooNz]

i agree with mt.biker....

just gotta stop lookin....i kept lookin to start a relationship for like 2 years (yes...very sad..hehe)..then i decided to stop lookin and thought that if i can't find someone, then somone will find me!...and what was very weird...it was the person that sat in front of me in one of my classes....last person i expected..it just happened....=o)

so stop lookin...and invite her around with your friends..and just chill and have fun...don't worry....

she'll, whoever it will be, will eventually pop up.....itz true....

[HBCivic_Chic]

Hey cutie! I know you think this is hard now......just wait till your acutally IN a relationship......it gets harder! My advice to you is to stop looking.....everytime I have given up or decided to be single for a while........my phone wont stop ringing. Like they say when it rains it poors. Well Good Luck......and remember everything happens for a reason and what doesnt break you only makes you stronger:yes:

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Agreed...chill with the girl. There is absolutely nothing wrong with havin a hot chick as one of your really close friends. Other chicks will see you out with her and be like DA DAMN who is that guy and how do I get to know him. They'll all be jealous of her and wonder how to get to know you better. And stop lookin. I never look cuz when you do you find the wrong ones. (Although when I dont look I pick the wrong ones). It seems like when you finally have someone....20 other people show up sayin how much they like you and wanna date you. Hang in there...Your "dream girl" will come your way one day. And don't sweat the "I'm a senior in hs thing and haven't dated yet"....I never dated in hs and don't date that much now. Enjoy your youth....don't rush it by getting into a serious relationship with someone you aren't meant to be with.

[4jacks]

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NOOOOOO!!!!!!!! Well Juvey , I feel for you... but don't sweat it any, and you should be VERY glad you worked up the guts to finally talk to her... at least now , you know where you f*cked up and what you said wrong... just rack that as lesson learned and move on... !!

[ChrisCantSkate]

Originally posted by NooNz
i agree with mt.biker....

just gotta stop lookin....i kept lookin to start a relationship for like 2 years (yes...very sad..hehe)..then i decided to stop lookin and thought that if i can't find someone, then somone will find me!...and what was very weird...it was the person that sat in front of me in one of my classes....last person i expected..it just happened....=o)

so stop lookin...and invite her around with your friends..and just chill and have fun...don't worry....

she'll, whoever it will be, will eventually pop up.....itz true....
this is how it happens, i was after this one girl for quite some time, we became really really good freinds, nothing more. now our birthdays are coming up, she asked me what i wanted... kinda odd, she has a BF but hey, she's the hottest thing on 2 legs, with a perfect personality. anyways as soon as i stoped trying to find someone else, me and her best friend hooked up. i wasnt even trying. strage things happen