Hi, I'm Lyna. . .

[MissJDM]

...and I'm Single.

After 2.5 Years, I think all guys are dickheads now.

Thanks for reading.

[Mischief]

:eek:

[Wren57]

anyone else notice how there always seems to be problems around 2.5 years? I know many people that have broken up at the same point, including myself...

Sorry to hear about the breakup and your perception of men... don't worry about it too much, I'm sure you have your pick of men... go get one. ;)

[pdiggitydogg]

We're not all dickheads...just 90-95%.
Sorry about whatever happened to make you realize this (yes, realize, not think)

I hear long distance relationships work well sometimes LYNA ;) (jk) Any of us are here to listen to why your particular ex is a dickhead

[IALuder]

:wave: im ben and not a dickhead....

[pdiggitydogg]

...you know, its perhaps the non-dickheads, themselves, who are affected most by the dickheads (in a round about way)

[Mischief]

yea I think I fuck alot of other guys over by being a dickhead to girls, but hey it gets me laid!:thumbsup:

[AzCivic]

I'm with Mischief. Sucks to be you other guys, ahahahaah!!

[IALuder]

lol.....its true. but sometime you have to be a dickhead to get some.

[GT40FIED]

If "getting some" means I have to be a dickhead, fuck that...I'll go without. No way in hell am I hooking up with a girl who has so little self respect that she'd let me treat her like shit and even reward me for it by sleeping with me. If all you want is sex, go ahead an be a douche bag...you'll have about as much integrity as a sack of soggy dicks.

[Wren57]

you sound like someone that needs to get laid...

[pdiggitydogg]

Originally posted by GT40FIED
If "getting some" means I have to be a dickhead, fuck that...I'll go without. No way in hell am I hooking up with a girl who has so little self respect that she'd let me treat her like shit and even reward me for it by sleeping with me. If all you want is sex, go ahead an be a douche bag...you'll have about as much integrity as a sack of soggy dicks.

Im with you 100% :thumbsup:

And yes, Im not getting laid...ever

[Mischief]

I'm nice to some girls, it's just others have their... purposes so to speak.

[AzCivic]

no chick wants a touchy feely guy that just wants to sit around and talk about emotions and junk. I'm not saying treating women like shit is the way to go, but going to the complete other end of the spectrum is at most going to get you to "we're such great friends".

the fine line is: treat women like you pretty much don't care they exist and if you hook up with them you call the shots. and if you get bored pick up another chick or two, she'll forgive you at least once, maybe more if you're lucky. and GT/pdiggs thats just how chicks are, sure there's exceptions to the rule, but really are you looking to marry each girl you meet?

[pdiggitydogg]

No of course not (makes me think of the guy in Bedazzled [newer one] "sunsets")

[thermal]

Wow... Lyna that sux! That pinoy deserves some ass whooping! Dont worry tho, you are a rare find. You will find somebody else who will treat you better. With your interest and vast knowledge on Honda motors, there are already guys around you waiting..... trust me.

[ChrisCantSkate]

wow im sorry to hear that, take your time, find yourself, then you wont hate us anymore... we dont always mean to be bad, at least some of us, we're just naturally kinda lazy, and forgetful, and rude, so you godda take it with a grain of salt sometimes :cool:

[Racing Rice]

Sorry to hear about your breakup Lyna. Not all men are dickheads though. There are about 10 genuinely nice guys out there.

Honestly though, Hope your handling it okay. If you need to vent, we are here for you.

[Accord Man]

wut?

[mylittlecivic]

hey lyna that happened to me in spring, we were going to get married. But I'm enjoying being single and seeing theres alot more out there.::smoking:

[Rob]

Originally posted by mylittlecivic
But I'm enjoying being single
:eek:

[Robert]

When I hear people complain about 2.5 years or what have you. it always comes back to getting to know the person. If something keeps surprising you with your relationships, maybe you need to reavaluate how you engage in relationships.

I have never experienced what you're talking about, but maybe i'm more selective because its not from a lack of dating.

My heart does go out to you though, its never nice to find out the person you're with is someone you don't want to be with anymore.

Remember - it takes two....

[MissJDM]

Lots of small lies = big issue of lies to me.

I'll have to explain the situation another time, it's not fun to repeat the scene.

BTW: it's not even the fact that there's lots to choose from, now that I'm single. I want one person, and one person only. The hard part? The person I want is not who he used to be...or what I thought he ever was.

[pdiggitydogg]

Sorry about that Lyna...(no caps) Seems like youre pretty upset about it, so Im not going to joke or anything, but you do know that we're all willing to listen if or whenver you want to share. Dont think you are required to though...its only our business if you want it to be.

I've been in a similar situation with people I used to know (or thought I did), and its never a good place to be. Stick with some close friends, dont dwell on problems

[MissJDM]

As for Steve..got your message. :) I'll return the call el soon-O.

[thermal]

Hang in there Lyna......

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by MissJDM
As for Steve..got your message. :) I'll return the call el soon-O.

Awesome.

I know what you mean about small lies and not knowing people. One day you're living with someone and the next you realize she's a cheating whore and you have to kick her out and sleep with someone else just to piss her off. Or something like that.:D