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B16DoHcCrx033003
03-11-2005, 04:04 PM
Me and my girlfriend broke up. March 30 would have been our 2 year. I was depressed for a few days. (it happened monday) I am better tho, it sucks but i realize in the long run it might be better. It will be the little things i will miss. Time will help tho. I am out of the fish bowl and back in the ocean..... yes... :yes: but still sad at the same time....

esthirteen
03-11-2005, 05:24 PM
know how you feel man. went through the same thing last december. but trust me.....being single is awesome. especially when you realize that the breakup was the best thing to do...

CD5Passion
03-11-2005, 06:15 PM
you're in denial if you say being single is awesome...cause that's far from the truth;)

esthirteen
03-11-2005, 06:24 PM
actually, im far from denial. being single is awesome. you dont have to be stuck on one girl or anything. plus, right now, i want to focus on school...so i dont really want to have a girl that i have to see alll the time...and the relationship i got out of it was for the best anyways, and she goes to uw-madison and needs to focus...

MissJDM
03-11-2005, 08:47 PM
Originally posted by esthirteen
actually, im far from denial. being single is awesome. you dont have to be stuck on one girl or anything. plus, right now, i want to focus on school...so i dont really want to have a girl that i have to see alll the time...and the relationship i got out of it was for the best anyways, and she goes to uw-madison and needs to focus...

When you view your girlfriend as a chore..:no: Not only that, but if you realize that being in a relationship means "being stuck on one girl" :no:

As for b16crx, sorry to hear..but glad to know that you think it's for the best. :)

mylittlecivic
03-11-2005, 10:19 PM
that sucks, I'm having relationship dilema not sure how its gonna end. I really wish I had spent some of my teen years being single:o

ebpda9
03-11-2005, 11:12 PM
i have been single for the most part of my life, well maybe 6months alltoghether i had a gf. i really like it single.

Mischief
03-11-2005, 11:41 PM
Originally posted by hondaman-iac
i have been single for the most part of my life, well maybe 6months alltoghether i had a gf. i really like it single.

word! except the last sentence.. sometimes I enjoy it, but other times it really sucks.. TBH I think it's nice to be sitting around and get a call from a girl because she has free time and wanted to talk to me.. this girl I'm talking with seriously calls me all the time.. in the morning before school, after school, before she goes into work, during her breaks and after work.. most people would find that annoying but it feels nice to be cared about for once

KwikR6
03-12-2005, 12:07 AM
I honestly don't mind being single. I mean sure sex is great and I love it. But seriously though..it's all good..Don't have to answer to anyone, when I want to go out I go out, when I want to go for lunch i go for lunch. when I'm up in the clubs I don't have to worry abotu dancing with someone and getting in an arguement with someone...meh..single is great!!!!!

Congratulations B16crx on being single!!

mavaaoife
03-12-2005, 05:53 AM
Sorry to hear about your break up but im glad you see its for the best.. Lyna I agree its sad someguys view us as something they gatta do like a chore..:no:

GT40FIED
03-12-2005, 04:17 PM
Originally posted by Mycivicjust8u
Sorry to hear about your break up but im glad you see its for the best.. Lyna I agree its sad someguys view us as something they gatta do like a chore..:no:

Well...to be fair some girls do make it seem that way. Not to say it's universal, but there are a lot of women out there who make themselves a chore. Really any girl who's high maintainance is enough work to make it seem more like business than pleasure. So yeah...some guys are better off without those kind of girls.

mavaaoife
03-13-2005, 07:14 AM
Originally posted by GT40FIED
Well...to be fair some girls do make it seem that way. Not to say it's universal, but there are a lot of women out there who make themselves a chore. Really any girl who's high maintainance is enough work to make it seem more like business than pleasure. So yeah...some guys are better off without those kind of girls.

Well If a girl makes herself a "chore" as you say.. she deserves what she gets..

Wren57
03-14-2005, 12:01 AM
Welcome to the single life. ;) Much more freedom this way. I'm starting to get kinda involved with a girl right now but I'm not entirely sure I want to enter into anything with her... being single is just too much fun!!! :yes:

MissJDM
03-14-2005, 12:56 AM
Originally posted by Mycivicjust8u
Well If a girl makes herself a "chore" as you say.. she deserves what she gets..

yeah, and then bitch slap em. :D

KwikR6
03-14-2005, 11:02 AM
Originally posted by MissJDM
yeah, and then bitch slap em. :D
With a 4 finger ring!

esthirteen
03-14-2005, 06:21 PM
i wasnt saying its a chore. Thats not what i meant at all. I loved seeing my girlfriend. It was to the point where I wouldnt get anything done. I would be late for work when she was home and I woldnt see my family for awhile at a time. Thats what i meant. She only comes down on the weekends and she needs to see her family, not just me.