ideas?

[JDMFantasy2k]

Ok here's the scene,
about a week and a half ago one of my friends (shawna) who graduated from a neighboring school last year (she now goes to college in kentucky) IM's me out of the blue. Basically we started talking a lot and it started getting pretty hardcore. Then she tells me she's comming up for thanksgiving break.
So i called her a good ammount tonight trying to get ahold of her and finally at about 11, i catch up with her. Then she said she had to go with her friend ashely for a bit and i'm like ok so are we going to do something sometime tonight or what? (since i've wasted my whole night waiting for her) So then she says yah i'll call you and takes off. An hour and 5 phone calls later i can't get ahold of her and i just go home.

So now i don't know if she just blew me off or what but i'm getting frustrated because it's been a while since i've gotten any or been with someone....

so what should i do? just be mr nice guy tomorrow or be raging asshole?

[pdiggitydogg]

pfft
she blew you off man...simple as that.
If you cater to her youre only acting whipped...calling as much as you did only adds to it.
Id blow her off, right back. Then, later, if she asks whats up or why you did it, tell her off.

[ebpda9]

ditch the bitch and call it a day. tell her you had plans with your wife anyway ;)

[CD5Passion]

you got blown off dude, punch her in the boob and move on ;)
find someone worth it..unless of course she has a legitimate reason or she gives you sex:yes:

[IALuder]

forget and move one. i would be an asshoke about tho. just let it go and move on.

[JDMFantasy2k]

Originally posted by Shardsofxapril
you got blown off dude, punch her in the boob and move on ;)
find someone worth it..unless of course she has a legitimate reason or she gives you sex:yes:

well that was the original plan, she is umm premiscuious, so i was hoping it would be some fun but then she just up and ignores me so w/e. I'm just so sick of women lately, they're so dumb.

[pdiggitydogg]

feh...shes probably got the clap anyway...at least crabs

[ShEaNy]

ya...she blew u off man...:pukey :paranoid: i hate that lol

[GT40FIED]

Eh...unless she's got a damn good excuse, she blew you off. I'd say wait a couple of days then call her like nothing happened and see if she'll give you sex. Just remember...chlamydia is not a flower.

[MissJDM]

lol @ punch her in the boobs.

man, that sucks that she did that, but really, i agree with most of them and think you should just blow her off. she may be irked without the attention..but just drop it like its not much. basically, act like it doesnt "phase" you. you don't sound like Rob, so, a guy like you doesnt deserve that. maybe Darin's available? jk.. joke..joke..

[CD5Passion]

:| god damnit can I get away from some gay joke or another haha

[IALuder]

no

[Kool-Aid]

I would just not talk to her anymore...just like what pdig said...you'll only be catering to her and just digging yourself deeper into unnecessary drama...move on. So what if you haven't gotten laid in a while...just think of how good it will be once you DO get laid...something to think about....;)

[JDMFantasy2k]

well here's the update.

I saw her in the mall (since i work there) and she was with her ex (who i'm decent friends with) and we started small talk and i asked her why she blew me off, and she gave me some bullshit excuse. And then i was like well lets do something tonight and she's like fine.....

once again, no phone calls, blown off.

So she goes home to kentucky and i try to IM her, and she doesn't give me the time of day and says shes busy. Seriously wtf did i do? I hate it when that happens, i try to be a nice guy and then i get shit on. :mad:

[MissJDM]

I think it's quite obvious now that she's a flake, a no good. Next time she tries to talk to you, blow her off. Why give someone that much attention if they don't even have the curtesy to give you a heads up call? Seriously, I say just drop her, it's not worth it, who the hell does she think she is?