Criticizm

[Kool-Aid]

How do you guys take criticizm? I know I often have people criticize me...do you think that criticizm is an act of jealousy? trying to hurt peoples feelings? Maybe critisizm is a way for some people to feel better about themselves and what they've done and been through...

[Fatal070]

Trust me, I know exactly how u feel i hate when people ctriticize me and it happens offten all i can say is jealousy!:cool: F EM

[CD5Passion]

honestly it depends on who gives that criticism, I mean I don't mind it from my friends, everyone has their opinions and they just voice it. I am a huge critic and in return I receive it. Now if it was someone who I dont know standing there talking trash about my style or something then yes there would be a problem.

[IALuder]

shards is right. its all about who is giving the criticism.

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by Shardsofxapril
honestly it depends on who gives that criticism, I mean I don't mind it from my friends, everyone has their opinions and they just voice it. I am a huge critic and in return I receive it. Now if it was someone who I dont know standing there talking trash about my style or something then yes there would be a problem.

I also think it depends what they're criticizing you about. If it's something trivial like my car then I let it slide...I know that to me mine is better than theirs because of all the time and effort I've put into it. If it's about something I've done/said...then it's different. Sometimes I'll wail on them and sometimes I'll sit back and say "damn...that was stupid. Why the fuck did I do/say that?".

[spoogenet]

Depends on who's giving it, what they're giving it about, and how they give it. You can say the exact words multiple ways and it'll mean different things. If someone who has shown their own idiocy about a subject tries to give me criticism about it, I won't take it. If it's someone I respect a lot in general or think is more knowledgeable than I on a particular subject, I'm all ears, help me learn. But whoever it is, it must be presented in a constructive manner, anything else is basically just nagging/bitching/ranting/complaining.

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[nonovurbizniz]

I like all critisizm... it's usually pretty easy to see when it's true or not...

Just imagine how you'd think about someone else doing whatever you were doing to be critisized...

I LOVE critisizing people and things... IMO it gives them an opportunity to grow...

I like being critisized because IMO it give me a chance to grow.

[nonovurbizniz]

Here's a simple critisizm analasis checklist...

Is the critisizm true? Y/N

Do I give a sh!t? Y/N

Then you can take action or not from there.

[mylittlecivic]

when people critisize me it makes me think of them as the lesser person, before they try to judge you they should look at themselves, makes me real sick sometimes:pukey