Getting Laid

[Kool-Aid]

How can you tell, verbally and/or non-verbally, if someone needs to get laid?

[Rob]

If his name is Rob (me)..........

[Kool-Aid]

Ha ha ha...

[Wren57]

I know I need to get laid so I can relax and kinda even the score with the ex, but at the same time I don't want to sleep with someone whom I don't know, so I'm not going to get laid anytime soon. Damn morals get in the way of fun so many times...:o

[Kool-Aid]

You know me....come here and I'll take care of you....:kiss:

[Wren57]

You truly are a rare breed. Thank you for giving me hope that there are some great women out there, and not all of them take everything you say negatively. Cheers. :drunk:

[biker's back]

Originally posted by highlander
I know I need to get laid so I can relax and<b> kinda even the score with the ex</b>, but at the same time I don't want to sleep with someone whom I don't know, so I'm not going to get laid anytime soon. Damn morals get in the way of fun so many times...:o

most childish reason to sleep with someone i've ever heard. Wren get a grip, things are really that bad.

[Wren57]

I know it is childish, which is exactly why I said I am not going to do it. ;)

[Kool-Aid]

Well...you're liable to feel and say things you don't really mean when you got your heart broken...I wanna sleep with my ex and tell his new girlfriend just to fuck him up...but the morals come into play to prevent me from wanting to really do so...

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
If his name is Rob (me)..........

Or Steve

[thermal]

hmmmm good question. I want to hear what the ladies have to say about this...... lol

[Kool-Aid]

When I think a guy needs to get laid...he had to have been acting like an asshole or have been mean....constantly grouchy.
For girls, kind of the same thing I think. I've never been told that I needed to get laid...so I dunno...:)

[Wren57]

You need to get laid. ;)

[mylittlecivic]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
When I think a guy needs to get laid...he had to have been acting like an asshole or have been mean....constantly grouchy.
For girls, kind of the same thing I think. I've never been told that I needed to get laid...so I dunno...:)



totally

[Kool-Aid]

I think you're just being funny Wren... :)

[IALuder]

i dont know about that.

its true i believe when someone is being a complete ass for no reason they need to get laid.

[ebpda9]

heh, now that explains why i am an asshole to anyone i see ;)

[Rob]

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
heh, now that explains why i am an asshole to anyone i see ;)
You've gotten laid recently Stefan....you can tell by all of those sores on your right hand....:flick:

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
You've gotten laid recently Stefan....you can tell by all of those sores on your right hand....:flick:

Ouch....you're bein mean Rob!!! hehehe


Most of the time, I think most of us in general in the world need to get laid. Everyone is always bitchy all the time. So we all need to get laid as much as possible!!!:banana: :banana: :banana:


Hehehe....seriously though, I can't really tell if someone needs laid unless they flat out say they need to.

[Rob]

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
Ouch....you're bein mean Rob!!! hehehe
:yes:

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
Most of the time, I think most of us in general in the world need to get laid. Everyone is always bitchy all the time. So we all need to get laid as much as possible!!!:banana: :banana: :banana:
Well D...as a friend you know I am always here if you need me...:nana:

[Kool-Aid]

I think that was an offer.... :yes:

[BlackWolf]

For me it's a bitchyness that won't go away after four drinks and I start thinking about how that cute guy might be in bed just by the way he smiles................THAT'S HORNINESS!!!!

(also because I've been browsing too much porn lately......)

[biker's back]

well i get laid

























































When ever I want! boo yaa!

[BlackWolf]

Are you bragging hun? ;) 'Cause that's not always a good thing......:bandit:

[biker's back]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
Are you bragging hun? ;) 'Cause that's not always a good thing......:bandit:

I just got called hun... and yes I guess I was bragging...

[BlackWolf]

Yeah. 'Cause some of us single people might be gettin a little upset that you're getting some and we're not...........;)

[Rob]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
For me it's a bitchyness that won't go away after four drinks and I start thinking about how that cute guy might be in bed just by the way he smiles................
*holds four drinks* So Johnae, how you doing? smiles ;)

[BlackWolf]

Yep, that's just what I was thinking, wanna lick my fingers??

[Kool-Aid]

Nastyyyy......even though Im single, I can still get laid anytime I want....;)

[spoogenet]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
Nastyyyy......even though Im single, I can still get laid anytime I want....;)

A luxury not applicable to many/most/all men....well without paying for it and maybe breaking the law. ;(

I'm with D here. If everybody got laid more often the world would be a much better place....assuming the population didn't explode.

b

[Rob]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
Yep, that's just what I was thinking, wanna lick my fingers??
lmao....sure! :yes:

[link]

the guys i know - just say it...
and me - ill say it too - I NEED TO GET LAID!!! been 2 weeks and mr vibes batteries are dying

[Kool-Aid]

Girl, I haven't been laid in 2 months!!!! I feel de-virginized....even afraid that some pencil dick can even break me off...ha ha ha...

[IALuder]

well im some pencil dick, im pretty should i couldnt but i can try!;)

[Wren57]

Heh, I had sex about a month and a half ago, but it wasn't good b/c it was w/ the ex and she was trying to get over me so it wasn't all too good... its been early Feb since I've had decent sex... porn just doesnt cut it...

[Kool-Aid]

Yea, this guy kissed me yesterday...I felt a little flow goin on...the feeling that I had almost forgotten...ha ha ha

[Kool-Aid]

Thanks for the offer Stefan...:kiss:

[IALuder]

im not stefan........you cuttin in on my kool-aid stefan? huh?

[Wren57]

OOOOOOOOOO YEAH!!! ;)

[Kool-Aid]

What is your name then? My bad. I've been doing that lately...Im sorry. It's hard to keep track of you guys' names...

[GT40FIED]

^^:toofunny: @ Wren. Niiiice.

Stefan is Hondaman...not SF.

[Kool-Aid]

Oops. Im very sorry.

[IALuder]

just call me King. well know who your talking about.

[ShagginJet]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
Yea, this guy kissed me yesterday...I felt a little flow goin on...the feeling that I had almost forgotten...ha ha ha

let's hear more of this story.

Getting laid is over rated. Sex is meaningless unless it's with someone you care about. I can get laid whenever, personality is good for something, it's just no fun fucking some person, not at first at least. Although it's a great way to get out some aggression.

[Whiteclipse99]

It's been a really long time since I got laid, really long, but I deal with it. Sure it's hard sometimes, and I could probably get laid whenever, but I choose not too. It means a little more to me than that.

[BlackWolf]

At this point in my life, when I want to get laid, I want to get laid. As long as the guy is clean and wears protection, I really don't care. Right now, I just want to use guys for sex just like they do us. I don't want any kind of relationship with anyone. I'm sooooo fed up with that mess. I might not even call the guy the next day. I just want sex for sex and that's it. It's all about me right now. (long story)

[Rob]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
At this point in my life, when I want to get laid, I want to get laid. As long as the guy is clean and wears protection, I really don't care. Right now, I just want to use guys for sex just like they do us. I don't want any kind of relationship with anyone. I'm sooooo fed up with that mess. I might not even call the guy the next day. I just want sex for sex and that's it. It's all about me right now. (long story)
:hmmm:

<---- wants to be used. :yes:

[IALuder]

damn it. black i wish i lived next door to you.

[Kool-Aid]

well, I know that I've gotten my feelings hurt and my heart broken...but I still keep my respect for myself when it comes to sex...men have to earn it...they can't just have it that easy for me to just give it up...I want them to know that I have self respect and that I am not the one you can just run all up in just because you're horny....nope....ain't happenin....regardless of how horny I am.

[biker's back]

You know its interesting people think its better to have unattached sexual relations with someone. But when they do this they rob themselves of the intamicy of real love making and without that its just getting off and is purely physic.

Its sad when people are willing to sleep around with a bunch of people, protected or unprotect. You never pay for it now but one day you will have to live with the choices you've made and it might cost you alot. If I was getting married and I got the final list from my soon to be wife and she'd been with 40 or 50 (or more) guys I wouldnt be interested in marrying her. Think about what you're doing and not being caught up in the here and now.

As for getting laid... yea the gf got all dressed up last night and well...;)

[ShagginJet]

^ Just because you're having emotionally detached sex with someone doesn't mean it's not good/loving, and it doesn't mean that you're sleeping around. Sometimes you need to be close to someone, just because you're not in love or falling in love (or plan to) with them doesn't mean that you can't be close sexually/physically/emotionally. I've had a couple detached relationships, i'm 23, and my final number is still under 10.

[biker's back]

Originally posted by ShagginJet
^ Just because you're having emotionally detached sex with someone doesn't mean it's not good/loving, and it doesn't mean that you're sleeping around. Sometimes you need to be close to someone, just because you're not in love or falling in love (or plan to) with them doesn't mean that you can't be close sexually/physically/emotionally. I've had a couple detached relationships, i'm 23, and my final number is still under 10.

I think thats a completely backwards way and looking at sex. Sex is supposted to be the closest way two people can get together. Yet people seem to be willing to let anyone or a select few sleepw ith them before they settle down. What are people doing to themselves? They'll allow someone to get inside them or sleep with them but they wont open up emotionally. People have it all backwards.

Call me a prude, tell me you dont understand what I'm saying but it does make sense people. Emotionally you should be there before you go having sex with someone.

It simple terms its like trying to drive a car without a motor, sure you can push it along, sure it'll go down a hill and coast on the flats for a bit. But without the motor it isnt going anywhere but down.

[ShagginJet]

I know exactly what you mean, but the way you and i think and or feel isn't going to change the world. The TRUTH is that people get hurt, people put up walls, people won't open up emotionally to another person until they're ready. Whether or not that point comes before or after sex really doesn't matter. In most cases people are more willing to get personal sexually then they are to get personal emotionally.

I think it's very sad, but it's the way the world is. Once someone is hurt it's so hard, sometimes impossible, to get that person to open back up again. to have them accept who they are and to let another person back into their life.

I just got burnt by this / about this. The girl wasn't ready, so what happen, she left me hanging. There's nothing you can do about it but to accept the way certain people are. Just because someone isn't ready now doesn't mean they won't be ready later, if i'm still around that is.

That make sense?

[biker's back]

it makes sense and what i'm saying is its sad...

[GT40FIED]

I hear what you're saying Rob, but you're talking from a belief and moral standpoint. Sex isn't necissarily an emotional thing...it's a biological instinct meant to further a species. Humans just got screwed because to us it's pleasureable and we're to stupid to control ourselves. I honestly think religion plays a big part in why people make it out to be emotional...at least the idea that it should be emotional. Really it's just like 2 animals mating...but humans have to kid themselves into thinking it's more. That being said humans are in some ways programmed to be monogamous. For instance, when you climax there are chemicals released in your brain that help you attach yourself emotionally to your environment and especially the person you're with. I'm not saying sex isn't better when you're in an involved relationship...I personally think it is. But at the same time said relationship isn't a necessity, it's a bonus.

[biker's back]

well if you say our actions are all animal based I'd say you're wrong and give us humans more brains then that. We're one of the few creatures that has the power over how we live our lives. No other creater on earth as the power, freedom and thought processs/brain power that we do.

[GT40FIED]

Well...that's debateable. All I'm saying is that sex is an instinct, much like self defense. It's just that as humans we're taught to deny our instincts. I honestly think we give ourselve too MUCH credit for our brain power. We do the exact same things other animals do...eat, sleep, deficate, and procreate...we just kid ourselves that there's nore to it than that. Just because they haven't developed classes and titles and subcultures for each other doesn't make other animals any less intelligent. Some could argue that simplicity is it's own intelligence. Bottom line: you can't knock people for doing what comes naturally. You can disagree with their choices and their reasoning, but in my opinion it's wrong to deny the instincts you have.

[Kalvin]

Originally posted by biker's back
Its sad when people are willing to sleep around with a bunch of people, protected or unprotect. You never pay for it now but one day you will have to live with the choices you've made and it might cost you alot. If I was getting married and I got the final list from my soon to be wife and she'd been with 40 or 50 (or more) guys I wouldnt be interested in marrying her. Think about what you're doing and not being caught up in the here and now.


Is it because of the idea that a girl who sleeps around a lot is thought of being a slut? On the other hand, guys aren't looked down upon if they had a lot of partners. If you are waiting until you two are getting finally married and then turning her down because she finally gave you the count, then you should have asked her earlier in the relationship and decided then if she is wife material or not. On the other hand, would you even consider continuing the relationship knowing she had been with so many guys? If you are thinking yes, then why is she dateable but not marriageable? You are still getting the leftovers from all the guys before you...

I'd rather she had her fun beforehand and as long as she doesn't sleep with 40 or 50 guys after we are married, I could care less. But if she has some incurable std, all bets are off. I like to free of rashes or piss without some burning sensation, thank you...

[ShagginJet]

I don't think it's the ability to think that makes us different, i think it's the ability to comunicate. That's what makes humans different then any other animal is that at choice we have the ability to say/speak/comunicat our thoughts to other humans, every other animal is different. Just My Opinion,m but when it comes down to it we are all animals in one form or another.

[Kool-Aid]

I think that everybody is different and having sex with someone will eventually become an emotional attachment. It is a shame that people go around having meaningless sex because they "hold their walls up" or whatever excuse they have for doing it...like I said before, I've been done dirty...real dirty...and I;ve met a couple of guys that can probably rock my world if I let them...I just take my time and get over the previous relationship...and you know what...there ain't no walls upon my heart....it takes a strong man and/or woman to not develop those walls...and yes, I would love to have sex again...but I feel if I do, it would be nothing more than just rebound sex and I don't want it to be that way...so I am holding out to make it right.

[Rob]

Originally posted by Kalvin
I'd rather she had her fun beforehand and as long as she doesn't sleep with 40 or 50 guys after we are married, I could care less.
Finally someone with something intelligent to say in this thread...I feel the exact same way. Everyone, I don't care who you are or what you think you are, has strong sexual desires. Monogamy is great with someone that you love and care about. But if you lose your virginity to one girl and stay with that one girl for the rest of your life, you will always wonder what it is like with someone else. Same goes with females. I have seen alot in my 28 years...most of it in the last 4 years of my life. I have had numerous girls proposition me (that were married or in a relationship) because they weren't getting satisfied sexually in their relationship. One of those was supposedly a "good girl" that never slept around or had sex until she got married. Then she found out that her husband sucked in bed and she never had an orgasm with him so she started looking elsewhere. Now, maybe if she had slept with a few guys before she got married she wouldn't have cheated on her husband or even married him in the first place. On the other hand, my ex-wife was very promiscuous before we got married and I found out after we got married that she had been with 80+ guys. She just decided that marriage shouldn't get in the way of her promiscuity. Sex is a very important part of human behavior and if you don't fulfill that humor desire/instinct/whatever you want to call it then it will cause problems at some later point. Basically what it comes down to is you need to "shop" around a little bit to get certain things out of your system and find someone that matches your desires and sex drive and also someone that has gotten their "shopping" out of the way as well........

[Kool-Aid]

I understand where you're coming from...I don't think anybody in this lifetime has slept with just one person their whole life...I'm just not going to be sleeping with like...20 guys my whole life...won't happen. It ain't that serious for me.

[ShagginJet]

^ If i travel at the same speed i'm traveling and stick to the plan that i've made, I don't expect to hit or go over 20 either. You shouldn't need to go that far to meet the one who's right for you. By 20 failed attemps you should have found someone you're happy with and someone that you'd be glad to settle with. I'm under 10 and think i've found that, it's gone now but i have a nother 10+ to find the things that i know i'm looking for.

[Rob]

Well...I "got some" last night...it was a one night stand (just met her for the first time. It was a friend of a female friend of mine and I knew her for approx. 6 hours before the deed was done) and I gained some knowledge from the experience...

1) I have absolutely no respect for my pee pee :no:
2) Alcohol is bad...m'kay

:nono:

[Wren57]

What do you mean by #1? Whiskey dick or what?

[Rob]

Originally posted by highlander
What do you mean by #1? Whiskey dick or what?
no...I meant by what I stuck it in....:pukey

[Kool-Aid]

What happened???

[biker's back]

Heres some food for thought..

To all the people that have many sexual partners or have had many. What good has this gotten you? Are you happily settled down with someone you care about or are you alone looking for the next one to test drive?

[Kool-Aid]

I've said it before....and i'll say it again...
I have too much self-respect to participate in one night stands...

[MAXed Out]

^There is nothing wrong with one night stands in my opinion. Cause there are no feelings for the other person and vice versa so the next day or w/e u can do what ever the fuck u want to.

[BlackWolf]

That's one of my problems, I don't have any. I have morals with a very low self esteem, but no self respect. :o

[Kool-Aid]

Well girly...every woman should have self-respect...we are too beautiful of a species to not have self-respect... ;)

[biker's back]

a girl without self respect is just a wet hole..

[Kool-Aid]

What exactly do you mean by "wet hole"?

[ShagginJet]

^yea, that was kind of mean biker.

[biker's back]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
What exactly do you mean by "wet hole"?

i think its pretty clear what i mean by that....

mean.. maybe.. harsh.. yes

Get used to it, i'm blunt and I dont have my lips on anyones ass

[Kool-Aid]

You ever heard the expression..." if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it"?

[biker's back]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
You ever heard the expression..." if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it"?

this is the internet...

[BlackWolf]

I said that I don't have any self respect but I didn't say that I was a whore. The internet does NOT give you any more of a right to personally slam on someone just because you don't agree with them. I have had alot of issues in my past and the issues I'm dealing with now, which gives me reasons why I sometimes do what I do and none of which I will explain to you or anyone else on this site, unless you are a very close friend (you know who you are) about my issues just to prove a point. BUT I can and will tell you this. I am not nor was I ever a whore or in your words, a "wet hole". You DON'T know me. You don't know anything about me except for what I post here at this site and you think THAT is enough to judge someone by?? I will stand by the morals that I do have and not stoop to your level by calling you names. If you've had a bad day, it's not my fault.

[Kool-Aid]

I knew you was gonna have something to say about that...it wasn't nice of him to say that though...Im sorry girly for what he said...he doesn't know what you are going through...

[ShagginJet]

I don't think biker meant it in that way BlackW. He's making a comment on what he's observed and by what he thinks, you're right that he doesn't know you and because of that you shouldn't take it to personally. It was harsh but that's his way i guess.

[Kool-Aid]

But what I was saying before, if you ain't got nuthin nice to say, whether it be in person or the internet, then don't say it...people have feelings...

[biker's back]

Originally posted by biker's back
a girl without self respect is just a wet hole..

I said self respect, not self esteem. Please read carefully before you go getting yoru panties in a knot.

As for being not stepping on anyones toes, frankly life is to short to all that bs. I say whats on my mind, and expect others to do the same. If you dont, thats fine, but dont expect me to be anyone but myself.

As for my comment, it wasnt directed at anyone and its what we call a comment/observation... not a personal attack.

[BlackWolf]

Originally posted by ShagginJet
I don't think biker meant it in that way BlackW. He's making a comment on what he's observed and by what he thinks, you're right that he doesn't know you and because of that you shouldn't take it to personally. It was harsh but that's his way i guess.

Sorry, but I think he did mean it that way. He made a generalized comment on what he's observed and thinks but directed that towards me. If he wants to think that way, that's fine but don't lump me in in the process. I generally don't care what anyone else thinks of me or what I do, I'm the one who has to live with and by my decisions, not him. I said I have morals, yes, low self esteem, yes, very little to no self respect, yes and that's partly to do with the decisions that I have done in the past that I have regretted doing. Some physical, some mental but that's all I'm going to say about that. Many things can be said about many people as a general rule but don't think for even a minute that EVERYONE applies.

[biker's back]

Black, I dont pretend to know you or for that matter judge you. After watching a few girls with no respect, esteem or values get passed around amoungst a group of people I make this comment.

Guys view girls like i described above as nothing more then a good F!ck aka wet hole

[BlackWolf]

Originally posted by biker's back
Black, I dont pretend to know you or for that matter judge you. After watching a few girls with no respect, esteem or values get passed around amoungst a group of people I make this comment.

Guys view girls like i described above as nothing more then a good F!ck aka wet hole

Yeah, we call them Door Knobs around here 'cause everyone gets their turn....

You're more than entitled to your opinions but when it's generalized, don't lump everyone into it. I love a good fuck just as much as anyone but that alone in by itself does not make me a whore/wet hole.

[biker's back]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
Yeah, we call them Door Knobs around here 'cause everyone gets their turn....

You're more than entitled to your opinions but when it's generalized, don't lump everyone into it. I love a good fuck just as much as anyone but that alone in by itself does not make me a whore/wet hole.

Next time you read something I write, please read it a second time before you're emotions take over. If it has your name or reference to you I will make it very clear, otherwise its not directed towards you and the phsyco bable is pure over kill.

Cheers though, no one used the word whore but you....

[BlackWolf]

Originally posted by biker's back
i think its pretty clear what i mean by that....

mean.. maybe.. harsh.. yes

Get used to it, i'm blunt and I dont have my lips on anyones ass


And what else would you have meant by that??

[BlackWolf]

Originally posted by biker's back
a girl without self respect is just a wet hole..


So, physco babble, huh? There are others, not just myself, that have viewed your opinion as directed towards me.

I think I've made my point. Enough said.

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
You ever heard the expression..." if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it"?

Actually the saying should be more like "if you don't have anything nice to say, you're probably telling the truth". Now...I don't agree with what Rob said in the least...I could show you a few dozen people I've come across in my life that would prove otherwise. That being said, it's his opinion and I honeslty don't think it was directed at any of your girls personally.

[Wren57]

I don't think it was a personal attack... maybe it was, maybe it wasn't, but WHO CARES... like ya said BlackWolf, this is a damn internet forum, no big deal. Everyone needs to live the way they see best fit with the situation (past and present) that they have to deal with, simple as that. It will differ for everyone...

That said, I need to get laid badly. Maybe this weekend something will happen... staying w/ 4 girls out of town for a music fest (another one)... wish me luck. ;)

[ShagginJet]

^ I think we should lube them up in corn oil and have them wrestle it out... except in place of biker we'll use kool-aid. I mean really, who wants to see biker all corn oiled up?? Now BlackW and Kool-aid.... ;) .... I'd probably even pay to see that.

[ShagginJet]

Originally posted by highlander

That said, I need to get laid badly. Maybe this weekend something will happen... staying w/ 4 girls out of town for a music fest (another one)... wish me luck. ;)

Yeah if you don't get laid being out of town with 4 ladies then I'm gonna have to dis-own you as someone i really don't know anyways.... Make sure you wear your agent smith suit.

At least get a B-Day hummer!! Someone should be down for that.

[BlackWolf]

Originally posted by ShagginJet
Yeah if you don't get laid being out of town with 4 ladies then I'm gonna have to dis-own you as someone i really don't know anyways....


I'd have to agree because I'd disown you too! ;)


Now, as far as the hummer goes, will you take a rain check from me?? Good :luck: with the other four girls...........:bow:

[ShagginJet]

^ isn't my b-day coming soon??






Nope.... Damn, not till september.

[biker's back]

See the thing is I dont ask you to accept what I'm saying. All I ever ask is that you read it. Sometimes I give really good advice, other times people dont understand me. Dont take what I say so personaly, none of you've I've met and only a few of you I actually could say I know something about.

For me to personally attack someone here I'd need a reason and if you'd read below you'd see the 'no drama' thingy... lifes to short people. I dont personally attack people... only state the things I see, how I see them. Love me or hate me.. just dont ever lie

[Rob]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
What happened???
I had sex with a girl that I should't have and we'll leave it at that.
Originally posted by biker's back
To all the people that have many sexual partners or have had many. What good has this gotten you? Are you happily settled down with someone you care about or are you alone looking for the next one to test drive?
It has gotten my dick sucked and it has gotten me laid. I don't particularly like fucking my hand every night and I don't have a steady girlfriend so I don't have that going for me either. I'm not looking for the next one to test drive....I've already test driven 18 but I can tell you this, I wouldn't even think about starting a long term relationship with a girl without having sex with her first. That's why divorce and cheating happens (for the most part with several exceptions)....you get into a relationship...the sex sucks...you look for better elsewhere....

I am a VERY sexually driven person and I need a partner to match me or I'm not going to be happy....that's me, that's who I am...and to this date I have not been able to find a female that has been able to keep up with my demand....maybe you or others here have more restraint on your sex drive, I do not.......

[thermal]

Originally posted by biker's back
a girl without self respect is just a wet hole..
Dude.... WTF is that all about? There's really no need to say this bullshit....

[Kool-Aid]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
That's one of my problems, I don't have any. I have morals with a very low self esteem, but no self respect. :o

if she hadn't said this...you wouldn't have said anything about the wet hole thing. Since you replied to what she had said, whether you were pointing her out or not, she claims to have a minor problem with her self-respect,therefore, you ARE calling her a wet hole.
It's because of men today that women have to go through the emotional battles that we go through from playing those fucked up emotional games that guys like to play...Im not saying every man, but the majority. You know this...so why would you say something like this?
And all of the guys that replied to what he said saying that it wasn't personal, and to not take it personally...why don't you try being a girl and see if you can "not take it personal"...it IS personal....to me at least...and I have no problem with MY self respect.

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
It's because of men today that women have to go through the emotional battles that we go through from playing those fucked up emotional games that guys like to play...Im not saying every man, but the majority.

Whoa whoa whoa...that is just as ignorant and close minded as what Rob said. I could flip that quote on women and say it was true. That is such a horrible way to disown your own feelings. No one can MAKE you feel anything emotionally. You do that on your own. As for emotional games, I think there's enough of that going around to spread it evenly between the sexes. Laying it all on men is just cheap and childish. And just because you used the old "not every guy..." trick doesn't negate the fact that you are, in fact, refering to men in a generaliztion. Blaming your emotional problems on another person or persons is just an easy way out. "I don't have problems...he/she made me feel this way". BULLSHIT. The only way someone can give you emotional baggage is if you let them. You might be thinking "oh, it's not that easy". Yes, it is. We've all been screwed over...that's to be certain. But we all deal with it in our own ways. If you want to feel insecure or self loathing, that's your choice, but don't blame anyone else for it.

[Kool-Aid]

Dude...you have no idea what YOU'RE talkin about...just...sit down....you're through...
Yes, I think the reason why relationships are soo fucked up today is mostly because of men. Women don't just go around fucking up peoples feelings for nothing at all...except...if it were a guy who had hurt them first.
I honestly believe that if women were treated right more often in this day in age...we wouldn't have to be acting like you guys. Men are the root of hurt feelings in relationships...and because of this...women are in the trend of hurting others' feelings as well. I don't disown my feelings either...

[Kool-Aid]

And if you give your heart to someone and they break it, yes, it is their fault....because if you really loved/liked them...their heart shouldn't have been broken in the first damn place...

[ChrisCantSkate]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
Yes, I think the reason why relationships are soo fucked up today is mostly because of men. Women don't just go around fucking up peoples feelings for nothing at all...except...if it were a guy who had hurt them first.
I honestly believe that if women were treated right more often in this day in age...we wouldn't have to be acting like you guys. Men are the root of hurt feelings in relationships...and because of this...women are in the trend of hurting others' feelings as well. I don't disown my feelings either...

what does treated right mean? because as of now basically every guy i know will pay for everything in a relationship, do whatever his girlfriend wants and never gets to do what he wants. you ladies are not queens. everyone has to comprimise for anything to be fair, not get pissed and sleep with his friend when she dosnt get her way one time.

and for messing with peoples feelings... women are the worst at that by far. mixed signals, never saying what they mean, assuming guys pick up on small insignificant stuff and gather a whole deep meaning out of it, those things may not make a guy cry, but shit... try figuring out what someone means when nothing at all is ever given to you clearly. at least guys are strait forward. i would much MUCH rather have everything strait forward than the mind games

[ebpda9]

i dunno, but ihad to put up with a lot of crap from the girls and i don't think i ever played with their feelings at all. just because i am more contained to myself, doesn't mean that they have to walk all over me like it happened with the past 3 women i have been with. All the riddles and games that have been played with me got to me enough to say fuck it and go back to my cars.

[Kool-Aid]

Yea, I don't even care anymore...end of subject for me.
I think I am the type to be more aware/cautious about relationships now...I know that I am not the type to be severely influenced into being harsh to guys after previous relationships...or put up the old wall...which I am very glad.

[ShagginJet]

^hrm. The old wall.. For me its the new wall. from this point on the walls gonna be up, i've never felt more betrayed in my life. For all the new ladies i meet they're going to get the wall. I'll keep it small for now, but if shit gets fcked up, i'll have no emotional attachment and really won't give a damn. Except for the ladies who know me personally here, and a select other few, it's time for the wall, time to start caring about myself, what i want, and i'll leave the rest up to the ladies.

[Rob]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
I think the reason why relationships are soo fucked up today is mostly because of men. Women don't just go around fucking up peoples feelings for nothing at all...
:bs: ...yes Koolaid, you get the flag...talk to me about women not going around fucking up people's feelings and then you might know what you are talking about.........

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
Dude...you have no idea what YOU'RE talkin about...just...sit down....you're through...
Yes, I think the reason why relationships are soo fucked up today is mostly because of men. Women don't just go around fucking up peoples feelings for nothing at all...except...if it were a guy who had hurt them first.
I honestly believe that if women were treated right more often in this day in age...we wouldn't have to be acting like you guys. Men are the root of hurt feelings in relationships...and because of this...women are in the trend of hurting others' feelings as well. I don't disown my feelings either...

[Cartman voice]WEAK...WEAK...TOTALLY LAME![/Cartman voice]
Of course you think men are the reason that shit's so messed up...because you date men. I, however, date women (or attempt to anyway) so I see the complete opposite. Women do just as much fucked up shit as guys and anyone who doesn't see that is just fucking socially blind. A ton of women ARE treated right...and still fuck guys over. Take my brother, for example. He dated a girl for 2 years and they got married. I know for a fact he did everything he could to make her happy...even at the expense of missing out on some family oriented things. How did she repay his good deeds? Cheating on him and leaving him after 9 months. Women will hurt just as many feelings as many so please don't try and get anyone to swallow that shit. And they don't do it because men have screwed them over..they do it because they're human. The same reason a good number of guys do it. Don't for a fucking second think that just because women lack a penis that they're any different from men. We're all born with the same instincts and defense mechanisms. Some of us just choose to use them differently and be responsible for our own actions. And yes, if you blame your relationship-motivated emotional problems on men you have, in fact, disowned your feelings as your own. Then they belong to this guy or that guy. The actions someone undertakes to "break your heart" are their own, but the ensueing broken heart is your issue. You have a choice to feel that way or to not. They have no say in such matters. You can't pawn the entirety of relationship problems off on men because men are only half the equation. That's weak minded diatribe from someone who can't take responsibility for their own thoughts or their place in societal roles.

[ebpda9]

blame it on men, blame it on women doesn't matter anyway, the society nowadays is fucked up big time

[Wren57]

Please don't tell me it is men's fault... you KNOW everything that my ex has done to me, and just because you haven't experienced being screwed over by a girl doesn't mean it doesn't happen, and vice versa w/ me and guys... it happens both ways, you can't stereotype a gender based on personal interaction with said gender, it simply doesn't work... (not attacking, just being rational)

[ShagginJet]

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
blame it on men, blame it on women doesn't matter anyway, the society nowadays is fucked up big time

^Truth be told!!

[biker's back]

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
I had sex with a girl that I should't have and we'll leave it at that.

It has gotten my dick sucked and it has gotten me laid. I don't particularly like fucking my hand every night and I don't have a steady girlfriend so I don't have that going for me either. I'm not looking for the next one to test drive....I've already test driven 18 but I can tell you this, I wouldn't even think about starting a long term relationship with a girl without having sex with her first. That's why divorce and cheating happens (for the most part with several exceptions)....you get into a relationship...the sex sucks...you look for better elsewhere....

I am a VERY sexually driven person and I need a partner to match me or I'm not going to be happy....that's me, that's who I am...and to this date I have not been able to find a female that has been able to keep up with my demand....maybe you or others here have more restraint on your sex drive, I do not.......

Rob your major issue with this argument is the fact you think cheating is because of 'bad sex' I have news for you. Bad sex isnt what drive women away from their men. Women are emotionally driven, and often, yes often not always leave their bf/husband because their emotional needs arent being met. Not always is this the mans fault because sometimes teh woman can communicate. But bad sex stems from a bad relationship.

Your 'sex test' is a flawed one my friend, and only goes to show you dont understand how a relationship between and male and female works. A good woman will only open up physically when she feels emotionally safe to do so, where as a man can just be ready from day one. The woman who sleeps with you after quickly getting to know you might pass your 'sex test' but will fail any relationship test you throw at her. I use your last 18 woman to prove this point.

As for your sex drive being high, a woman in a good solid, emotionally strong relationship wont be able to keep her hands of you. Sexuality and emotions are very closely linked with females.

[Rob]

Originally posted by biker's back
Rob your major issue with this argument is the fact you think cheating is because of 'bad sex' I have news for you. Bad sex isnt what drive women away from their men.
Well I have had sex with 2 married girls (I know, not good but that's another story) and in both cases the reason why they had sex with me was not because they were being emotionally deprived but because both females had husbands with little dicks (came from their mouths) and they were not getting satisfied. I "hurt" both girl sexually the first couple of times that we had sex because they weren't use to girth. I am not by any means saying that I am big, thick, or otherwise but every single girl that I have been with has said that I am bigger than the average they were used to. By the way, both females are still with their husbands.....they were just filling a sexual drive that was not being taken care of by their mates....

Anyway, enough of that....now I hear what you are saying and I very highly agree that better sex comes from having a strong emotional connection in a relationship.....no argument from me on that....

Now, on your comment about me not knowing how a relationship between how a male and a female works I will disagree with you on my friend....I know very well how it works...I also know how flawed "we" are as a society and there really is no strong bond left in relationships these days. I know what my idea of a strong, loving, monogamous relationship should be and trust me, I have tried to be a loving husband, father, and friend and all that got me was screwed over. Not because of anything that I did...I just picked the wrong women to be with.

Now, in regards to the last 18 women I have been with...Rob, to be perfectly honest with you....they have all just been something to fulfill my sexual needs and that is it. At the time of my divorce, I was 23 and had only been with 3 females.....one of those my wife. I was never openly sexual with every women I met. The two girls prior to my wife were long-term girlfriends that I ended up eventually have sex with. Now, after I got divorced, I got bitter and decided that all I wanted was numbers. Have sex with as many girls as possible and have no emotional connection what-so-ever. I did that for about a year and tallied up 12 bringing me to a grand total of 15. The last three consisted of an attempted relationship and two one-night-stands.

Finally....while things were good with me and my wife and we had that "bond".....she still couldn't keep up with my ass....she would constantly be sore and have to take breaks to "heal"....

[biker's back]

Rob her getting sore is because women arent built like we are, and finding one like what you want is next to impossible.

[cashizslick]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
The internet does NOT give you any more of a right to personally slam on someone just because you don't agree with them.



Well technically, but then the rational of "I dont know this person who lives 1000's of miles away from me" kicks in. . . .

[Rob]

Originally posted by biker's back
and finding one like what you want is next to impossible.
yeah....I know...that's what sucks......

[biker's back]

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
yeah....I know...that's what sucks......

dude I think you have to be more content just to enjoy spending time with a girl and not worried about how many times she can screw yuo in an evening. Sex doesnt make a relationship last.

[ShagginJet]

^ It might not make it last but it's definately a big part of a relationship, not really the sex but the intimacy.

Rob her getting sore is because women arent built like we are

Dude, you don't get sore?

[biker's back]

Originally posted by ShagginJet
^ It might not make it last but it's definately a big part of a relationship, not really the sex but the intimacy.



Dude, you don't get sore?

I honestly dont, there was one all nighter a while back and I was a little tender the next morning, where as my gf at the time couldnt walk.

[ShagginJet]

^ Yeah, I've disabled many of gals... WOOT! It's so funny when they stand up to go to the bathroom and just fall right back down from exhaustion... heheh.

[BlackWolf]

Poor poracito.......:rolleyes:

As if I could be that lucky..........:no:

Times like this I reaaly miss my ex........:yes:

[ShagginJet]

It takes a while to build to that level of intimacy and sexual activity. The new fling doesn't really do it for me so i doubt she'll ever really see the beast within, as for the last g/f, GOD i loved giving it to her, i'd break that every which way one could imagine.

[BlackWolf]

Like I said before, you're preaching to the choir.......my ex and I had it like that. Yeah, it was great BUT sex was all we had in common (long story) so obviously it didn't work out but I do believe that it is a VERY important part of any relationship. Without it you might as well be roommates.....:|

[Rob]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
I do believe that it is a VERY important part of any relationship. Without it you might as well be roommates.....:|
exactly.

[biker's back]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
Like I said before, you're preaching to the choir.......my ex and I had it like that. Yeah, it was great BUT sex was all we had in common (long story) so obviously it didn't work out but I do believe that it is a VERY important part of any relationship. Without it you might as well be roommates.....:|

I agree its very important, however there has to be alot of other things between the two of you otherwise when you realize its just sex you're outta there.