Ain't life a bitch when...

[Wren57]

...a girl is interested in you and comes on heavy, but you aren't interested in her... and also when you are interested in a different girl, but she isn't interested in you. Bleh...

...the search continues. ;)

[Fatal070]

didn't u make a topic like this b 4...?:D

[Wren57]

I did? :confused: I'm REALLY outta it today, I've felt high all day long but I'm not...

[ebpda9]

lol, how do i know that feeling. so far the only thing coming on heavy is my cars :yes:

[Fatal070]

hahah :cool:

[mylittlecivic]

I hate having to tell someone im not interested, it makes me feel like such an ass, hope you figure somethin out

[Kool-Aid]

This happens to me all the time...nobody ever likes me...;(

[ebpda9]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
This happens to me all the time...nobody ever likes me...;(

we all like you :yes:

[MAXed Out]

Yeah i know the feeling. Ive been liking this girl for a while now and it doesn't seem like she's really into me even tho we flirt and shit. but her best friend wants my nuts and to be honest i can't really stand the girl that much so if im mean to her she would make some shit up and tell the girl i like. so yea lifes a bitch sometimes.

[ShagginJet]

Originally posted by mylittlecivic
I hate having to tell someone im not interested, it makes me feel like such an ass, hope you figure somethin out

I'm interested in knowing how this happens. What happens that they get the impression that you are interested? Do you normally try to hint at things or do you just straight out tell them?

[mylittlecivic]

Originally posted by ShagginJet
I'm interested in knowing how this happens. What happens that they get the impression that you are interested? Do you normally try to hint at things or do you just straight out tell them?


lost me there a little bit:confused: I just mean when someone tells me they like me, Ive had 2 guys in the last 6 months tell me to break up with my boyfriend and go out with them, one of them repeatedly sends me text messages and trys to go wherever im gonna be. and its like- hello I said I have a boyfriend:o

[pdiggitydogg]

boy thats typical w/ me

[ChrisCantSkate]

story of my life...

[ShagginJet]

lilcivic: just trying to figure woman out. I'm so fucking lost as to so much shit that goes on. I was talking with this one girl and things were up and down, next thing i know she's rockin my jock after i had given up on it and labeled it a loss. then my ex, she just backed off one day, no real reason, and now we don't even talk. None of this shit makes sense and people aren't open enough because of past experiences, they have these walls up that they just block everyone out. i personally think that's f*cked up....

</rant> (if that was a rant)

[Kool-Aid]

Well...once you get hurt...it's hard to open back up...you know that. I personally don't have a problem opening up but I do know that I am more cautious about the way I handle myself in a relationship...I think women, I'll take myself for example, like to attract guys and when a guy doesn't show interest then we, or I, try harder to gain his attention...that's just me.

[ShagginJet]

That's just crazy... if we give you too much attention then you fade away and get over it, if we give you none then you start acting all weird. It's a lose lose situation so much that it's fucking annoying. No one is really themselves anymore, they are just reacting to the other persons reactions so that they either have the upper hand or something. (I'm still working on that theory)

The person who cares the least has the most control.

^ Minus Kool-Aid, that's my new approach.

[Kool-Aid]

On the other hand of things...if I really like a guy and he gives me attention then Im all for it...I won't go away...but if I like another guy and after talking with him seems like an idiot...then I'll fade away...