Break-Ups

[Kool-Aid]

What did you learn from the break-up of your last relationsip?

[V8killimports]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
What did you learn from the break-up of your last relationsip?

Do it over email from 3000 miles away would be best.

[IALuder]

^MAUAHAHAHAHA

i learn people arent what they seem to be.

[Kool-Aid]

V8killimports...were you trying to be funny cuz that situation sounds familiar...:yes:

[V8killimports]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
V8killimports...were you trying to be funny cuz that situation sounds familiar...:yes:

Yea I'm just kidding.. wouldn't really do that.

[Kool-Aid]

I know you was kidding. You were just making fun of my breakup...I understand...;(

[V8killimports]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
I know you was kidding. You were just making fun of my breakup...I understand...;(

Sorry didn't mean to.. you broke up with a guy that way?

[Wren57]

Um... my experience has been bad; I've learned the only way to do it is fast and swiftly...

[V8killimports]

Originally posted by highlander
Um... my experience has been bad; I've learned the only way to do it is fast and swiftly...

just like a ninja?

[GT40FIED]

:toofunny: Yes...break up spitting tiger jujistu style.

As for my last break up...never let your ex go home for Thanksgiving alone cuz she'll cheat on you.

[KwikR6]

I noticed from my break ups...gurls cheat...or they find their way to another guy very fast....FUCK!

[ebpda9]

i noticed that no woman is worth the headaches :yes:

[Wren57]

Mine was, and still would be if we lived in the same city...

[MegaDON]

Had to let her go because we were far apart and would be gone for to long.

[Kool-Aid]

My ex broke up with me on email while I am here...that's pretty bad...especially since I can't just up and leave back to the states...so now I feel like there's some unfinished business to take care of and I can't until I get back...
What I've learned is never date guys who are younger than 25 because every guy Ive dated who were in that category were confused...don't know anything about what they wanted...and they break up with girls on email just to have it easier on them...

[GT40FIED]

Hey now...I'm 22 and am I confused? No. I know exactly what I want...I'm just slightly insane.

[Kool-Aid]

Aaaahhh...another needle in a haystack...any others????

[Wren57]

<- me :yes:

*edit* I wonder why it didn't go through the first time...

[Kool-Aid]

Nothing to say Highlander?

[Racing Rice]

I learned that girls can be just as ruthless as guys can.. That dirty whore!:irked:

[Kool-Aid]

hahaha...so if girls are dirty whores...then what are guys when they get ruthless?

[SolPol]

I learned from my last and all my breakups that girls are crazy :yes: :cool: ;)

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
hahaha...so if girls are dirty whores...then what are guys when they get ruthless?

Not all girls are dirty whores, just my ex... Because welll... She was..;) Guys can be dirty whores too.. I know many of them.:yes:

[ShagginJet]

i originally wrote a big response but it doesn't matter, she's moving and it'll all be over soon. I've learned nothing, just got my heart stepped on and am dealing with it.

[Kool-Aid]

Once you get over the hurt feelings and broken heart you'll think back on what happened and you'll realize what you've learned...at least that's what happened to me.

Guys are just flat out f*cked up when they break girls' hearts...as well as girls...
I know I've learned from my last relationship[ and now I think I can "hold it down" and not get my heart broken as bad the next time I get into a relationship I get into.

[Digital]

No to date girls who love chruch...

[Kool-Aid]

Well...if you are not religious...then no...you shouldn't be with someone who is.

[ShagginJet]

religion should have nothing to do with it. Unless someone is a religious freak.

[Kool-Aid]

Well...there are some people who look to God to bringing them their soul mate...so they feel that they should bring God into it. I guess it all depends on how religious you are...

[spoogenet]

I learned that lots of girls like to hold onto one relationship until they can find another. Girls who can't stand being single piss me off.....

And I learned there are lots of guys who are eager to pick up a girl having any kind of relationship trouble.

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[MegaDON]

I'm cool with relationships and all but try to avoid them because i'm still trying to do the single thing...but i don't like girls you are always looking for a boyfriend, that seems immature to me.

[Kool-Aid]

I think it's natural for a girl wanting to have a relationship...it's all hormonal and it's something desired and needed sometimes...I think that women are designed to love and be loved so...I don't think you can blame a girl for wanting a relationship...I don't think it's immature either...it's just life.
I myself want another relationship but Im not just gonna go out looking for one...

[gsrchad]

what i learned from my past relationship.....

to give you an idea about me, first i must say this... i like to upgrade... you name it, i believe it can be upgraded.... but the moral of the story is you upgrade till you can't no more... at that point i am satisfied...

now. every since high school, i have been upgrading my girlfriends ( dont flame, its life, we all do it... i just state the facts)
sometimes i went backwards, which i realize and quickly got out of it... and i never but twice, dated someone ugliar or a worse personaity than the last.( one was pail that ended up cutting her hair short and another was a whore, nuff said) .... now we can talk about my last 2 gf's. last one had a perfect personality. loved me and my car. did what ever i wanted ( went both ways dont get me wrong) and was the hottest gf i have ever had.... people envied me...

but i was content till about a few months ago, when i meet a girl that not only caught my eye, but kept them. although her personlity wasnt the same, i convised myself that i could change her personality ( to shy, both publicly and personaly and sexually also). so now i have a girl that gets hit on 3 times a day ( makes ya proud, and to know that shes yours but everyone wants her), and is falling head over heals with me...

so what did i learn from the past relationship.... what kinda personality to look for. thats what i learned....


see, before, my girl would ask me if i think this girl or that girl is hot, and i would actually think about it...

but now, i just laugh and say who the hell cares. then pick her up in my arms, and give her a kiss saying. " i would look but its not worth it"

i found my girl. so i think i learned all my lessons....

[Kool-Aid]

SO you broke up with your girlfriend because you saw another girl that looked better?

[gsrchad]

actually i would go into this, but my ex-girlfriend seems to be ubsessed and is apprently scanning the internet and follows my forum posts.. so i cant discuss these things anymore...

[ShagginJet]

^ ROFL!

[Kool-Aid]

WOW...:paranoid:

[gsrchad]

yeah, tell me about it.. not really that funny though....

[KwikR6]

Originally posted by gsrchad
yeah, tell me about it.. not really that funny though....
Well she's completely fucked in the head!

[gsrchad]

whats funny is she probly already read that... now is going to bitch at me for it..... oh god..... here we go...

[ShagginJet]

BEH! to all... OVER IT!

[Kool-Aid]

Damn...good luck...and why would she even be bitchin about it? She IS your ex right?? Tell her to back the fuck off...
I would not condone that jacke up behavior if some guy did that to me...

[thermal]

I think the best way is to take it maturely. None of that, "I swear I will beat the fuk out of your next BF/GF" bullshit. Or the "I will slash you rice burning Honda if I see it parked somewhere".

[Kool-Aid]

Definately...I would go the mature route...but this girl seems like she's kinda stubborn from those posts...hmmm

[ShagginJet]

BEH!

[gsrchad]

actually, i hoped she read what you all posted and takes the hint. being friends is cool, but she definetly pushes the envelope...

thanks for everyones help...lol

[ShagginJet]

So what happen that she's stalking you? How old are you? how lond did you two date? how long did you two know eachotehr before the relationship started? Who started it? You ended it? why?

[gsrchad]

she said that when she is bored, she searches around online to find things out about me. so its that stalking,? i think it is...

and im 21 and we dated for like 6-9 months ( long story)

i started it and ended it i guess. and why, becuase i didnt want to go head first into shomething that i wasnt really sure i wanted to, specially when i can get side tracted by other girls that i dont even know ( thats a long story too)

[ShagginJet]

I'd like to hear both of those stories.

When you broke up what did you tell her? (as closely as you can remember)

[Kool-Aid]

Well...did you find out if she ready our posts?

[GT40FIED]

If she IS reading this, this one's for her....suck my cock whore. That is all.

[Kool-Aid]

Damn dude...ha ha ha.

[GT40FIED]

I speak only the truth.

[gsrchad]

UYAHAHA, LMFAO!!!!


haha, oh my... can't stop laughing...AJ


damn that was funny, but yeah she read it. i made sure she read it this time.... I told her to keep updated on it. if your going to read it., read it all>!!! lol


and i really dont want to get into it...its in the past, trying to get out of it, not go back into it...

[Wren57]

^good plan dude, good plan

F*CK the past, the future is where its at... or at least thats what I keep telling myself...

[Kool-Aid]

Absolutely. If she's stalking you...let her...she's the one wasting her time. Just live yo life and not give in to her games....you'll be aight. "Yo Promesa"... :yes:

[ShagginJet]

I'm going to have to speak from a different side here. Stalking is totally uncool and i've even done some stupid shit in my days. However, it is really hard to let go sometimes. That doesn't give you the right to stock, but understand that someone may have established strong feelings. In your case i think u said she cheated on you, so i'm gonna have to agree with hi-lander (ROFL!).

[gsrchad]

actually no, she didnt cheat on me. I just think i /we need to move on. even as friends. that is totally fine, but oh well...

[Kool-Aid]

It is hard to let go...especially when you were the one trying so hard to keep the relationship going...

[Wren57]

Oh so, so damn true... I need to do more and have less spare time...

Spare time = nostalgia... :no:

[Kool-Aid]

Yea...keep busy...that'll help out a lot. I would shoot pool everytime I started thinkin about how bad Andy hurt me...and it worked becuase I would concentrate putting the ball in the socket... :yes:

[ShagginJet]

pocket

[Rob]

pocket, socket....you can stick something into either one :D

[Kool-Aid]

Yep... :yes: