Confidence boosters

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Just wondering what you girls (and guys cuz I know you're gonna read this!) do to boost your self confidence.....cuz well we all get down about things every now and again. Or maybe what you do for your friends or they do for you to get you out of a down swing.


Me personally....if I'm feeling "blah" about my physical apperance or I'm feeling fat or what have you....I wear lace panties. They always do the trick for me :yes: or wearing red..that works too.

If I'm just feeling depressed or out of it, acting anti-social....I like to take day trips. My 2 favorites are to go shopping in King of Prussia (which is right outside of Philly) and the other is to the Inner Harbor in Baltimore.

I've also heard that women that wear hats are more confident. I like to wear hats, but I think I look like a sped in most of them....which defeats the confidence booster end of it for me.


Ok...that's all I can think of right now......

[BlackWolf]

Just after my appointment to get waxed, eyebows and hair done, I don't wear chonies or a bra and that is the biggest booster! I feel sooo sexy the entire day! (and night ;) )

[nindoo]

Well if your racer girls, thats super hott.
And if your Hott you should be confident.

So,

Racer Girl ----> Hott ----> Confident

:)

[vtracer20]

i should try the bra thing:toofunny:

[Wren57]

So BlackWolf... when is your next appointment? ;)

[ShagginJet]

I try to make some sort of eye contact, i can usually get a good idea from eye contact. Once I've determined that it's worth the attemp, I just muster up the balls and do it. Rejection is part of life, it makes you stronger.

[BlackWolf]

Originally posted by highlander
So BlackWolf... when is your next appointment? ;)

Saturday......

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Yah you're right about the going comando thing....I've done that numerous times before....makes ya walk with your head held a lil higher in the air than normal.

but the no bra thing....can't do it. That is so uncomfortable to me.....not that I think bras are all that great, but i'd rather wear one than not.

i'm pretty confident anyway....but sometimes I hit a down spot...so it's always having other ideas to try to boost it up some.

[nindoo]

I didn't know girls went Comando.
:loco:

[Kalvin]

Why not? At least they don't have to worry about getting parts caught in the zipper

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by nindoo
I didn't know girls went Comando.
:loco:


not all of us do...but some of us do :yes: ;)

not only do we not have to worry about body parts getting stuck in the zipper, but if we don't have to worry about panty lines then:banana:

[spoogenet]

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
Yah you're right about the going comando thing....I've done that numerous times before....makes ya walk with your head held a lil higher in the air than normal.


You may not be the only one with a higher head.... :bandit:

Sorry, couldn't resist. ;)

Commando is fun, but I'm pretty sure it's much more pleasurable for the ladies.

Oh, on topic....confidence? I dunno, I just never have confidence, so not much I do to boost it.

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[nindoo]

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[Kalvin]

I liked hitting up the gym. Nothing beats the feeling from a good hard workout. I miss the free gym membership from college. Don't tell my parents this, but I think I spent more time at the gym than at the library... although I could never study at the library. Kept on falling asleep and would wake up with my face/forearms stuck to the pages of the book.

[ohiochica]

ok i am back,,,,,,,,,,,

am i the only one that goes commando allllllllll the time?

what is the point of panties anyways?

[BlackWolf]

^^ To protect your pants from your Aunt............;) :bandit:

[SolPol]

Yummy :no:

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
^^ To protect your pants from your Aunt............;) :bandit:

well that and to keep bacteria out of there....they're supposed to be hygenic. but with all the non-natural fibers that they used to make panties anymore, it doesn't really matter. Basically if you wear something other than cotton panties for more than 8 hrs,....well we'll just say it's not healthy for ya.:no:

[ohiochica]

i am such a bacteria freak that isnt an issue with me....lol........and i now KNOW when my aunt is going to show up so its all good.

[spoogenet]

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
well that and to keep bacteria out of there....they're supposed to be hygenic. but with all the non-natural fibers that they used to make panties anymore, it doesn't really matter. Basically if you wear something other than cotton panties for more than 8 hrs,....well we'll just say it's not healthy for ya.:no:

And just what happens.....?

Cotton isn't necessarily the best thing in the world either, as it retains moisture very well....moisture provides a great medium for bacteria infections to develop.

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[cashizslick]

Originally posted by nindoo
I didn't know girls went Comando.
:loco:

LOTS of girls go comando :yes:

[SolPol]

Originally posted by cashizslick
LOTS of girls go comando :yes:

The cool ones anyway.

I've been hanging out with a girl lately that NEVER wears a bra. Wears panties most of the time though.

[ShagginJet]

^^ ahh... get rid of her by 30... her tats will be at her knee's. hahaha.

[SolPol]

Eh, not big enough to have to worry about that.

[ShagginJet]

ROFL

[SolPol]

I speak only the truth sir ;)

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by SolPol
Eh, not big enough to have to worry about that.

this is why she's able to go without a bra!!! I myself must always have one on....well maybe not ALWAYS....but if I'm out in public, it's a must.

[SolPol]

Yeah, she must've failed the pencil test ;)

[Whiteclipse99]

Originally posted by SolPol
Yeah, she must've failed the pencil test ;)


The pencil test?......Dare I ask?

[SolPol]

Just something I heard about from another girl I used to date.

Before I explain in detail, it's a test with a pencil to figure out whether a girl actually needs to wear a bra.

So, you tell me if you wanna hear it ;)

It's not dirty or anything.

[Whiteclipse99]

I kind of think I have the idea, but enlighten me.....

[SolPol]

Heh.

Take off your shirt, take off your bra. Stick a pencil under your boob (heh...boob) longways. Don't stab yourself with it. Now put your boob down and your arms up. If the pencil stays you need to wear a bra. If not, not.

[Whiteclipse99]

:hmmm: I will have to try that, although I think I already know the answer. I always wear a bra though, otherwise it looks like I don't have a chest. :no:

[SolPol]

Yeah, that's what most girls say

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by Whiteclipse99
:hmmm: I will have to try that, although I think I already know the answer. I always wear a bra though, otherwise it looks like I don't have a chest. :no:


Why can I see Erin actually trying this????:rolleyes: Probably because I've known her for like 14 yrs or something like that.....


I don't have to try it....I already know i need a bra!:|

[ohiochica]

well, i could have told ya long ago, i do not need a bra, they are perky and definately not small. but i always wear a slightly padded bra because i hate when i have a t-shirt on and you can see the tities poking through.

[ShagginJet]

^ But we like when you wear a t-shirt and we can see the tities poking through.... :yes: ;) :yes:

[cashizslick]

Originally posted by ohiochica
well, i could have told ya long ago, i do not need a bra, they are perky and definately not small. but i always wear a slightly padded bra because i hate when i have a t-shirt on and you can see the tities poking through.


well . . . . i think there are times when a bra is best and times when its not . . . .like, i generally think a girl is respectable if she is wearing a bra.

[Whiteclipse99]

Originally posted by SolPol
Take off your shirt, take off your bra. Stick a pencil under your boob (heh...boob) longways. Don't stab yourself with it. Now put your boob down and your arms up. If the pencil stays you need to wear a bra. If not, not.



I really don't even need to take the test. Let's just say I'm one of those girls who doesn't need to wear a bra. :paranoid: :no: I told you I was small.

At least when I'm old I won't have to worry about them sagging....just maybe getting smaller.:yikes: :no:

[SolPol]

You look good, I wouldn't worry about it.

[Kool-Aid]

What I do when I am feeling under the weather is I go shopping...and charge up a card. When I am in the dressing room, cuz you know they have full-body mirrors in them, I will just put something on, and start dancing in the mirror...then I'll take a nice bath in my roman tub, go to Taco Bell, and rent me a good movie.
I like to dress up in lingerie as well...that makes me feel real sexy...especially trying it all on...wearing it all around the house...you know...just kickin back.
I think knowing that you look good and feeling good plays a major role in how major your confidence level is...
:yes:

[SolPol]

Damn, wouldn't that be nice to come home to :cool:

[Kool-Aid]

Oh definately....but the thing about showing off lingerie to guys is that Im kinda shy so I don't feel sexy anymore when a guy is lookin at me...I feel like there's 10,000 people staring at me with lingerie on...

[SolPol]

Well that's too bad, I'm sure you look pretty good :yes:

[Kool-Aid]

I do, and my boyfriend has told me that, but it still feels the total opposite...Im just shy as heck...

[SolPol]

That's understandable. A lot of people are like that.

[Kool-Aid]

Yea...I guess so but I know some people who aren't even shy at all...and I wonder how that came about?

[SolPol]

I do too. I'm pretty shy myself.

[Kool-Aid]

SO then what do you do when you engage in sexual activity? hide under the covers? Ha ha ha

[SolPol]

Sometimes.

I dunno, sex is a whole different animal. I'm shy in general, but if I'm having sex with a girl I know her pretty well and she already knows how weird I am so I'm not as bad.

[Kool-Aid]

Another confidence booster is when people keep tellin your how good you look and before you kwo it you're all conceited...people feeding into your confidence...