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Shaved &/or Laid
10-31-2003, 09:53 AM
Well. I once had a best friend named Matt. One day, he got a girlfriend, and i realized that i got blown off and he never wanted to do anything ever with me. As hard as i tried to preserve the frienship i just got ignored because of girl. So i move on. Eventually, my even better friend paul, gets a girlfriend, and is 'changed for the better' so basically never wants to do anything. IS this normal for everyone cause its starting to piss me off. /rant over
drdingo21
10-31-2003, 10:34 AM
yep. Woman take priority over everything else.

My advice, get a woman :)

Im doing the same thing right now to a couple people here at work, i just met a new girl (Lindsey) And she is hot! ive spent the past week with her, and my friends here are complaining because no I only do stuff with them when she is at work;)
Whiteclipse99
10-31-2003, 10:52 AM
See the thing is, no girl or guy should ever come between friends. If they really are your friend, then they should still make time for you no matter what. And if the girlfriend or boyfriend is really worthy, then they should understand and respect the friendships their significant other have.
Shaved &/or Laid
10-31-2003, 11:19 AM
heh. Girlfriends are hard to come by :no:
spoogenet
10-31-2003, 02:10 PM
Yeah, a "best friend" shouldn't let anything come between the friendship.

It's understandable at the very start of a new relationship, though. During the initial lust phase it can be real hard to want to spend time with anybody but that person, but you've gotta make time for friends.

Back in HS my best friend always had a g/f, or so it seemed, but it never kept us from being best friends and hanging out a lot. Sure I went and did a lot of things with both of them, but I never felt like a 3rd wheel or anything of the sort.

I don't like people who are your best friend while single then ignore you while in a relationship. When they're single again they always just wanna come back like nothing happened. :nono:

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MAXed Out
10-31-2003, 03:54 PM
yeah u shouldn't **** friends over for girl man. Like Eminem said "Bitches they come they go".