Anyone get treated this way?

[Grip72]

Ok, i don't consider myself hot or anything but i think i'm decent looking and a fairly cool guy. ANYWAYS, i've noticed over the past few years that girls typically cast me as 'the friend', 'the crying shoulder', 'the listener', 'the best friend', and worst of all 'the brother'. I don't know what it is but i HATE being cast as a chicks "brother". Especially when i consider my chickfriend hot or whatever. So ya, I'm the kind of guy girls seem to like to hang out with and chill with and dance,etc,etc but I never really pick up chicks and take em home (or whatever).. So I was just curious if anyone else has felt this way? It's kinda bunk and gettin old.

[Loki]

Yeah I get that a bunch as well. I think its just a vibe you give off or something. I have friends that get women easily and I don't think I go about approaching women much differently than they do. Still they get the girl and I get a new friend. It is bunk and old and I don't know how to fix it either.

[KwikR6]

Welcome to my world buddy.
I understand 100%

[Grip72]

ya, i think it must be a vibe or something man. Cuz i have that too, i'm not very confident with meeting new girls UNLESS I am with a buddy that is already friends with the girl. Then i can usually make them laugh and keep up good conversation. I'm not like a horrible talker or anything but its just weird and its really really starting to bother me. It's gettin tiresome....i need some loving too!

[ebpda9]

welcome to the club. :mad:

[KwikR6]

Ya know what it is...trust me. Your too nice. I get shitted on all the time...and nice guys DO finish last.

[Grip72]

...and nice guys DO finish last.

WORD WORD WORD WORD WORD....SO TRUE MAN...SOOO TRUE

[Civickid0to60]

easily reversable....dude i used to get it all the time, and it just a vibe that you put out. Seriously, all you have to do, is try and change the way you talk/act around a girl and there you have it.

[Grip72]

ya but dude...that's like changing who you are, if you know what i mean. I don't want to have to pretend to be someone else or act a diffferent way to get a girl. That's horsesh*t

[pdiggitydogg]

yes welcome to the club....this club sucks.
wish I could be known as something other that "the nice guy", "the one who's there" "the *insert your own thing here*", but sadly its something that I cant get out of and unless you meet a whole new group of people its gonna be hard to get out of that one........

[Shaved &/or Laid]

thats why so many people smoke crack nowadays.

[Grip72]

hahaha..shuddup and pass that blunt biotch!!

[nonovurbizniz]

It's not a vibe.. it's because you're not actively trying to get into their pants all the time...

Most guys do... so they automatically dis-associate you with sex...

start hitting on all the girls you know.... it'll probobly not work with girls who already know you though... hit on all the new ones (then the current ones start thinking of you like that)...

9 times out of ten you get smacked in the face.... but that tenth time... it's magic.

[Grip72]

9 times out of ten you get smacked in the face.... but that tenth time... it's magic.

LMAO man..hahahaha

[armyguy5]

yea it's my life story to...can i be an official member?

chris

[CivicSR]

I think this is what ur looking for shhhhhhhh dont tell the girls hehehe Double your dating (http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/page4.htm)

[SolPol]

I founded that club :yes: :mad: :no: :confused: ;(