question for da ladies

[90civiclxryder]

how do you let a girl know you like her without intimidating her, and whats a good way to get a girl to like you. i was wondering what you will have to say

[2000Pimpinex]

I'm not a girl but I have noticed that you'll have better results if you just tell her that you like her and go from there.

[Accord Man]

I dont really think you get a girl to like you.. Even if you could, that wouldnt really be right..


But you need to get her to notice you, then watch her moves and act ACCORDingly.

;)

[OneDopeTeg]

TWO WORDS: Be Yourself!!! If she likes you for who you are then you got it made....if she doesnt like you....then she just doesnt like you and shes not someone you really want to be with in the first place....find someone who will like you as much as you like them! But definetly dont put on a show....lay it all out there....the true you....and see how it all goes! Just my two pennies ;) BTW good luck!

[vtecfetish]

i have noticed that not any lady made a single reply;(

[90civiclxryder]

Originally posted by vtecfetish
i have noticed that not any lady made a single reply;(

lol, i noticed that, thanks for the advice, thats the stuff i usually do

[EliteAccord]

Be yourself, be honest, and don't beat around the bush. Humor will open the door to a girls heart :yes:

[SilverHX4Me]

well certain things are a turn off,like if you are heard referring to girls as bitches or hoes,act like you are some sort of stud just because your friends are around.. and for sure a turn off is if you see a guy flirting with every girl he talks to.. its like youre not even picky,wich makes you look desperate and thats unatractive and if you use LAME pick up lines.. hmmm what else ... i guess thats all i can really think of for now but what IS a good thing is to be yourself ( as long as none of the above describes you ) and just always be honest and fwd about what you think or feel .. oh and dont be in a hurry and settle,wait for the right person.. otherwise its gonna suck for all involved :yes:

[Lovebuzz13]

Here's an opinion from a lady...

I like when guys are foward with me. It's better when they just say "hey, I like you." Then she'll either act on it or ignore it.

There's not really anything in particular a guy could do to make me like him. It's all personality. I hate fake guys, it's best to be yourself and honest.

[slowEJ6]

its all about the G-Code woahdy. :rolleyes: :P ;)

[pReLuDe-gUrL]

Originally posted by Lovebuzz13
Here's an opinion from a lady...

I like when guys are foward with me. It's better when they just say "hey, I like you." Then she'll either act on it or ignore it.

There's not really anything in particular a guy could do to make me like him. It's all personality. I hate fake guys, it's best to be yourself and honest.

best reply yet :yes: Be forward, but dont be kocky. Once you have been forward, be yerself!!!

[OneDopeTeg]

new ideer....just jump on her back and poke her in the eye a few times....see if that works....works for me 99% of the time ;)

[Lovebuzz13]

Originally posted by OneDopeTeg
new ideer....just jump on her back and poke her in the eye a few times....see if that works....works for me 99% of the time ;)

Yeah, I'd have to agree. That's better than trying to be foward. I love it when a cute guy pokes me in the eye before he asks me out.:yes:

[OneDopeTeg]

little known fact time....the female eye is in fact the MOST sensitive erogenous zone on the female body....so erogenous it is also known as the "z" spot because it is waaaaay better than that "g" thing ;) ouch who poked me....thats not my eye!

[Lovebuzz13]

That's why I get turned on whenever someone pokes me in the eye.

[vtecfetish]

Originally posted by Lovebuzz13
That's why I get turned on whenever someone pokes me in the eye.
can i poke you in the eye?http://www.goldenplasma.f2s.com/forum/smilies/love01.gif

[Lovebuzz13]

Originally posted by vtecfetish

can i poke you in the eye?http://www.goldenplasma.f2s.com/forum/smilies/love01.gif


Oh baby.....Anytime ;)

[90civiclxryder]

lol, one time i was out with my now ex girlfriend last year. we were at a haunted hayride, they had a bubble machine going, i guess she was trying to catch one, but i ended up getting poked in the eye. nothin sucks more than driving with one eye

[Lovebuzz13]

Originally posted by 90civiclxryder
lol, one time i was out with my now ex girlfriend last year. we were at a haunted hayride, they had a bubble machine going, i guess she was trying to catch one, but i ended up getting poked in the eye. nothin sucks more than driving with one eye

Did it turn you on?

[Whtehnda93DXSdn]

well you can;t make a girl like you..She either will or does or won't PERIOD!!

if you find someone you like hang out have fun together and see what bcomes of it...Sometimes telling your feelings can get you hurt or push her away from you..

Being a guy that's just my $.02 on it...;)

[pReLuDe-gUrL]

*POKE* :yes:

[90civiclxryder]

Originally posted by Lovebuzz13



Did it turn you on?

lol, no it hurt and made my eye tear for half an hour, definately not recommended

[Lovebuzz13]

Originally posted by 90civiclxryder


lol, no it hurt and made my eye tear for half an hour, definately not recommended

Well then, I guess I won't try poking guys in the eye as a pick up. I'll have to think of something else.

[toykilla]

dont try to hard...heres what ive learned from dating. EVERYONE trys their hardest to proove they are someone they really arent. thats why relationships dont end over night. be yourself at first and if they dont like it then they would never like it. if you act like someone your not and ditch friends and stop doing all that car stuff you would normally do then when it comes time that you want to do something again without her she might get pissed. =/ then it will start a bunch of problems..in other words, 2 much time together is not a good thing. get use to being apart because sooner or later you will both want it and jealously sucks.

[90civiclxryder]

the story gets messed up now: my friend likes the girl too. we were all out playing pool, i was telling her about the car parts i got that day, and he tells me if i talk to her anymore hes gonna punch me (he's really strong, and could take me in a second). so basically the whole night i couldnt talk to her. he got really mad cause i was showing her how to drive standard in my car. he says that she likes him he thinks every girl does, but i dont know if thats tru or not. but i dont wanna ruin a friendship over a girl so i was wondering what you think i should do? thanks

[juvenile]

Originally posted by hybrid3do0rcx
its all about the G-Code woahdy. :rolleyes: :P ;)

Yup yup, know all about it! ;)

[90civiclxryder]

everything actually seemed to be going good for a while. he stopped talking to her, we started talking a lot, and hanging out together. we ended up spending new years together, see wanted to see the fast and the furious;) , i was gonna ask her out the next day, but then i got a message from the other kid saying if i did anything with her or went out with her i would regret it. so i didnt ask her out then, now i dont think she wants to go out because he just said he'd make her life hell if she went out with me, im gonna open up to her this week whenever we hang out and see what happens

[slowEJ6]

id say have your friend assassinated and all will be good :yes:

[juvenile]

Why do you even hang out with this guy?

[90civiclxryder]

Originally posted by juvenile
Why do you even hang out with this guy?

im not friends with him anymore, if someone does something like that to you they aint a friend,

[slowEJ6]

Originally posted by 90civiclxryder


im not friends with him anymore, if someone does something like that to you they aint a friend, they are cannon fodder :yes:

[juvenile]

Originally posted by 90civiclxryder


im not friends with him anymore, if someone does something like that to you they aint a friend,

good, that's a good decision! :)

[90civiclxryder]

well we talked and she said that she doesnt want a boyfriend now, she just wants to be friends.

[juvenile]

That really sucks man! I hate it when women pull that kind of sh!t on you...really sorry that it worked out like that for you! :no:

[90civiclxryder]

Originally posted by mt.biker
bro better still be friends with her... but if she says this and then goes out with the other guy shes a *****

yea, that would be fu*ked up

[toykilla]

Originally posted by 90civiclxryder
well we talked and she said that she doesnt want a boyfriend now, she just wants to be friends.

Friends can still have sex together?? What planet you living on? lol j/k

[slowEJ6]

Originally posted by toykilla


Friends can still have sex together?? What planet you living on? lol j/k
friends with benefits.:o

[GSRwBOOST]

Originally posted by 2000Pimpinex
I'm not a girl but I have noticed that you'll have better results if you just tell her that you like her and go from there.

That is the most effictive line one man can ever say.. it has worked many times for me... never fails

[GSRwBOOST]

Originally posted by 90civiclxryder
well we talked and she said that she doesnt want a boyfriend now, she just wants to be friends.

translation: She wants a relationship, just not with you.

<--- my advice.. move on and find another girl to pull the panties off of.

[girlzgotcarz]

another girl opinion for ya:
don't pretend to be someone youu are not, if she likes you it wont be because you are rich or poor it will be because YOU are YOU!;)

[Incubus]

But if you flash the cash you can maybe at least get a one night hook up!!!:yes:
Sell yourself, as a salesman sells a product.....give her value-added incentives such as: she gets to ride in your dope ass car, she gets to be seen with you, her coolness factor will go up if she is seen not only with you, but also in your car!!!:D

Alright alright, if a female really likes you, it won't matter what you drive or whether you are rich or poor, but sometimes flashy things and nice cars can help you get noticed.......at least that's the way it works here in southern ca.

[HBCivic_Chic]

Wow all this relationship advice is really getting me down in the dumps...............i just broke up with my man last month;( I think its really funny how all the guys in the world that are actually looking for relationships never seem to find the girls that want the same thing and visa versa......hmmmm what would we do in the perfect world..........there would be no drama......Anyway good luck with everything buddy.....just make sure you do whats right for you!

[Maxvla]

totally agree sarah.