Guy Friends

[GirlRacer]

Ok gals, it's gettin dead over here so how bout this:

Any of you gals who live alone, or hell...still live at home I guess, have your guy friends spend the night? No bad stuff involved (if you wanna call it bad...hehe) just they come over, crawl in bed w/you, curl up w/you and sleep, then get up & leave?

Reason I ask is b/c I have MANY of my guy friends stay, 1 at a time, (lol!) & my mom just FREAKS over this. I don't see the big deal here, figured maybe it was a generational gap...er maybe it's just me.

What about you girls?:confused:

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Might be part generational gap but then again it might not be. I would never think about having my guy friends come over get into my bed, cuddle with me, and sleep together (not having sex as stated above) whether I lived in an apt or still at home. If I'm in that need of cuddling with someone, I better find a bf quick! My guy friends mean way too much to me to go adding "weirdening" factors to the friendship. I can't say that I'd look down upon another girl for doing this....it's her choice to make....I just wouldn't do it myself. Eventually I think it would hurt both parties involved.


I'll pose a question to the girls that do this...Keep in mind this might be a long shot, but it could potentially happen....what if all your guy friends that you do this with all end up gettin girlfriends? Would you stop this behavior with them? or would you find new guys to do this with?

[TerKel00]

Well I live with my mom(dad passed away last spring). And I recently tested this too. Ive been dating this guy for 3 weeks and he has a 40 minute drive back to base and he was really tired so I made him stay. I put him in my bed because my mom gets up early and I didnt want her freaking if she saw him there. I slept on the sofa. Well..she was ok until he wasnt around..then she flipped out on me. Its not so much she cared he was here, she was pissed cause its "HER" house and she doesnt like people sleeping over. I still get treated like a baby, but shes right..it is her house and she still calls the shots. It's ok cause Im prolly moving to Hawaii after this summer w/him. ha!

Kelly~

[HNDAGRL]

Just they come over, crawl in bed w/you, curl up w/you and sleep...
I don't think its right to sleep together with a friend when you get all close like you said curl up together...no matter how long you have known each other.If you don't care or have feelings for another why do you need to be all curled up to them...sounds like ya need a teddy bear or your just simply lonely;)Sleeping in the same bed and keeping distance is cool.Guys sleep in the same bed with another guy if they have to and so I don't see a problem with people sharing a bed together.But I only see that its right if you are single, your not all close together (cuddling) and you just don't call a friend over and say do you want to spend the night knowing they will sleep in your bed with you.I mean its understood your out late one night and you have only one blanket to share with your bud and so you have to get close if its not a huge blanket but if you meaningly do it just because then I don't see its right, but hey thats just me.Your mom freaks...if I had a daughter and she did the same and see lived under my household then hell ya I would freak too.

[GirlRacer]

Some of them have g/fs, I'm sure the g/fs dont know. I dunno? It's just never seemed strange to me for some reason?:no:

And there's NO weirdness, we all still go out and hang out constantly.

[TerKel00]

:rolleyes:

[GirlRacer]

:D :D ;)

[mt.biker]

being a guy I figure it would just send the wrong message. These guy friends of yours who have gf's and are doing this aren't doing the right thing. The ones that are single may start to want to become more then "guy friends" and figure you feel the same way because you invite them to spend the night

Basically what I'm trying to say is by doing this you are increasing the chance for a miscommunication on something that could result in lossing a friend or breaking up a relationship that they have.

NOT too mention this isn't typically something alot of girls do. That said it isnt' the reason to do or not to do something. And though nothing is happening it does send out a strange message. If a guy becomes interested in you but knows you have "friends" sleep over, as a guy he doesnt know how to take this. Basically he doesn't know what type of girl you are, because actions speak louder then words. If you're trying to maintain an image that you dont sleep around then having guy friends stay with you probably isn't the best thing.

And if you're filling a void by having these friends stay with you, maybe you want a relationship more then you think. just my 2cents as a guy.

did all that make sense?

[Whiteclipse99]

Originally posted by mt.biker
Basically what I'm trying to say is by doing this you are increasing the chance for a miscommunication on something that could result in lossing a friend or breaking up a relationship that they have.


I agree with Rob (for once) on this one. I wouldn't want to send mixed signals to the guy knowing that I had no intention of becoming anything more than just friends with him. Also, if I were the girlfriend of the guy I might get a little jealous and hurt, not because he has girls that are friends, but because he was spending the night with them and cuddling with them when he has me to do that with! Although, I guess I don't see much harm in a guy friend sleeping over, possible in the same bed, as long as there was no cuddling going on. If they're just friends, then it would just be like having one of your girl friends stay over, just a different gender.

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by mt.biker
being a guy I figure it would just send the wrong message. These guy friends of yours who have gf's and are doing this aren't doing the right thing. The ones that are single may start to want to become more then "guy friends" and figure you feel the same way because you invite them to spend the night

Basically what I'm trying to say is by doing this you are increasing the chance for a miscommunication on something that could result in lossing a friend or breaking up a relationship that they have.

NOT too mention this isn't typically something alot of girls do. That said it isnt' the reason to do or not to do something. And though nothing is happening it does send out a strange message. If a guy becomes interested in you but knows you have "friends" sleep over, as a guy he doesnt know how to take this. Basically he doesn't know what type of girl you are, because actions speak louder then words. If you're trying to maintain an image that you dont sleep around then having guy friends stay with you probably isn't the best thing.

And if you're filling a void by having these friends stay with you, maybe you want a relationship more then you think. just my 2cents as a guy.

did all that make sense?


made perfect sense Rob. and I completely agree with everything you said.

[spoogenet]

What Rob said.

b

[GirlRacer]

Ya, in a normal situation, I agree too.:yes:

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
Ya, in a normal situation, I agree too.:yes:


so apparently you aren't in a "normal" situation with any of your guy friends? or just not in a "normal" situation with the ones you have cuddling sleepover time with?

[GirlRacer]

No, & it's hard to explain...I've just known these guys for years & years & years.

I don't think any of them, including myself does it b/c "O, I'm so lonely, O you are too? Ok, well come over here & we'll keep each other company."

It more happens when 1 of them is in Tulsa, (none live here) & they're out at all hours of the night & don't really feel like driving home. So then rather than sleeping on my couch, they sleep w/me.

Does that help?:confused:

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
No, & it's hard to explain...I've just known these guys for years & years & years.

I don't think any of them, including myself does it b/c "O, I'm so lonely, O you are too? Ok, well come over here & we'll keep each other company."

It more happens when 1 of them is in Tulsa, (none live here) & they're out at all hours of the night & don't really feel like driving home. So then rather than sleeping on my couch, they sleep w/me.

Does that help?:confused:

I understand, nor am I judging you for what you choose to do....but I just don't understand where the cuddling comes into play. I don't have a problem sleeping in the same bed as my guy friends....but I wouldn't cuddle with them. Especially if I knew they had girlfriends. I guess it's a respect thing (for our friendship and the guy's girlfriend). I dunno. Guess I'm "old-fashioned" and fall in with your mom on that generational gap thing.:confused:

[GirlRacer]

just out curiosity....how are we defining cuddling here?:confused:

[HNDAGRL]

Cuddling:Holding each other close, to lie close and snug, and in an "affectionate" manner.
Is it just me or do we just all agree that if your just friends with someone who cares if they have a girlfriend...cuddling is left for your special person that you share intimate or special feelings for...like a bf, husband,...etc., etc. NOT a friend.Its not right mentally to be so close to someone when you are just friends...something is wrong if two people are just friends and they feel comfortable being so close and cuddly.
I don't see how you have a friend and knowing he has a gf you can share a bed with him on purpose and feel comfortable about it!!!I see the guys have a feeling that they can pretty much do whatever but why cuddle I still don't get that whole thing...no feelings...why cuddle...maybe our definitions are different but look up the meaning in the dictionary
:yes:

[GirlRacer]

ok, that'd be my definition. And about respect for the male friends & their g/fs...I have respect for them, but none for the g/fs cuz I hate girls.

(No offense to you Honda girls! W/the exception of 1, you all seem alright.):yes:

[HNDAGRL]

You Said:I hate girls.
Please don't go through life hating all girls, because you don't know all of them.Some of the girls out there are better friends than guys sometimes.I have more guy friends but thats not because I hate girls, its just I have lots of interests most girls aren't into plus some girls can have some major attitudes.
Just don't hate someone before even getting to know them...thats all I have to say.:)

[mt.biker]

If you cuddle even with your friends, whats left to do with your bf or gf then? Seems to be crossing relationship lines...

[HNDAGRL]

agreed...yeah whats the difference with what you do with your friends and your bf...

[GirlRacer]

sex vs. no sex

[TerKel00]

No no no...Ok well ..lemme backtrack into real life again...if my bf was cuddling with some chick...Id be pissed. There are boundaries. Sounds to me like its a mix of immaturity and disrepect. I am taking it those girls that are the gf's of the boys you are cuddling with dont know because if they did they'd probably come kick your ass.

GirlRacer..honestly..it sounds like you are craving for the attention. You know you are pretty, but yet you seem like you need to know that every guy that you know likes you.

So if you are just friends with these boys you are cuddling with...do you cuddle with your girl friends when they sleep over??

And dont knock on girls either. Girls always need girl friends...if you dont you have some problems or should I say you will have problems because girls just have a way about bonding with eachother. I personally cant stand men..ha! lol

Kelly~

[GirlRacer]

:yes: I do have to be the center of attention.

And I don't know if the gals know or not, nor do I care. I don't really think they'd even try to kick my butt. :no: Most of them are scared of me.;)

AND I'm not knocking girls. I do have 1 girl friend that I would do anything for & that would do anything for me. We are so close that we say "I love you" when we get off the phone w/one another. I couldn't make it w/out her.

[Rob]

Quin, if I didn't know any better I would have some mixed feelings about what type of person you really are...........

[GirlRacer]

:D :D :D :D

Well I should hope that by talking to me, you don't think badly of me. ;)

[Zanza]

I'm all for the "showing of miscommunication". If a good friend of mine, no matter how could invited me to sleep in her bed instead of her couch after awhile you'd assume something.

Its easy to lead a guy on, because once you blur the lines of friendship and possible relationship the guy takes the ladder of the two. Logically what guy wouldn't want a relationship with a good girl friend.

Sex can't possibly define a relationship to me, because sex is so unimportant and quite a few times can mean absolutely nothing.

Think of it this way, if you came over and I said sleep over. I lead you to my bed and said "Com'n in" or if I throw you a blanket and said "You want my bed or the couch, either way I'll take the other" which would sound more like a friendship.

Thats just my guy opinion.

[spoogenet]

I think the likelihood of a girl taking sex as meaning "absolutely nothing" is far far far lower than the likelihood of a guy feeling the same way. Girls aren't usually into meaningless sex....at least not the girls I've known.

I wouldn't necessarily say that cuddling is reserved only for relationships. I personally wouldn't think anything of it to see two girls cuddle. I think girls are a lot more physical with their friendships than are guys, and I could easily see a girl having a bad day and a girlfriend cuddling her for comfort, at least. Equally I can see a mother or father cuddling a child. I can see people cuddling with their dogs and even cats if the cat will stick around long enough.

There becomes a point where a friend is more than a friend but still not someone you're in a "relationship" with, although technically you are in a relationship with the person. As far as guys with g/f's, I'd say that's a respect thing. But I've had girl friends who I'd cuddle with if they wanted and think of it as no more than a close friendship. If she had a b/f or me a g/f I wouldn't do it out of respect for the significant other, though.

b

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by spoogenet
Girls aren't usually into meaningless sex....at least not the girls I've known.


first we need to define meaningless, then we can better understand what you're talking about. By meaningless you mean no feeling, then I would say there is a growing group of females that have sex just for the fun of it. If shes having sex for other reason as in for control of a relationship or to get what she wants and there is still no "feelings" for the guy then its not meaningless in her eyes, now is it?

[Whiteclipse99]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
ok, that'd be my definition. And about respect for the male friends & their g/fs...I have respect for them, but none for the g/fs cuz I hate girls.



I'm not the biggest fan of other girls either, but out of respect for your guy friends you should still respect their girlfriends regardless. And besides there is no bond for girls like the bond you have with your girlfriends! :)

[spoogenet]

Originally posted by mt.biker
first we need to define meaningless, then we can better understand what you're talking about. By meaningless you mean no feeling, then I would say there is a growing group of females that have sex just for the fun of it. If shes having sex for other reason as in for control of a relationship or to get what she wants and there is still no "feelings" for the guy then its not meaningless in her eyes, now is it?

Allow me to clarify. What I was saying was more along the lines of "feelingless." I don't know many girls who'll just have sex with a guy, such as a friend with benefits, if she's not interested in more such as a relationship with him. I have noticed that there seems to be a trend for more girls to have sex for fun, but really there's a far larger group of guys who'll do it than girls.

I've also had some female friends exclaim that sometimes girls will appear to be just having sex for fun but they really see it as more than that. How guys interpret the matter vs. how girls interpret the matter can vary a lot.

b

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by spoogenet
I don't know many girls who'll just have sex with a guy, such as a friend with benefits, if she's not interested in more such as a relationship with him.

B where do you live again? cause I need to get away from these dirty girls. Girls around here are getting into the "F U C K FRIENDS" and I've noticed it alot of other places too. It seems to be the thing to do lately, because no one wants to invest in a relationship. Whats even more alarming are these girls who keep it secret and let you get close... ya watch out for them

[Wabster]

I side with Chris Rock. A guy friend to a girl is like a gold dick behind a glass case.

[GirlRacer]

:yes: in case of emergency, break open glass.;)

[Lovebuzz13]

I totally understand where you mom is coming from.

If I had a daughter, and her guy friend was spending the night, he would not be sleeping in her bed. If it was a bf, then that would be different.

Maybe it's just me, but having different guys come over, and cuddle in my bed, and sleep with me, just isn't my thing. Maybe if it's always the same guy, or like two different guy friends...but if it's like 4 or 5 different guy friends you cuddle with, that's just not cool...especially if they had girlfriends. I mean...come on...respect the guy's girlfriend.

It doesn't matter if you guys are doing anything or not. If a guy has a girlfriend, he shouldn't be cuddling up with any other girls, especially while spending the night.

It's also hard to believe nothing happens, even simple making out.

I have a really good guy friend, and I'm always spending the night at his place. I spend the night, cuddle with him, and sleep in his bed...and to be honest- it's not very innocent, actually...it's not innocent at all. But he's the only one I ever spend the night with. It's not like I have 5 guy friends and rotate them around or anything.

[mt.biker]

Lauren, true that... then again no female is innocent

[GirlRacer]

It is hard to believe, but facts be known, nothing happens.

And by the way, did I mention I live alone? It's not like I'd have my friends come into the house that my mother pays for & stay w/me.

I just think its funny that it bothers her about what I do in my own personal household.

[Lovebuzz13]

Oh...ok...I was under the impression you lived with her since she was making it her business.

I can see why she's bothered by it, she's just looking out for you. But yeah, it is your business.

Why does she even know about it?

[GirlRacer]

hehe, ya, she knowz cuz she calls my cell all the time to talk to me & sometimes my friend Drew grabs the phone before I can lunge for it. (haha) And he says Hello??? She says "Is this Drew again?"

haha....just the way it goes, plus, we're pretty open, I talk to her bout lots of stuff.:yes:

[firstgeardude]

does your mom know most of your friends that crash at your place?

could it be that she worries cuz she doesnt know some of the people that stay with you?

[GirlRacer]

No, she doesn't know them, & U bring up a very good point.:yes:

[SolPol]

What's the deal here on this thread? People can do whatever the hell the want as far as I'm concerned. It shouldn't matter what Mom or anyone else thinks. If you wanna have guys sleep in your bed than it's your decision and theirs. If these guys have GFs, it is their choice, not yours.

People worry too much about what others think.

For real

[imports_only98]

the only time ive ever had guy friends stay over is when theyve been drinking or theyre too tired to drive. its a safety thing you know...i dont have em layin up in my bed tho..lol. i love my guy friends but hey...thats my bed! i just think it would harbor some wacky confusing feelings.

and just a side note here....i dont understand why it is so common for girls who are into cars and what not, to hate other girls. i see this way too much!!! its annoying. its like the girls who are into cars complain about the ones who arent and say that theyre petty and all prissy which may be the case, but when a cool girl thats into what theyre into comes around...they dont even give em a chance cuz "theyre girls." what the hell is that???

i do have more guy friends then girls friends but i certainly dont rule out a potentially cool person just bc shes a girl. does anyone else see this??? its effin retarded!

[Rob]

you know that expression, "if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all"...well, I'm keeping my mouth shut..........

[zm_dawg]

crazy wacked out shit lol....what kinda crazy guy friends are we dealing with....everyone knows the other ones going to "her" house to spend the night and "cuddle" this is just way to wierd. I picture 8 gross hicks sleepin with their daughters and sisters in the one room trailer. I can't see how you can hang out with all guys assumingly cause you "hate girls" and do the same thing nightly. drew tonight....sorry drew maybe tomarow billys' cuddle time? crazy...i dont think you can say noone has ever misinterpreted and made an advance and caused some confusion or wierdness between the group of guys and yourself.
sorry i mean whatever your just someone on the boards, but i can't say i'd ever think about about something like this or involve myself with yourself or this group of sharing men....one because of this cuddling practice and the fact that you think your the shit and need all this attention and hate girls...prolly the ones that are a lot cuter than yourself the most and that drew or billy would rather cuddle with....i'm out....not out to attack anyone but i feel dirty reading this

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by spoogenet

I wouldn't necessarily say that cuddling is reserved only for relationships. I personally wouldn't think anything of it to see two girls cuddle. I think girls are a lot more physical with their friendships than are guys, and I could easily see a girl having a bad day and a girlfriend cuddling her for comfort, at least. Equally I can see a mother or father cuddling a child. I can see people cuddling with their dogs and even cats if the cat will stick around long enough.

b

Ok....I can agree with the first part on certain occassions. Say for example a bunch of friends (guys and girls) are loungin around watchin movies...and one of the guys leans into the girl and uses her as a "pillow". I would consider this "cuddling" and it would be ok cuddling. I guess it's when you move that innocent kind of cuddling to the bedroom for a "sleepover" that I have issues with.
As for the second part (the 2 girls cuddling on a bad day thing)....I don't know about all that. Erin and I are the closests of friends and when either one of us has a bad day, sure we'll call each other or go over to each other's places....but we NEVER console each other with cuddling. I guess it would depend on the type of girls. Neither of us are overly emotional in that respect.

[GirlRacer]

Well, I don't appreciate the inference that only hick mofo's would stay with me b/c this isn't the case.

I don't keep ugly friends. Ugly on the inside or out.:rolleyes:

And also, I don't think I ever said that I completely rule out girls to be my friends b/c they're girls. Scroll back up. It's called reading-top to bottom, left to right, group words together to form a sentence.:yes: ;)

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
Well, I don't appreciate the inference that only hick mofo's would stay with me b/c this isn't the case.

I don't keep ugly friends. Ugly on the inside or out.:rolleyes:



1) who made that assumption? I hope that wasn't directed towards me cuz I never once said anything about hick mofos....

2)Just you saying that you don't keep ugly friends on the inside or out is making you ugly to me. (I know not that it matters)...but that's just sort of a rude thing to say....basically saying that all the people that you've meet in your life that aren't your friends are ugly/unattractive is just rude. Especially if those people never did a thing to you.

[imports_only98]

Whoa, slow down there trigger. Thanks for the english tip there, but I don't really think I have any problem understanding sentences. I was referring to this comment you made here:

Originally posted by GirlRacer
And about respect for the male friends & their g/fs...I have respect for them, but none for the g/fs cuz I hate girls.


Did I in some way misunderstand that? It's pretty clear to me the way you think of girls. You're pretty hostile and I don't know why that is, but I was simply asking why certain girls (your name wasn't even mentioned) give other girls who have the same interests crap just because they're girls. So hold off on the negative comments...they're just not necessary. We're all on the same side here.

[GirlRacer]

Originally posted by imports_only98
but when a cool girl thats into what theyre into comes around...they dont even give em a chance cuz "theyre girls." what the hell is that???

;) There's that one

[GirlRacer]

Originally posted by zm_dawg
I picture 8 gross hicks sleepin with their daughters and sisters in the one room trailer.

And there's that one.

I didn't mean you D.

[mt.biker]

wooohooo this is getting interesting... I will bite my tongue though, for the same reasons as rob...
i will say the fangs are out.... boyz run for da hills!

[imports_only98]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
;) There's that one

There's what one?? What are you talking about? Where is your name mentioned in that post?? If you're saying that that "certain girl" is you...then you prove my point in that you are the type of girl to do something like that. And if that's the case, that's ignorant. And if it's not the case, then disregard it, it obviously wasn't meant for you.

[GirlRacer]

I'm not hostile towards girls in general. I'm fine until hostility is displayed to me. Then it's on. :yes: ;)

And as far as ugly people, they usually either have attitude (b/c they know how they look), or they are sickeningly sweet b/c that's the only thing they have to hold on to. Which makes me sick as well b/c it's not real sweetness.:no:

I do feel sorry for them though.:yes:

[imports_only98]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
I'm not hostile towards girls in general. I'm fine until hostility is displayed to me. Then it's on. :yes: ;)

And as far as ugly people, they usually either have attitude (b/c they know how they look), or they are sickeningly sweet b/c that's the only thing they have to hold on to. Which makes me sick as well b/c it's not real sweetness.:no:

I do feel sorry for them though.:yes:

wow

[GirlRacer]

;) Thanx! :yes:

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
And as far as ugly people, they usually either have attitude (b/c they know how they look), or they are sickeningly sweet b/c that's the only thing they have to hold on to. Which makes me sick as well b/c it's not real sweetness.:no:

my jaw hit the floor when I read that

I can't believe you think that and have the guts to say it out loud... my word woman get off that high horse. Not everyone who isn't as "pretty" as you feels bad about themselves like you are implying nor are you the standard that all have to meet.

Is it just me or are we side tracking here?

[GirlRacer]

ahahahahha:D :D :D

GOD I LOVE THIS BOARD! It doesn't matter if we're side tracking or not, people are paying attention to the lady's section & that's exactly what I intended to do! :yes:

GOD I'M GOOD!;)

[GirlRacer]

Originally posted by mt.biker
my gaw hit the floor when I read that

O ya, & it's jaw. with a 'j'.

[mt.biker]

ok then :rolleyes:

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
O ya, & it's jaw. with a 'j'.

thanks teach... my spelling is the shits....

[GirlRacer]

not a problem. I have to watch my dad too.:yes:

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
not a problem. I have to watch my dad too.:yes:

well my guess is if he thinks like me when he types.. its the fact hes not thinking that causes the troubles....

[Rob]

end this thread....my tongue is starting to hurt.......:rolleyes:

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
I'm not hostile towards girls in general. I'm fine until hostility is displayed to me. Then it's on. :yes: ;)

And as far as ugly people, they usually either have attitude (b/c they know how they look), or they are sickeningly sweet b/c that's the only thing they have to hold on to. Which makes me sick as well b/c it's not real sweetness.:no:

I do feel sorry for them though.:yes:

Ok....wow...this whole "ugly" person thing is really really gettin to me. I could careless who you're sleeping in the same bed with...I'm beyond that.....Quin I don't know how you can be soooo self-centered. Do you need a reality check that the whole world DOESN'T revolve around you???? I'm the first person to admit that I'm not a beauty queen....nor will I ever think that way. I don't advertise myself as hot...I know what my flaws are and I know what my assets are. I don't have an attitude because I'm not a beauty queen, nor am I overly sweet towards most people. I have more things going for me than to be sweet to everyone. So, maybe I'm an "exception" to your theory...I dunno...just the whole ugly person thing bothers me for some reason...maybe b/c i'm considered "ugly"

[zm_dawg]

haha...the more you talk the more i see 6 gross guys with you cuddling in the one room trailer. and I don't see how you can say ugly people have a bad attitude because they realize they're ugly...that just doesn't make sense. If someone knows they're ugly they prolly realize they have other positive assets. I just try to understand how some people could think like this...and admit they need attention from anyone that's around....pathetic lol.

if the whole bad attitude theory is right.....your very ugly..and you just are tryin to get the attitude to match how you look...:pukey

[Lovebuzz13]

Wow...I don't know if I should lock this thread, delete it, or let you keep digging yourself into the ground.



I actually feel bad for you right now.

[ohiochica]

and people thought it was just me being bitchy with her......hmmm the truth comes out.

[imports_only98]

Originally posted by Lovebuzz13
It's girls like you who make girls look like cunts.

Exactly!!!!! A lot of female tuners get a bad rap simply because some fly off on tangents like this. It just makes others think we're all like this and that's not the case. Great point Lovebuzz!!

[zm_dawg]

let her keep postin.....i've been waitin for this for a long time actually....everytime she replies to the thread i learn somethin new about her that makes me gasp more then the last time...

[TerKel00]

This is getting wayy out of hand. But yeah...its nice to see the truth come out. I hate ignorant people.

Girlracer..did you think you were going to get a pat on the back for sleeping with your guy "friends". Someones head needs to come out of there ass. Im sorry..but my bf dont spoon with anyone else but me! lol

Kelly~

[juvenile]

Originally posted by zm_dawg
let her keep postin.....i've been waitin for this for a long time actually....everytime she replies to the thread i learn somethin new about her that makes me gasp more then the last time...
HA. Trust me, sometimes that's not even the beginning of it.

Originally posted by ohiochica
and people thought it was just me being bitchy with her......hmmm the truth comes out.
Ditto.

[Turbo_LS_Hatch]

So when can I come stay at your house?;)

J/J, damn it's been forever.

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by Turbo_LS_Hatch
So when can I come stay at your house?;)

J/J, damn it's been forever.

becareful dude... be very careful.... you have NO idea whats going on... no idea at all

[Turbo_LS_Hatch]

Yeah I noticed. I read to about the 2nd page not knowing what's going on. I saw a few of the posts on this page. I'll retract my previous statement, I'm gonna go where it's safe(not here:) )

[zm_dawg]

ahhh......i've been waitin days for a post from her lol.....only thing exciting online at this point in time....

[mt.biker]

you think shes gonna show up in this thread again?

[zm_dawg]

i can't see the tough one just backin right down....she by all means admitted she needs the attention and i'm waitin anxiously lol....not for an invitation for a slumber party just to hear some more intuitive thinkin she's been doin in this time off.

[juvenile]

Originally posted by zm_dawg
just to hear some more intuitive thinkin she's been doin in this time off. :o :D

[GirlRacer]

Nah, I haven't been keepin up w/the replies here, but, I saw some guy was anxious for my reply so, in the interest of wasting more time, for those of you who don't thoroughly read, I'll re-post this for you.

Originally posted by GirlRacer
ahahahahha:D :D :D

GOD I LOVE THIS BOARD! It doesn't matter if we're side tracking or not, people are paying attention to the lady's section & that's exactly what I intended to do! :yes:

GOD I'M GOOD!;)

I won't, however, waste anymore of my time on this post. I was simply trying to draw attention to this desolate section designated for us gals.

I've said it before & I'll say it again. It's called reading. Top to bottom, left to right. Group words together to form a sentence. ;) :kiss:

[zm_dawg]

Yes she finally replied.......don't tell me that you didn't want opinions and did it all for more attention to this board...thats pretty lame....and I don't see why you are tellin everyone how to read?

[juvenile]

Originally posted by zm_dawg
Yes she finally replied.......don't tell me that you didn't want opinions and did it all for more attention to this board...thats pretty lame....and I don't see why you are tellin everyone how to read?
Dude remember, there is some truth to every lie. I'm sure she didn't make 100% of that up.

[zm_dawg]

i never for one second thought she could think of some story like that outta nowhere....i know it's prolly all true she just doesn't want to sound as bad as we all think it is

[DsBlu01CivEX]

so does that mean if I as a female wanted to draw more attention to the female board that I could just go post some "absurd", but completely true, story about myself? Funny I don't post threads in here cuz there are only like 4 females on this board that post with any regularity, and sure I know the boys stop in for a visit and share their infinite wisdom....but seriously I'm not looking for that kind of attention.


Oh and if you plan on using a line from a movie...the least you could do is quote it rather than trying to pass it off as your own...unless of course you wrote the movie, which I highly doubt.

[juvenile]

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
Oh and if you plan on using a line from a movie...the least you could do is quote it rather than trying to pass it off as your own...unless of course you wrote the movie, which I highly doubt.
Was that directed towards me?

[firstgeardude]

Originally posted by juvenile
Was that directed towards me?

dude... i think that message was directed to GirlRacer.. not to you

[zm_dawg]

plagurism sp? is never a good thing ha......

[juvenile]

Originally posted by firstgeardude
dude... i think that message was directed to GirlRacer.. not to you
Oh, ok, cool. Peace.

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
Oh and if you plan on using a line from a movie...the least you could do is quote it rather than trying to pass it off as your own...unless of course you wrote the movie, which I highly doubt.
B!tch got told! and if you was all wondering what movie that was from it was from Tommy Boy

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by juvenile
Was that directed towards me?

Actually it wasn't...but if you're guilty of it...tisk!

[juvenile]

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
Actually it wasn't...but if you're guilty of it...tisk!
I just thought you were talking about this line, "Dude remember, there is some truth to every lie. I'm sure she didn't make 100% of that up." I don't remember where I got it from that's why I didn't quote it...

[mt.biker]

Originally posted by juvenile
I just thought you were talking about this line, "Dude remember, there is some truth to every lie. I'm sure she didn't make 100% of that up." I don't remember where I got it from that's why I didn't quote it...

that lines isn't from a movie... but heres a truth for you "there is more truth said in gest" so deal wit it

[zm_dawg]

******AlerT*********************
I want an update on the guy friend situation........

[juvenile]

Originally posted by zm_dawg
******AlerT*********************
I want an update on the guy friend situation........
eh, there's nothing more to know. All that we know about the situation and the girl (at least the people that do know) know enough to make a strong conclusion about both. To those who don't know, it's messy, no need to know more...