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pdiggitydogg
01-13-2003, 08:43 PM
:help:
this is probably going to sound really stupid but I dont know what I should do... "What are you talking about?" youre asking. Well I'll fill you all in.
My new classes just started last week and in my biology class there is this super pretty girl. All last lecture she keeps sneeking peeks in my direction, and of course I kept doing the same...I mean who cares about biodiverstiy in the rainforest when a pretty female keeps looking at you? Anyways, today was the same, she kept sneeking the peeks and since she sat in front of me I didnt have to sneek...I just looked. Whenever she "stretched her neck" and we were eye to eye she would immediately look away...so did I:paranoid: ... So then at the end of lecture she asks if there were a lot of notes from wednesday (she missed it last week). So I told her there were several pages worth and offered her to borrow my notes to catch up. So then there was some very very minor talk about this and that (like 10 seconds of chit chat) and then she offers me her number; obviously I said yes and she handed me her business card (how fancy :D) w/ her home number on it.
So....now what? Do I call her today? Do I call her tomorrow? Do I not call and talk to her on Wed when class meets? Help me out here. I gotta admit Ive never had digits before I knew a girl well...or at least a little (from either high school or work) and...I dont know how to handle this (yes I am a big dork). I kinda think that calling today would be a little too aggressive...maybe Im wrong?
:help:
mt.biker
01-13-2003, 09:31 PM
considering the fact you dont seem like the chatty type - call her tuesday night to find out if she was able to read your writing and how the note taking goes and yada yada yada about school and try to get the convo onto something more interesting and fast (that is if you're interested).
She was forwards enough to give you her number, in return you should have the balls to call her.
ebpda9
01-13-2003, 09:37 PM
call her now lol. it's only 10:30 and tell her you are desperate jfwy
call her tomorrow dude and do what biker said
pdiggitydogg
01-13-2003, 09:38 PM
thats some phat advice right there. sounds good I'll probably do that
by the way, biker, youre always so cool and relaxed about...everything...like The Fonz!:yes:
mt.biker
01-13-2003, 09:53 PM
Originally posted by pdiggitydogg
thats some phat advice right there. sounds good I'll probably do that
by the way, biker, youre always so cool and relaxed about...everything...like The Fonz!:yes:
yes i am always relaxed, and thank you. I'm sure if you get things roling she will be more then happy to carry her end of the convo considering she was very forward
DsBlu01CivEX
01-14-2003, 04:31 PM
Way to go on the digits...you got me beat! I can't even get that much. But I agree with the "Fonz" to call her Tues...start off with "school talk" and hopefully it'll progress in a forward positive motion. JUST DON'T STRESS....she's just another person.
juvenile
01-14-2003, 06:10 PM
Be like this guy here :bandit: and everything will be alright! :bandit: ;)
pdiggitydogg
01-14-2003, 07:21 PM
Originally posted by juvenile
Be like this guy here :bandit: and everything will be alright! :bandit: ;)
LOL fo shizel! Im gonna call her in a few minutes actually...im in such a good mood right now I should take advantage of it to help me out :yes:;)
juvenile
01-14-2003, 08:16 PM
Exactly...be like that fo shizel ma nizel! :bandit:
Spit out yo best lyrical mircacle lines of the yearacle yo like WHOA! :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: Sorry :loco: :bandit:
pdiggitydogg
01-14-2003, 08:19 PM
wow...it lasted a whole 30seconds....lol...i dont care...maybe she was busy...maybe she doesnt care after all...whatever, nothin can bring me down today!
Racing Rice
01-14-2003, 08:20 PM
Well did you call yet?!?!:crazy:
pdiggitydogg
01-14-2003, 08:28 PM
(yep i did...read my last post)
Racing Rice
01-14-2003, 08:31 PM
lol, sorry.. you must have beat me to that one.:D
Did she blow you off, or just sound preoccupied?
pdiggitydogg
01-14-2003, 08:37 PM
pretty much blew me off. i asked if she was able to read the notes that i gave her and she said "no, im a total procrastinator" or something like that. I said I was the same and then she basically said "ok I'll bring em tomorrow thanks for calling" and that was that
Racing Rice
01-14-2003, 08:49 PM
lol.. maybe shes playing hard to get..
Or maybe you shoulda been like, *in deep sexy voice* "Hey, baby.. What are you going this weekend? I got a spare ticket to paradise if you wanna ride along.. "
:D:D:D:D Sorry, Im just messin with you.
pdiggitydogg
01-14-2003, 09:05 PM
Originally posted by Racing Rice
Or maybe you shoulda been like, *in deep sexy voice* "Hey, baby.. What are you going this weekend? I got a spare ticket to paradise if you wanna ride along.. "
lmao FANTASTIC IDEA...Im gonna call her back RIGHT NOW! :D
Racing Rice
01-14-2003, 09:19 PM
Uh, yeah.. you do that..:crazy: :rambo:
juvenile
01-14-2003, 09:20 PM
Hmmm....well at least you're still :bandit:
Maybe she was just having a bad day...don't worry...she gave you her number! :yes:
mt.biker
01-14-2003, 09:50 PM
mate dont sweat it, if you left a message its all good. If you didn't well... stupid you. There could be a milion reasons why she didn't pick up the phone, one thing i wouldn't do is bother thinking about why she didn't. Just remember she still gave you the number and what not, talk to her in class tomorrow.. maybe start off with "hey you able to read my writting?" or something like that.. then she probably bring up the fact she got your message.. and boom your talking... see walk in the park
pdiggitydogg
01-14-2003, 10:02 PM
i did talk to her...for 10sec :D
ebpda9
01-14-2003, 10:04 PM
well she might have been busy with something else. i know cause if i'm busy or i have something to do i will blow anyone off, no matter who she is or how she looks
pdiggitydogg
01-14-2003, 10:16 PM
meh in anycase its not really bothering me...theres this other girl in my anatomy class that I'd like to get to know too :D then we could study the effects of hormones on the body together first hand LOL :D:D
Racing Rice
01-15-2003, 07:13 AM
Originally posted by pdiggitydogg
meh in anycase its not really bothering me...theres this other girl in my anatomy class that I'd like to get to know too :D then we could study the effects of hormones on the body together first hand LOL :D:D
Way to be! Its better to keep your options open anyhow. ;)
silver
01-15-2003, 01:12 PM
if she is taking peeks at you again look right in her eyes and just smile. if she smiles and puts her head down and gets a little blushed, then you're in. If she just kinda goes "hey" and gives a grin, then she is probably looking at the clock on wall behind you or something. Just go into anything with the confidence that you are the man, nobody is too good for you, and talking to a girl is nothing, you know why? because it holds you to nothing, and they are only words. You'll know in the first 5 minutes of being next to a girl whether she finds you interesting or not, but don't let it be based upon looks alone, speak up and say hi, let her judge all of you. Any man has a chance with any girl, you just have to speak up and take advantage of every oppurtunity before it slips away. You never want to be in a position where you say, what if I had, or maybe if I just would have? it hurts, no regrets dog, go after anatomy girl, go after bio girl, computer girl, and parked next to you girl.
and here is some motivation for you
:banana:
pdiggitydogg
01-15-2003, 07:28 PM
well yeah she does all that stuff. And we talked more today in class...1 problem...shes married and wasnt wearing a ring when I first talked to her because it was getting repaired....so the whole things done with, regardless...Im not getting mixed up in anything like that:no: So now I get to focus on the anatomy girl
ChrisCantSkate
01-15-2003, 07:33 PM
Originally posted by pdiggitydogg
well yeah she does all that stuff. And we talked more today in class...1 problem...shes married and wasnt wearing a ring when I first talked to her because it was getting repaired....so the whole things done with, regardless...Im not getting mixed up in anything like that:no: So now I get to focus on the anatomy girl
yeah thats a problem
mt.biker
01-15-2003, 07:42 PM
keep your distance mate, go after the single ones
pdiggitydogg
01-15-2003, 07:44 PM
^ AGREED, absolutely :yes:
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