Moving in.... [Archive]

GirlRacer

01-01-2003, 11:27 PM

So here's a question for guys & gals.

Let's say you have an apt. What would classify as someone you're seeing, or your b/f or g/f moving in?

Is it when they leave a toothbrush at your place & spend every night w/you...

Is it when they take showers at your place & stay every night...

Is it when they move their clothes in....

Hmmm....???

Rob

01-01-2003, 11:29 PM

I would say it's when they stay there more then where they normally live/stay......

ebpda9

01-01-2003, 11:30 PM

i would say they are moving in when they change their dl with your adress ;)

ShEaNy

01-01-2003, 11:31 PM

kinda like my freind with his girlfriend...WHo lives with her parents!! ahaha..i swear he never goes to HIs (moms) house...weird shit....i do agree with accordboy ;) ;)

GirlRacer

01-01-2003, 11:32 PM

Even if they don't move their clothes in???:hmmm:

Rob

01-01-2003, 11:33 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
Even if they don't move their clothes in???:hmmm:
clothes are optional....aren't they :paranoid:

GirlRacer

01-01-2003, 11:38 PM

:D Depends on what kinda relationship it is I guess... See, I'm just wonderin if you have to move the big stuff in to be classified as such... or if small stuff puts you there too?

Rob

01-01-2003, 11:47 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
:D Depends on what kinda relationship it is I guess... See, I'm just wonderin if you have to move the big stuff in to be classified as such... or if small stuff puts you there too?
I was just messing with you Quin....in my very humble opinion, I think that if you are seriously dating someone then it's going to be standard to leave say a toothbrush or maybe a change of clothes or something....now if they bring the t.v. and the microwave over, then they're moved in....

firstgeardude

01-01-2003, 11:49 PM

its when they empty out your fridge.. or eat all the good stuff and leave behind the less desirable food...

Rob

01-01-2003, 11:51 PM

btw, where are you going with this?

Kyle

01-01-2003, 11:58 PM

moving in is when...they only live in that one place...with all their belongings

pdiggitydogg

01-02-2003, 12:08 AM

i say clothes are pretty serious...that and their own brand of TP. if theyre there a week, theyre not moved in. But if theyre still there on the 8th day...theyre living with you

Rob

01-02-2003, 12:11 AM

Originally posted by pdiggitydogg
iBut if theyre still there on the 8th day...theyre living with you
lol...that sounds like a prophecy....and if they walk on water in your bath tub, it's really serious :crazy: :pfft:

Kyle

01-02-2003, 12:15 AM

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
lol...that sounds like a prophecy....and if they walk on water in your bath tub, it's really serious :crazy: :pfft:
uhhh....lol:crazy:

ChrisCantSkate

01-02-2003, 12:38 AM

when they no longer have their own place.

GirlRacer

01-02-2003, 07:08 AM

O, I'm not going anywhere.... just started wondering...

mt.biker

01-02-2003, 10:42 AM

I'd say its when they spend more time at your apt then they do at their own place. A guy at work as all but moved in with his g/f but still has an apt... i can't understand why but he does.

The toothbrush doesn't really count, but if a b/f starts leaving behind clothing, a razor, buys food and goes to bed with you 5 nights a week he's basically moved in, guess you gotta wonder where he is the other 2 nights though huh? When you start getting his mail, thats it he's in.

KwikR6

01-02-2003, 11:46 AM

I say they have moved in when they start paying friggen rent.....other then that.....they are just staying with you for the time being

GirlRacer

01-02-2003, 12:21 PM

:hmmm: Hmmm..... ;)

Rob

01-02-2003, 05:19 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
:hmmm: Hmmm..... ;)
you have really got me curious now....spill it! :yes:

GirlRacer

01-02-2003, 05:29 PM

well, I was just wondering how many days/nights in a row it takes to constitute living together......:yes:

Rob

01-02-2003, 05:33 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
well, I was just wondering how many days/nights in a row it takes to constitute living together......:yes:
why....whose been sleeping in YOUR bed little Ms. Racerhood????????? :D

GirlRacer

01-02-2003, 05:39 PM

lol! that is so not the point. I have lots of people stay at my place... this is just a hypothetcial situation.

Kinda...;) :paranoid:

Rob

01-02-2003, 05:45 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
Kinda...;) :paranoid:
:hmmm: o.k......I guess I'll leave this one alone...

Kyle

01-02-2003, 06:07 PM

but I WON'T!!!
lol, you know you wanna tell us.:yes:

GirlRacer

01-02-2003, 06:12 PM

:D :hmmm: :paranoid: :no: ;)

Kyle

01-02-2003, 06:14 PM

I know this, because Tyler knows this.

:bandit:

GirlRacer

01-02-2003, 06:20 PM

LOL!!!

<~~~~~ HUGE Fight Club fan. :yes: ;)

Quevv

01-02-2003, 06:22 PM

I'd say they are moved in when you Recieve their mail, they pay rent, they are there every night, and most of their S*** is in your place?

GirlRacer

01-02-2003, 06:25 PM

see, more specifically, what I'm wondering is: Does it have to be like...verbally established? (I.E.-Yes, we live together)

Or can it just implied by all these little things?

juvenile

01-02-2003, 06:35 PM

It could be implied I guess.

Rob

01-02-2003, 07:36 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
Or can it just implied by all these little things?
it can be implied is certain situations....

GirlRacer

01-02-2003, 10:59 PM

and see....THAT is a sticky situation

Rob

01-02-2003, 11:08 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
and see....THAT is a sticky situation
ummmmm...yeah....can you say "understatement"?

mt.biker

01-02-2003, 11:14 PM

wtf is this? I am so lost.. aren't we talking about moving in?

juvenile

01-02-2003, 11:56 PM

Yes. What she is asking is do both the people have to state it to each other, or can it just be implied that they are living together.

Kyle

01-02-2003, 11:58 PM

I think it has to be stated...

Rob

01-03-2003, 12:31 AM

Originally posted by mt.biker
wtf is this? I am so lost.. aren't we talking about moving in?
talk to Quin............

GirlRacer

01-04-2003, 01:28 PM

Originally posted by Kyle
I think it has to be stated...

It 'should' be stated, but alot of the time, I don't think it is.

& Mt. Biker, we are talking about moving in. I'm just saying... it's gets sticky when someone just kinda starts living with you but it's not really a stated thing. They just kinda show up at your place every day. See what I'm saying?

mt.biker

01-04-2003, 01:31 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
& Mt. Biker, we are talking about moving in. I'm just saying... it's gets sticky when someone just kinda starts living with you but it's not really a stated thing. They just kinda show up at your place every day. See what I'm saying?

I see what you're saying, guess it depends if you encourage it or not. If someone shows up and always gets in then you are encouraging their behaviour and they might take it the wrong way... this is one issue i've never dealt with so thats IMO

GirlRacer

01-04-2003, 01:37 PM

Originally posted by mt.biker
this is one issue i've never dealt with so thats IMO

I think it's dealt with more by people w/their own place. Your friends come over & spend the night all the time, some of them WAY more than others. :paranoid:

Rob

01-04-2003, 02:16 PM

I'm glad all of this is cleared up....I hate subliminal messages :crazy:

GirlRacer

01-04-2003, 02:23 PM

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
I hate subliminal messages :crazy:

Who was sending subliminal messages?:crazy: :paranoid:

Rob

01-04-2003, 02:26 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
Who was sending subliminal messages?:crazy: :paranoid:
I was just joking around...you and I know what this thread was really about......

GirlRacer

01-04-2003, 02:27 PM

:paranoid: :foot:

Rob

01-04-2003, 02:38 PM

Originally posted by GirlRacer
:paranoid: :foot:
don't mind me....

:crazy: <--- Rob (me)